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writes:some of you lot have probably read my posts from before lol.but basically i have dumped my boyfriend now, and i know how much i love my ex. and now i have been talkin to one of his best mates for a while now, and she is quite new to the town, so i have known my ex longer than she has known him for. but basically now she is telliing me that my ex and her had a thing going on, and one of his best mates saaid to him why dont you ask her out, your really close and suit and all that, and he said yeh but im having fun playing her around, and i got some others on the go too. :\so now this girl is telling me that i need to be careful and she admitted she will always have this thing for him, but i got to find a way to get over him, as he will just play me around, and hurt me again, and again ! and i know how much i love him but at the same time i don;t want to link him. so im really confused. shall i just do all it takes to move on, even though i know i will give up as it won't work. or shall i just stay where i am, but keep my options open, so any new boy who comes into my life, to see where i go with them, but still keep in touch with my ex. im so confused , and at the moment he is ignoring me and i don't know what ive done wrong ! but i love him so much !! x
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reader, loveuxoxo  +, writes (24 October 2009):
 sweetie its simple move on. you deserve better. waiting around isnt doing anyyy good for you. put yourself out there and meet new people. i know you still love him but just try to move on. give yourself time and meet new people. dont talk to him anymore. keep him out of your life. its time to move on and be happy. he dont deserve youhope this helpsss
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reader, Druggggggy +, writes (24 October 2009):
 trying to stop loving him is a bit pointless, you'll just love him more. but keep your options open :) you'll meet someone better.
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reader, lola29  +, writes (24 October 2009):
MOVE ON.
it's not easy but it's also that simple.
you do not want to date someone that you clearly know wont be faithful to you. and deep down you know it. The fact that he's got girls on the go for him, shows he is no where close to being serious with ANYONE for now.
Meet new people, open your mind for a new boy to make you happy. Dont waste your time with him, if he ignores you, treat him the same way, and you never knwo he might realise wat a mistake hes done. But until then, you need to enjoy ur life all together, YOU ARE YOUNG. and have so much to look forward to and to experience.
Don't waste it on someone that can't give you the time of day. goodluck and tc of yourself
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reader, Shiny Moon  +, writes (24 October 2009):
pls move on with your life. dont go back and go thru all the pain and trouble again.
forget ur past and make a fresh and new start.
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