My husband never shows me any affection, what do I do?
Q. hello to all the readers of this. Im still young still in my early 20's and im married for the 2nd time. The first marriage ended after 3 years of him beating me. I finally left him. Well i was single for about 3 years and now im married to a ...
A. 7 August 2009: get some counseling quick before you leave again.. and this time it seems you have the best .you and him just need to work on afew things and life with get better.. reach out and talk to your clergy and get some counseling . iam sure he will go wi... (read in full...)
We are trying to have a baby, with no sucess, any suggestions?
Q. Hey im 20 nearly 21 and me and my boyfriend are tryin for a baby. Iv come off the pill but just doesnt seem to happen for us as much as we try. I find after sex that half of the cum seems to leave me as soon as i get up from the bed. Its reall...
A. 6 August 2009: well you could lay upside down and stay that way after he provides the juice with in you. or you could go to a baby doctor and get some advise regarding this subject..just a shot in the dark but i think you could get a better answer than here..... (read in full...)
She's sending mixed messages but I want to be with her!
Q. I was with my girlfriend for almost five years. We lived together for a long time, but we recently decided to call it quits. At the time it seemed like the correct decision, as we both had questions/concerns about where our relationship was going. ...
A. 5 August 2009: my friend ..what ever dont break up if you dont have to ,,life is good..but its hard to lose the one you love .
treat her as best you can but realize,there might be another,since you left.u may not want to hear that but there may be...if not work... (read in full...)
Sleeping with the enemy.
Q. Sex with an enemy. Well sort off, I have fallen out with an ex friend after he ruined my chances of promotion by copying my proposal and sending it in at the same presentation to the board. I have always liked his wife and she used to really like me ...
A. 1 August 2009: your a nut ..get some morals..try counseling it works..
leave another mans women ,family or animals alone..
realize that you have ruined a family ..why? revenge..sad.
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We stayed together after her affair, but she's not happy!
Q. My wife had an affair last year. We are still together as I was desperate to keep things together. The thing is, she doesn't seem very happy. I'm certain she's not seeing this chap anymore but she seems so miserable all the time and cry's whenev...
A. 31 July 2009: reach out fella ...she needs to grieve over and do closure with the situation about affair..she had..
get her in to counseling asap...either clergy or paid counseling..asap..she needs help..right now.... (read in full...)
I've tried to trust but just can't. I don't want to be alone forever!
Q. I was sexually abused when i was a child so i have very little trust in men as i've got older the guys i've dated have been abusive and cheated on me. Now i'm at the stage where i just can't trust, i've finally met a guy who treats me like a ...
A. 30 July 2009: first of all ,give thanks to God that your 20 years old.. then realize that you have a life time to enjoy life and then take alook at getting some counseling and get a brand new lease on life ..your in a place i wished i was..truly i do..now ... (read in full...)
I ran into my childhood crush, things were going great, we slept together...and now he seems more distant
Q. I made a big mistake. You would think a woman 44 years old would know better. I ran into a man i had a huge crush on when I was in High School. We bacame friendly while online where we belonged to many of the same sites. Once we exchanged phone ...
A. 30 July 2009: you gave up to much ..he got the gold now he doesnt want the left overs and hes gone.. you should have been more ..sticking to the morals and see how he really felt about you..he got to have the honey and now he doesnt want anymore..its over..mo... (read in full...)
I cheated. How do I prove I'm not that person anymore?
Q. I cheated on my ex bf for about a month in April. We lived together 5 out of the 7 months we were together. Things got really difficult because he was having financial and family problems while i felt we were drifiting away. I realized our fla...
A. 30 July 2009: move on ...one the hardest things to come back from is adultery...cheating for short..put your self in his shoes ..how would you react..he doesnt trust you anymore..
you sleep with another guy for 30 days move on..
there is one way you can poss... (read in full...)
I'm the Other Woman...How do I break away from this man?
Q. I need help! Help me get over this mm, I don’t like this relationship that I’m in, as good, great and as much as I love it.. I don’t want to be the other woman.. it hurts.. hurts like hell!!! So help me… how do I break away from this man! I’m ...
A. 28 July 2009: a good book its called codependency no more by claudia black..cost about 25.oo dollars..great book read it this will help you get out of the relationship your in..the other women..take care..... (read in full...)
My long distance relationship is over but he still wants me to see him!
Q. ive been in a long distance relationship for 8 months . and on friday i am going to see him for the weekend but last night he said he doesnt tink its working out.spoke to him today and he said he still wants me to go and see him and he still loves ...
