I'm scared because we don't seem to have anything to talk about anymore.
Q. Hi everyone, I met this great guy 2 weeks ago. We've been texting non-stop and it's been made clear that we both like each other. He almost always starts the texts and is the one to continue them. But for the last two days, it just seems like ...
A. 19 July 2010: you are somewhat young. but thats normal, and its basically texting, it gets boring and tiring after a while. why dont u start talking to him. he might be happy bout that. and charmed im sure.
and you want to start a relationship, then well try ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him to get lost good and proper?
Q. my boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago fine fine can handle it not! worst still he rings me every three days now i got him tickets to a concert he and i wanted to go to for his birthday and he said he would bring a mate i eas hoping he would ...
A. 26 June 2010: ignore his phonecalls, and my advice dont be friends..... until you are completely over him. be confident that you can find someone else better. ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing?
Q. I've decided to take a break from my bf of almost 3 years. I was sick of him not being too honest with me with the people he's met and accused me of being too friendly. i went through his phone and saw alot of girls he seems to be close to , nothing ...
A. 22 June 2010: thank you for that answer, i totally understand it. the reason i got so worked up because he didnt tell me about it, is because of what we went through, where he emotionally cheated on me with another girl, and i caught him kinda slipping in to that ... (read in full...)
Is he being too posessive?
Q. dear cupid readers, my bf of two years, (on and off) called me up really late at night because he thought i was doign something behind his back, after seeing my facebook wall. He thinks im flirting with so many guys and that its enough, but ther...
A. 12 April 2010: hey thanks for the advice, i get what you mean, and i tried being in his shoes and understanding why he got mad.
But what i dont get, is the other day he was okay and he called me up and was in a pretty good mood, he was telling me how he was thin... (read in full...)
Is he getting too close for comfort with this girl?
Q. My boyfriend has a lot of friends, mostly guys, but some of them girls. There is one girl he is really close to, and I think he talks to her pretty much every day. He has known her for two years, and him and I have been dating for one year. She does ...
A. 9 March 2010: hmm, this is really not surprising, find a way to see how they talk to each other, if it gets too suspicious you're going to have to mention it to him. Very lightly though, I have been in the same situation and i probably still am but i try to get ... (read in full...)
BF wants our LDR to become an open relationship
Q. I have been in a relationship with my guy for over 8 yrs now..since like school days....but it has always been a long distance relationship.. when we started i used to look very pretty and was a very confident girl....n he found this very attracti...
A. 23 January 2010: he just asked you if it's okay to cheat on you but still won't hurt ur feelings. Yes it is the end. you need to tell him its over. HE might change his mind about what he's doing since you're gone and ask to come back, but please don't do this. He... (read in full...)
Should I confess everything to my husband?
Q. i am a wife n a mother. i have been married for the last 5yrs. my husband has gone for offshore job for 2-3 months. last sunday i had sex with my brother-in-law. from that time i am really feeling guilty. should i confess everything to my husband?...
A. 20 January 2010: your brother in law is probably going to tell him sooner or later. AND might blackmail you to have sex with him.
Well think about what might happen, be prepared. secrets like these never really stay a secret.
goodluck... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is perfect so why am I still looking?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for somewhat more than a year now. I'm 24, she's 20, I have a college degree from a top school, and have a stable well paying job. She's in college. I'm pretty intelligent and am fit. She's in good shape too and does ...
A. 17 January 2010: you're simply bored.
grow up before you hurt this girl and its totally obvious you'd regret everything. ... (read in full...)
My husband has taken a lower paying job so that he can study and I am angry about it!
Q. My husband and I Married 1.5yrs together 10. We are both nurses and we moved from one side of the country to the other 1.5 years ago. When we moved my husband worked temp jobs for a little while and I did not seek employment do to anxiety and depr...
A. 17 January 2010: i understand how it can be quite ridiculous for him to settle for that much when you have so many bills to pay. But at the same time, if stress is a major factor in ruining both ur lives. He's really trying to reduce that on himself and you too, and ... (read in full...)
I was breaking out in pimples so I bought an over the counter product and now I look even worse
Q. Hey there, ok so im 15 yrs old and I started breaking out bad on my forehead on the left side of my cheek. Im kind of like a drama queen so i couldnt handle it anymore so i went out and bought Proactiv. I started using it for about 2 weeks and it ...
A. 17 January 2010: hey, my friends acne got worse after using proactiv. I guess it's too strong for your skin type, but everyone goes through that awful burning sensation.
Lsn try going for natural remedies.
Baking Power has been great for me , at first i used it ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and really ready for a baby... got money and stuff, what do you think?
Q. hi, i am 14 and want a baby..ive cared for babys all of mii life n have the money for it...i kno a baby is alot of work and its all about the baby and u come last..but i dont care.. i wanna have a baby to love me and share their feelings wit me n ...
