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anonymous
writes:my boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago fine fine can handle it not! worst still he rings me every three days now i got him tickets to a concert he and i wanted to go to for his birthday and he said he would bring a mate i eas hoping he would bring me he brought a girl he said he didn't like from work because thier was no one else and she loved the music. i asked could we try again with our relationship after going out so many years he said he was confused and ring me sunday. my birthday is today and he has gone off with his mates so i reckon he has no intention for us and hes no more confused then the next one how do i tell him get lost good and proper or even get even with him cos the fact he didn't turn up for my birthday is the icing on the cake!!!!!
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reader, romany  +, writes (26 June 2010):
 Its over, You've been involved in his life for a long time, and he is probably calling you to see how you are, as he feels guilty, he knows your not dealing with the breakup well, and because you want him back, you are reading his compassion as interest in rekindling the relationship, but its over, and your not seeing it.You can't really be friends with an ex until the wounds have healed, so you need to just break away from him,if he calls, tell him you can't be his friend at the moment, and goodbye, and then move on, and have no more to do with him while you feel this way.Dont bother getting even with him, it wont make you feel better, and you'll only regret it.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 June 2010):
Ignore all calls, all messages. Everything. Cut him out of your life. Try anything else and you'll never get over him. You're no longer together, and it's time for you to just cut all contact and move on. Send one last message saying goodbye, then leave it at that.
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reader, lola29  +, writes (26 June 2010):
ignore his phonecalls, and my advice dont be friends..... until you are completely over him. be confident that you can find someone else better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2010): Just drop him. ~he is wasting your time and youre wasting your life hoping. He brings a girl along with him to a concert, doesnt seem like he wants to be with you but seeing your still acting like his girlfriend i guess he will take advantage of you. Dont even bother to try and convince him that you both can make things work out if you got back together, he doesnt sound interested.The problem is not him...it is you. ~Stop acting like his girlfriend and get on with your life and he will soon enough disappear.
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