A. 27 July 2009: its most likely a bootie call and you dont need that ..guys are good at bootie calls and especially if they are breaking up with you..if this is true ..well watch out..
talk to him but dont offer up some bootie ok..
let him talk and you listen t... (read in full...)
Relationship ruined because of a picture of his parts??
Q. Okay. Here is my situation. My girlfriend and I have been friends for almost 3 years now. In those 3 years we have been the type of friends who talk about their relationships with one another. This is my situation. Before we started dating I...
A. 27 July 2009: get over it ..if you loved the girl..its going to be ok.. not every guy is overly endowed ..its ok..the regular size of a guy is 5.2 inches ..76% are at that size ..so dont worry..not only that your girls anatomy down there is flexable and usually ... (read in full...)
Husband wants to stay in the family home while continuing his affair
Q. Hi there I would really appreciate people's perspective on my situation. I'm dealing with a lot of emotional pain having learnt that my husband of nearly 21 years has been seeing another woman. Admittedly our marriage was a struggle wi...
A. 27 July 2009: first you need some counseling ...regarding being codependent and also some self esteem issues..are a miss.. let this joker go if your value your kids..it doesnt sound like counseling will do for him..he wants his cake and to eat it too...ki... (read in full...)
Very complicated....Two men in my life!
Q. I have been sleeping with my oldest child's father for the last 2 1/2 years....However I have been married for 12 1/2. My husband and I have definitely had major hurdles in our marriage and I feel very unappreciated and he takes me for granted,I had ...
A. 27 July 2009: you need some help ..so does your present husband and your exboyfriend......dont you realize what goes around comes around so sad and you think you have an arrangement .you figure if you dont say anything its right..where's the reality or morals ... (read in full...)
Texting his co-worker 30-40 times a day but says nothing is going on
Q. My husband has been texting a female co-worker at work. Sometimes a multiple of 30 times a day.She is a lot younger than he is. I found out. He swears nothing is going on. Do I believe him, or am I being stupid to think that nothing is going...
A. 27 July 2009: wake up he is doing something and you need to kick him in the ass and let him go..when i text my girl i dont even text her that much..when you text your coworker that much ,yes something is going on..realize its time to either move on or except a... (read in full...)
I am badly bullied!
Q. I am badly bullied. I have a black eye because a boy punched me for disagreeing with an idea of his. I'm scared to sleep. Girls have threatend to do things... bad things. The throw stones at me. They, hit and kick me. I don't ride my bike ...
A. 26 July 2009: well its time to reach out and enroll in a martial arts school ..not only do you learn how to defend your self but you can learn disapline too..get going ..it works..i use to be a 97pound weakling ..now iam a 145lb pound bruce lee. and i get the ... (read in full...)
How can I end this abusive relationship safely? And is there any way I can restore the self-esteem he has damaged?
Q. Hey everybody. I don't know what to do. I have recognized that I'm in an abusive relationship. It's a mixture of extreme control/jealousy, verbal abuse, slight physical ("play hitting", has hit me 1 time, threatens to punch/hit me if I dont do somet...
A. 26 July 2009: read codependency nomore by claudia black..by the book. it will be the best money you ever invested..take care. anybook store should have it..... (read in full...)
I had my heart broken in the past and became cold-hearted. Then I opened my heart to this girl...but she is pulling away. Why is this happening?
Q. So, I never in my life chased after women. Just a male ego. I had fun with girls here and there that came my way but never chased after one, because i've been heart broken in the past and i'm not ready for that again but it seems like its happening ...
A. 26 July 2009: fella iam going to be up front with you..this girl has issues and you need to realize some big ones..and one of those is committment..and the other is that she doesnt want the good guy she wants the guy she can see is bad for her.. sad but true..ta... (read in full...)
I thought we left too much unsaid; she doesn't want deep conversations; should I reach out?
Q. My gf broke up with me after a fight. We kept talking as friends but she couldn't bring herself to see me. I had a feeling something else wasn't right and after 3 months she finally told me exactly why she was so aprehensive in seeing me. One ...
A. 26 July 2009: move on ..4 months is to long ..move on down the road and find the right one..this one isnt it..move on down the road..asap.... (read in full...)
I've always dated me who treated me badly -- this guy might be different. Have I messed it up?
