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writes: I am badly bullied. I have a black eye because a boy punched me for disagreeing with an idea of his. I'm scared to sleep. Girls have threatend to do things... bad things. The throw stones at me. They, hit and kick me. I don't ride my bike anymore, or travel, shop, or even leave the house without someone else. I know why they do this. I am a good singer. My music teacher fawns on me. She says, "Bring your voices out nice and strong like *****.". I just think they're jealous, but I cant get it to stop. I feel like I want my heart to stop too. Boys pressure me to have sex. I need help! [moderator note: I would assume that the poster has entered the age range incorrectly upon registration.]
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): Oh Grim.. If i honestly thought this post was fake, you would know. I make that clear and always have someone backing me up. I am currently batheing in my own blissful unawareness of happenings that go on i suppose.. maybe i like it this way.. maybe not? I plan to move to a place when my husband gets back, where there are no people, and only one grocery store ten miles away. Is this running away from it and from my problems?.. hell yes it is.
And I know that bad stuff happens.. trust me i'm not as sheltered as i seem.. People getting beat up? Obviously very common. People being bullied, even more common. I was a subject to that myself. People getting made fun of.. well story of my life. But a girl getting a black eye from a male, who disagreed with her? And being hated by every single person for singing? Wouldn't the teacher notice this and stop using her name? Woulnd't someone notice and care? Her parents? Her siblings? Some soul out there who isn't heatless? I'd like to think that there's ONE in her area.. This whole things comes to a shock to me because there is no reason behind it: No drug deal, no catty talking, no stolen item, no nothin. And the fact that not a single person is doing anything about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): defend yourself!they are bullying you because you let them.YOU need to take control of your life,and claim the freedom you deserve.only you can stop them.and better sooner rather than later.
they throw a stone-so you throw a rock.
they get thier mates(because they are too scared to fight alone)-and you get yours to even the field.
just some suggestions but either way if no-one will help you then you have to help yourself before they assume control of your life.is that really what you want?
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reader, jj.  +, writes (26 July 2009):
well its time to reach out and enroll in a martial arts school ..not only do you learn how to defend your self but you can learn disapline too..get going ..it works..i use to be a 97pound weakling ..now iam a 145lb pound bruce lee.and i get the girls too..
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (26 July 2009):
 young lady,may I be so bold to ask how your parents are dealing with this? If they are abusing you at school, then this needs to be taken up with the authorities at school.No one has a right to put a finger on you.I assume from your description of a black eye that your parents know about what is going on. If they are just telling you to get over it and it shall pass or anything like that, they are not very realistic. being that you said your vocie teacher wants to to bring your voice out, I may have to agree with Echo here that some real jealousy is involved on the part of these other girls. And yes sher is also right that a crime has been committed if some kid knocked you around.I urge you to tell someone in authority at your school what is going on. In the short term it may mean a little hell, but if you don't stand up for yourself now, then when? I am not blaming you for anything, but pleaser take some action against these fools before this gets out of control. It may already be, but you must tell an adult!and for the poster (SY) at the bottom...why do you feel un-inclined to believe this poor girl? You wonder if this happens in America? Please let the rest of the country know about this America you speak about where things like bullying don't happen, for There is a Bridge in Brooklyn there I bet I can sell you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2009): what How can this be true? I hear of stories like this form my husband in Afghanistan. Little kids beating the crap out of each other for a bottle of water or a dollar. But this is outragious and i'm almost inclined not to believe it.. Please assure me of your authenticity. No offense to you, i just can hardly believe that people are still this way in America. Am i that sheltered.. i don't believe i'm sheltered at all. but i don't watch the news, is this why i am shocked?
~Sy.
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