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writes:So my boyfriend just broke up with me a few days ago and that is when me and one of my guy friends started texting on our phones around 7 at night and we texted until 12:30 in the morning and the next night we texted each other until 1:30 in the morning while also texting each other at different parts of that day. We then texted each other during the day the next day and until 11:30 that night. Yesterday, we texted for 13 hours straight (we were both busy with school and work so we'd text each other when we had a free moment, but never once said goodbye until one of us went to bed that night). Now, before I was single, we would text, but never for that long or that late. Not since before when we were both single. Thing is though he isn't right now, which makes me very confused. I mean, I thought at first he was texting me so much because he felt bad that my boyfriend had broken up with me and this was my second break up of this year, but now I'm not so sure.Is it just because he feels bad or he feels something more than just friends for me and if so, what am I going to do or what should I do...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey, everybody, thank you so much for all of your advice!
just to give you a quick update: we ended up texting each other yesterday for 7 1/2 hours and i did ask him why we were texting so much and he said that he isn't doing it because of pity or feeling bad with me getting dumped this past week. he also mentioned how we fade in and out or in other words we talk then we don't and that's just kind of our thing though he has no idea why we do that.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 October 2009):
There are only two answers. Either he feels guilty, or he's playing with you a bit to see if you'll hang around or agree a friends with benifits relationship. My advice is to tell him you need space to get over him, then don't bother contacting him.
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reader, lola29  +, writes (24 October 2009):
he's taking his chance with you now that you are single.
i dont think he pities you, but that all depends on what you guys talk about. if this goes on any longer, its definitely him acting like a shoulder to cry on for you, so he can move in.
goodluck
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reader, roxyrex +, writes (24 October 2009):
 Well ask him.If u luv him go along with it
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