Q. Hi! I am a typical girl who has always dated men who treated me badly. For some reason, I found jerks attractive. I recently met a man who seems nothing like the jerks I previously have met, he is mature, direct, kind, secure within himself, and ...
A. 26 July 2009: you got something everygirl wants youve got a great guy.. ask a few more questions and find out what makes him great. get to know him..if your looking only for sex...then so be it.. .. but if you looking for the mind/heart to ..give him a chance m... (read in full...)
Whether to go or not to go...
Q. To go or not to go? that is the question. The guy i like lives 8 hours away, its apparently a rule that the guy should come see u, we havent met yet and i AM DYING TO SEE HIM. He cant afford it though and nor can i. my friend told us to talk and ...
A. 24 July 2009: i would say the best policy is honesty...your doing what is right for you..dont compromise your morals for one nite of fun in bed..stick to your guns..if its just a harmless 1st time visit then visit if you have the ride.. say hi and talk and get... (read in full...)
How do I tell my ex that I have an STD when he wont even talk to me?
Q. I found out that i have a std after my boyfriend and me broke up. I don't think i got it from him. I think i caught it from someone before we got together. We've had unprotected sex 3 times. Now were not on talking terms. I wanna tell him bc i know ...
A. 24 July 2009: give him a call and allow him to know..pronto...its the only way ..your over now but you can let him know.
or send him a letter or drop the message your self at the house in an envolope..okay...... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my annoying boyfriend without breaking his heart
Q. im with this lad that really gets on my nerves everythin he does annoys me so ive bin thinkin about finishing it but he keeps saying he needs me an he cant live without me an it will break his heart if i finish it we have only bin together 5 an a ...
A. 24 July 2009: your young and carefree. its time to go and allow this guy to grow up and get dry behind the ears and learn life is to live not stop living ..ms.female ..your better off with out him since its only 5months into the relationship anyway..
move on..... (read in full...)
My mom wants me to spend less time with my boyfriend!
Q. Ok Here's my problem. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. I love him to death and he loves me just the same, our relationship has had some really rough times and he broke up with me for one whole day. and we patchd things up...
A. 24 July 2009: are you under 18 if so i would listen to mom..if not you need to make up your own mind some time...its nice to ask moms help but sometime you have to make your mind up..and go with what your gut says ..you can do it..but if your under 18,,take moms ... (read in full...)
After I told him I didn't want a one-night stand, he's stopped responding to my messages.
Q. Ok so i recently met a guy that was friend with one of my bestfriends boyfriend and we hit it off from the start next thing you know we are making out. Then my girlfriend and i left that night. So he messaged me on facebook after we became friends ...
A. 24 July 2009: let him go ..sometimes the best medicene is to let them go and if they really want you the person ..he will come back,if not your better with out him ...learn from the
message he gave up...he only wants lust not love.... (read in full...)
Is cheating wrong with one other person?
Q. I am on here to ask for advice and comments. I have a child by my man who is 30 years older than me. We have love for each other, however im not in love with him. I have cheated on him twice sexually and don't really regret it because he can't ...
A. 9 June 2009: let him go and do it quick...your going to kill him if he finds out you cheated...and he will die by stroke and or heart attack ...your husband doesnt need to love you to death and then its over..you deserve what you need and so does he..he isnt ... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend notice that I slept with someone else?
Q. I have a problem that needs some answers. I am in a relationship with my boyfriend and we don't have sex all the time because we don't live together. But when we are together we do. But I had sex with someone else and it was really good. I know when ...
A. 5 June 2009: dear female 18-21,
put your self in his shoes..how would you feel if he did the same thing to you..
he fell inlove with your interqualities and not your size or shape down there..it sounds like youve already moved on from him..i guess dear female ,... (read in full...)
She dumped me but still wants to hang out!
Q. My now ex GF dumped me almost two months, now she's coming back into the picture. we chat online sometimes and whenever I tell her I'm going clubbing ,to the movies, to a friends BBQ, or for a ride in my motorcycle she asks me if I want to take her. ...
A. 28 May 2009: move on down the road ..unless you like to be the rest and not the best..find your self a real women who wants what you have and leave it at that ok..let go of the past and move on...you will always thinking about the other guy if you stay..... (read in full...)
Is it okay too have sex with a girl you don't really like, when you like someone else?
Q. is it okay too have sex with a girl you dont really like when you like someone else ?...
A. 28 May 2009: well ,,tell you what put your self in her shoes or better yet think about her boyfriend and if she doesnt have one..
put your self in those shoes..would you be ok if i was the other guy and was boinking her and she was your girl and you knew i had ... (read in full...)