A. 15 January 2010: i think what you need is a boyfriend, the way you're describing how you want someone to care for you, its just.... lsn, u think its that easy to balance work and school, ur crazy, ur overating the idea of it. and i dont think ur mom would be that ... (read in full...)
My relationship has hit a two year glitch
Q. Dear Agony Aunts I am finally in a commited relationship after some help from this website a few years ago. Thank you. But relationships seems to become more complicated as I progress further into them. Everything seemed 'lovely dovel...
A. 10 January 2010: i agree with the Caringguy - u need to have a heart to heart conversation with her, or else this will go downhill quite fast.
It's not easy to be committed at such a young age as ur self, and thing like this will always pop up and is cons... (read in full...)
The pain from the terrible relationship with my first love came back after 3 years without warning, is this normal?
Q. My first love used me and killed me emotionally for over a year and the pain after 3 years came back without warning. Is it normal for it to resurface without a trigger and after so long. ...
A. 7 January 2010: nononono not pathetic, it may be sad, but no offence, to see that even after such a long time you still hold such dear feelings towards her and the memories, but you have to know that you can't just stop living ur life.
You will find someone so m... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is on online dating sites and I'm NOT happy about it!
Q. Hi there, My boyfriend is 5 years younger than me, I'm 28 and we love one another and we're living together but there are a few things I'm not happy about our relationship. He loves going out and barely asks me to go out together. Also I...
A. 5 January 2010: no hes cheating on you, confront him, if he doesnt drop it then im sorry he doesnt care for you or ur respect. he probably already went on a number of dates behind ur back, i dont know how u can stand it. goodluck... (read in full...)
The pain from the terrible relationship with my first love came back after 3 years without warning, is this normal?
Q. My first love used me and killed me emotionally for over a year and the pain after 3 years came back without warning. Is it normal for it to resurface without a trigger and after so long. ...
A. 5 January 2010: something MUST have triggered ur memories to come back,but you don't know it or realized it. and no its really normal, since it was ur first love, and well ur young lol. I'm kinda going through that, but after a while (don't ask me how long lol) i ... (read in full...)
My first time was not a good experience and now has me doubting that I might be gay!
Q. im 20 yrs old and im wondering if am i gay??? because i just lost my virginity to a girl complete stranger i dont know i just met her and did it. i thought the sex was gonna be real good cause its my first time but it wasnt hers and it was good but ...
A. 5 January 2010: hey ur not at all "gay" lol. Ur just confused by ur performance in bed, and u probably had high expectations.
watching porn has maybe highlighted how hardcore it is, so lsn it was ur first time, and u said u enjoyed it, so what's the problem? Ur j... (read in full...)
My ex is threatening to rape me!
Q. help! im 16 and i jus broke up with my now ex bf who is 19 bc he kept pressuring me to have sex. now he wont leave me alone! he keeps txting me, threatening tht he is going to rape me! his texts say: "listen beautiful, u know u want me, and your gona...
A. 14 December 2009: show that message to someone that has the authority to seriously kick his punk ass butt!! LIKE NOW... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a nice guy? I think he is lying to me!
Q. Hi Thanks all of your time. Dear All I with my BF have been together around 3 years. We are stay together about 2 years, He is a Swiss guy (from Switzerland), and I am Asian girl (Chinese). We were break up with 2 month+ ago. I was confused and...
A. 14 December 2009: This must be very confusing for you, but i think he's just playing around with you, if he really did love you, he would've shared every opportunity with you, where ever he was. Dump him and you deserve better. Let him know you're not there to just ... (read in full...)
Sex has grown pointless to me. Do I need help?
Q. I'm wondering if this is normal or not. Everytime I get physical with a guy it never does anything for me. No amount of fingering, oral sex or sex in general feels good to me at all. I've never had an orgasm from someone else and it's just ...
A. 30 November 2009: i totally feel the same, was about to post a question on this. i dont like sex either and i dont orgasm either. wat im doing is taking a break from it.
goodluck... (read in full...)
I'd dump my boyfriend if another guy asked me out... so am I using him till then?
Q. So i have this boyfriend and hes amazing. And i absolutely love him! But theres this guy who i go to school with (I dont go to the same school as my boyfriend)(we'll call the guy from school guy Number 2), and hes one of those guys who flirts ...
A. 22 November 2009: you don't love him, it's better you end this for something as silly as that. i feel sorry for your soon to be ex. I wouldnt be surprised if you end up regretting the break up for someone else who, im sorry to judge but is not serious at all.
i... (read in full...)
My friend is engaging in prostitution..should I tell someone so he will stop?
