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writes:hello to all the readers of this. Im still young still in my early 20's and im married for the 2nd time. The first marriage ended after 3 years of him beating me. I finally left him. Well i was single for about 3 years and now im married to a miliatry guy. And yes i know how hard military life is but this is about the army at all... My hubby works 24 hr shifts and im always at home along. I only one girl up here. We just got stationed in alaska. i still have friends back home i talk to about my problems but no one can help so i turned to here to ask for someone else advice. ok here goes...As i said before my hubby works 6 am to 6 am and when he comes home he goes to sleep and im usually up by 8 am so i let him sleep until 2 or 3 in the afternoon. As soon as he wakes up he plays the xbox and never talks to me. We are both in our early 20s and we dont ever talk. I try to talk to him but he's to caught up in his video games. We only have sex about 2 times a week but he's always looking at porn.( but he wont watch it with me). ive talked to him about this well things change for about 2 weeks and he's all about me. But after 2 weeks its back to the same. Ive not even been that happy anymore. I know being away from my friends and family is hard and thats not even part of my prob. Cause i never was around my family when i was home. He never hits me or anything like that but he never shows me any affection. He will kiss me when he gets home but thats usually it. Should i stay in this marriage and cont to work on our marriage or just give up?...im not happy all the time but there's time where i couldnt think of being anywhere else. I love this man to death but i dont think he feels the same about me. He says he does but sometime i really dont think he does. He doesnt even show that were together when were out in town.Im gonna stop here cause i can keep going but please someone help...thanks everyone..this really helps me out
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Honey, get out now. He will not change. You deserve more. Much more. You must believe this. Guys mature a whole lot later than girls. He's still in the boy phase of his life. You might try dating some men who are a little older. If you are dating a guy, and he isn't treating you the way you want to be treated, then move on. There are plenty of men who will treat you right, you just have to shop around. You'll be glad you did!
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reader, jj. +, writes (7 August 2009):
get some counseling quick before you leave again..and this time it seems you have the best .you and him just need to work on afew things and life with get better..reach out and talk to your clergy and get some counseling .iam sure he will go with you for this counseling .but you need to do it for you and those kids ..and him..too.take care.
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