Texting his co-worker 30-40 times a day but says nothing is going on
Q. My husband has been texting a female co-worker at work. Sometimes a multiple of 30 times a day.She is a lot younger than he is. I found out. He swears nothing is going on. Do I believe him, or am I being stupid to think that nothing is going...
A. 28 May 2009: read between the lines..then go get counseling and or talk to your clergyman ..find out if your husband is playing the field of one..if so then you find out its not anything ..then move on at least you will find out its nothing ..... (read in full...)
I regret sleeping with him now and feel so stupid for doing so!
Q. Hello. I am extremly worried. I done something that I feel completely silly about. I feel like such a silly little girl. Any feedback and comments would be very much appreicated. I have known this guy for a while and deicded to meet up with him...
A. 28 May 2009: go to the county program in your town and they will check you for free if you are either pregnant or have a std.
do assume..go and check it out..end of story..... (read in full...)
Big problem, no sex with wife, she stays out with friends? til 12, what can I do, going nuts here?
Q. I have been married for 10 yrs and have two children. My problem is that my wife and I haven't had sex since Christmas eve. I keep asking her whats wrong with me/us and her excuse everytime is that she isn't interested and is turned off that I ...
A. 27 May 2009: counseling,,clergy,,wake up,etc....
you need a wakeup and you need it now..or you lose it to someone esle ,,if not the coworkers..or maybe already have..
life is to enjoy and your not..i spent a whole life time with a women and found out she wasn... (read in full...)
He seems genuine, but my friends think he is just after sex! Tell me what you think.
Q. Let me apologize in advance for the long posting. I met a guy through some mutual friends about a year ago. We were paired up in their wedding. That was the first time we had met in person. He seemed like a nice guy. We talked for a while at the ...
A. 27 May 2009: fella sounds like he might be worth the wait...your right if he wanted some sex he would find it long before now..
so give it a chance and try it out...no one says you have to stay around.if it looks suspious then move on ,end of story..... (read in full...)
Does one mistake mean the end of everything?
Q. I have just found out my husband of six years cheated on me with his cousin a year into our marriage.How I found this out we were at a wedding and his cousin [3rd]down the line was there .She told me in her drunken state that my husband had a fling ...
A. 26 May 2009: no the best thing you can do ,,,is what your doing now..reach out and evaluate the situation..my recommendation to you is ,,move on and dont let this past situation come up again.life seems to be at its peak for you and your doing great..let go and ... (read in full...)
Can you have a meaningful relationship with someone if it started out as just sex?
Q. I would just like some advice and opinions here... Do you think a relationship based on sex alone can turn into a real relationship? I met a guy at a club and I wasnt looking for a relationship at the time, he was cute so I ended up going bac...
A. 20 May 2009: anything is possible ..realize the times are different today. aids..stds..and so forth..
their are 30 million cases of aids and a good process of these are caught from people we know and meet.i would say
think real hard about any thing you may ... (read in full...)
Should I hang out with my friend's ex?
Q. Right, I'm quite good friends with this guy and girl who were a couple of about 8 months until yesterday. The girl had a crush on me a few years ago but as far as I know, she doesn't anymore. The guy was pouring his heart out to me tonight, and...
A. 19 May 2009: One thing in life it's good for you to start right now.. Put yourself in his shoes..ask yourself how do you like it or better yet would you like your best buddy to get horny and screw your girl... You said something earlier and that was your go... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship - I need help
Q. This might take a little bit but I'm going crazy over here and I need to know what to do. I've been dating this guy for months now, we met offline, he lives 5 hours away from me. We see each other a lot, so it's really neat, I like the distanc...
A. 19 May 2009: Best thing to do is move on this man needs time to heal from his past relationship and is seems like you need to stop being so needy and codependent ..you seem like a good women..but you are split. First you hang out with your ex then you hang out... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I cheated? What he doesn't know won't hurt him, right?
Q. I have made a huge mistake, And when I was drunk last week at a party I cheated on my boyfriend and had sex with another guy. My boyfriend doesn't know as i'm too frightened to tell him, because I know it would be over as soon as I do tell him. ...
A. 18 May 2009: you need to find a positive sounding way to present it to him....now thats hard..sex is sex. but it sounds like your asking for a second chance..i hope your a spiritual women,
and you believe in a power greater than your self..God etc..
you s... (read in full...)
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