Q. Dear Cupid This is really more a friendship question more than anything. One of my really close friends has recently been alluding to the possibility that he is prostituting himself to other men. (He is openly gay.)He makes jokes about it, and ha...
A. 21 November 2009: doesn't he understand the risk of catching aids, HIV, and other STD's can ruin his and his mothers life. It's enough that she has cancer and for him to be THAT young, is just crazy. I wouldn't be surprised if he gets raped from his "clients" and ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my ex and learn to trust again?
Q. Why do I miss my ex now? He was not a very nice guy at all, he was untrustworthy, a cheater, and manipulative. I thought he genuinely cared about me, because he would make it a point to tell me so. But when I caught him in lies it was just hea...
A. 21 November 2009: You guys shared alot of memories together, and it's become a daily routine in your head (when you were together) to think of eachother as you were both lovers at some point. so its pretty normal to be thinking bout him even thought he wasn't a very ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about sleeping with my boyfriend. Any advice?
Q. I want to sleep with my boyfriend but I am not on the pill nor do I want to go on the pill, but I am worried that by just using condoms that I will fall pregnant, he says he will be careful but I'm not sure....
A. 15 November 2009: get on the pill, but for it to work, u must be on it for a couple weeks, using condoms is the safest way too but it seems its ur first time, best way is to make sure ur bf knows how to put a condom on properly, if you think that u might fall ... (read in full...)
Should I be jealous of this picture with my boyfriend being kissed by another girl?
Q. So this is a question of whether or not i should be jealous, i opened my fb and i see a tagged picture of my bf, with a girl giving him a big side smooch on his cheek, but thats it, no other picture. for some reason im not bothered but i feel like ...
A. 13 November 2009: so he just untagged the picture, should i be suspicious?... (read in full...)
Conflicted in having to choose between my girlfriend and my out of state job offer
Q. I'll keep it short: I am 20 and I live in Texas. I have an oppurtunity for a good job in New York doing what I love doing. My girlfriend of several years, however, is reluctant to move out of Texas. I love her more than anything, but I'm having ...
A. 13 November 2009: i dont think you should sacrifice this opportunity and stay for ur gf's sake, esp in this time of recession. You can show her that you can make a good living and support her to how that you won't forget her. she can't make you stay out there, ... (read in full...)
How do I stop him from going away (after he slept with Thai girls the last time?)
Q. How do I stop him from going away? Hi all, Me and my partner have been together for three years now and have just had a baby together, recently my boyfriend went to Thailand for a nice holiday after coming home from deployment (he's in the ...
A. 13 November 2009: oh my, CONFRONT HIM. he needs to know exactly why you are not okay. Does he know that you DO know that he did sleep around?
tbh, a break up is a serious way to say im done wit hwat ur doing, and it will give him a huge wake up call, thats IF he l... (read in full...)
14 year old girl scared about sex with her 15 year old boyfriend
Q. my boyfriend is 15 and he wants to have sex with me but i don't know if i want to remain abstinent or have sex with he says he's ready when i'm ready but i don't think thats true and he might dump me i'm scared though that it will hurt and i will be ...
A. 4 November 2009: if your bf decides to break up with you because of that, then he does not care for you and only for his sexual needs, you are too young to be worrying about making love. it should be done with someone you deeply care about and loves you back and... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but is chatting to girls online!
Q. ive been in this relationship for two years now-one of which my boifriend was in the states. he'd tell me he loved me and everything, but after he came back we continued on like he never left. after a while i got ahold of him email addresses and ...
A. 2 November 2009: confront him PRONTO!
Do not feel ashamed to do that, because you got into his accounts. this was bound to come out sooner or later.
take care of yourself. i dont see the need to explain why you have to confront him btw. ... (read in full...)
I can't eat or sleep for fear she's cheating!
Q. Now that i am aware of my fiancee cheating on me at least once in the past I keep getting paranoid that she is still being unfaithful. Since i called her out on cheating on me (around 3.5 months ago) sex and anything of the nature has been almost ...
A. 2 November 2009: go for it.
take some time, rethink your feelings towards her, the fact that there is sucha big wall between you two, just doesnt make sense why you would continue.
you haven't been appreciated by ur fiance at all, especially after forgivin... (read in full...)
Should I just break up with my boyfriend and live my life?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for just over two years now. We have a good relationship, but I'm no longer sure about if we should be together. The reasons why I doubt the relationship is that he can be really aggressive and (in my opinion) selfish and ...
A. 31 October 2009: you do not seem to love him anymore, i think he can live without you, and this offer you got, is a sign you should leave and be by yourself. Do it. You have already answered your question with this quote: Also, should I just break up with him and ... (read in full...)
How do I reply to his text?
Q. Hey everyone. So I have been devasted and lost for the past week and a bit because my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me. It was a shock and I haven't been able to function properly all week. His is reasons for breaking up with me were the ...
A. 31 October 2009: he regrets it, but that is the silliest reason ive heard so far, for a breakup. I also think his friends advised him to do it. Because if they were okay with you, they wouldnt have let this happen. Ofcourse it gets kinda awkward, not everyone can ... (read in full...)
What to do?? I am I being too possesive?
Q. Hello, Am i being too posessive? i was with my boyfriend and he got a text of this random number, that hadn't been saved on his phone. when i asked who it was, he replied, " i don't know it's been texting me all week".so i started to text the number ...
A. 27 October 2009: nope, hes the one who had the nerve to "suddenly" remember who it was. To be honest, i think you should tell him its over, what ever you have with this girl, you can continue, and im not going to stand it and be in the middle of anything. you have ... (read in full...)
I only touched it twice and he came right away! Is this normal?
Q. I have very little experience when it comes to guys, but me a this guy were french kissing and his hands were everywhere and I could feel he was exteremely turned on, next thing he had his pants down and put my hand on his penis and I only touched ...
A. 24 October 2009: lool, it seems he was too patient to not cum, some guys get too excited and jsut small things can make them ejaculate even when nothing has been done. it might have been precum too. next time be sure theres a condom around or make sure ur on ... (read in full...)
Why does he text me so much? Does he feel bad for me...or does he have feelings for me?
Q. So my boyfriend just broke up with me a few days ago and that is when me and one of my guy friends started texting on our phones around 7 at night and we texted until 12:30 in the morning and the next night we texted each other until 1:30 in the ...
A. 24 October 2009: he's taking his chance with you now that you are single.
i dont think he pities you, but that all depends on what you guys talk about. if this goes on any longer, its definitely him acting like a shoulder to cry on for you, so he can move in.
go... (read in full...)
I love him but whats going on in his head?
Q. I have dated a boy for nearly 2 years now.I truley thought that i loved him.But it seems all the wrong things i have done by him in the time that we have been dateing has taken its toll.I dont no what to think Due to the fact that he has started ...
A. 24 October 2009: tell him, im way better than you in a million ways, and that if im a slut, then what are you.
don't give him the light of day, you deserve someone better and the fact that he didnt appreciate it, shows how inconsiderate he really is to your feel... (read in full...)
I'm still in love with my ex and I don't know if I should try and move on or wait around for him?
Q. some of you lot have probably read my posts from before lol. but basically i have dumped my boyfriend now, and i know how much i love my ex. and now i have been talkin to one of his best mates for a while now, and she is quite new to the town, so...
A. 24 October 2009: MOVE ON.
it's not easy but it's also that simple.
you do not want to date someone that you clearly know wont be faithful to you. and deep down you know it. The fact that he's got girls on the go for him, shows he is no where close to being se... (read in full...)
Was my boyfriend just trying something new or was I right to react the way I did?
Q. im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. we had been fighting lately and just got back together last night. i went over his house last night and we worked it out. so we were just sitting there watching tv, him on the couch and me in the chair next to ...
A. 24 October 2009: Hun, I'm sorry to say, but he just raped you. period.
he did not want to try something new, your friend is retarded no offence, but if someone was to tell me this has happend to them. I'd kick his ass the minute i see him.
you need to go get your... (read in full...)
She's unsure and doesn't want to try in case it ruins what we have, should I move on or keep trying?
Q. I've been really close with this girl, i met her about 5 months ago now. Since we met i've always had that sort of feeling for her and i think she had it for me too. About a month ago i couldn't stand it any longer so i sent her an email telling her ...
A. 24 October 2009: well this is confusing, Are you sure she was sincere in saying she did like you after all, i had a friend who kinda went the same way as you, and told this girl he really liked her, she was on and off just like your girl here.
shes probably scar... (read in full...)
How can I see her?
Q. what can i do? im so in love with my gf..but she moved alway to riverside. n im comin out here 15. we berly see each other. on friday to sunday. but now i only see her sum saturdays n sundays. man idk its hard to be with her. i dont want to break up ...
A. 26 September 2009: if you loved her that much, you'd be patient and just be happy you have her in your life. my bf and i live in different cities. but its just a half hour away and we still dont see each other all the time. but we're not worried, just worry that we ... (read in full...)
Broke up, now talking again, but unsure where its going?
Q. I was with my ex for 2 years. It was a great relationship.. everything was perfect. He treated me great and we were really serious. However, we are both too young (20 and 21) to get as serious as things were progressing. Basically, we broke up ...
A. 26 September 2009: i just got back with my guy after 3 months of not talking too. and i was the one who wanted to take things slow, but he told me that i knew u too well to start all over again, i didnt believe that, but after a month i have to say, if you guys truly ... (read in full...)
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