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writes:I've been talking to this guy since December by sending each other messages on this website.Our conversations were 99% of the times interesting,and my attraction for him kept growing.So My profile there got deleted,and I e-mailed him to ask him if he can still see it online and 3 days later he sent me a message on facebook asking me if its me and when i replied and said yes its me buddy he added me. So since then(that was like a month ago),we have been talking on Facebook IM. The first time we talked,it was amazing,I could see the benefits from talking to him live (It was the first time that i was talking to someone on IM after so many months of messaging).All the times we talked on IM were equally good to the messages.Now, weve talked sometimes on Facebook IM while he was at work,and I can say I got rather bored with our conversation.It might be cause he's working(duh) but its definetely killing my infatuation.I am thinking of going back to sending messages to him( I re-made my profile on the website we met) ...the thing is there is a time difference so its not always easy to talk to him when hes at home ( when its 10 pm here its like 3 pm in his country)...A part of me is telling me that I am being dumb and over-thinking this,but imagine you talked to someone for sooo long and gradually became close..? And I also wanna talk to him and see him on skype,but i have no idea how to suggest it.i really like this guy,and ive been talking to Him for months,i guess im ready to see if my attraction to him is real (as real as can be,on a video chat)..but then again,i do get bored easily,so its not like i wanna lose my attraction to him. Ok this is very bad written but...any advice?
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reader, Inallhonesty... +, writes (3 September 2010):
 After months of speaking by messages and then Facebook IM, it shouldn't be a problem asking whether he has Skype or not. Just asking whether he has it first will lead him to believe that you want to take this communication thing a little further. I recently got on the Skype bandwagon and I'll admit it is more exciting, especially since it seems like you guys are so far away from each other with the time zones and everything. Go ahead and ask him, it's worth a shot.;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah i was thinking the same. make him miss me (when i was on a vacation for 2 months he complained about how he only gets to talk to me once a month lol) its like we try to keep it friendly when we both are very attracted to each other.but then again,i give him some mixed signals and he does too...i just dont wanna jump into somethin but i do wanna see him on skype. how can i suggest it? I mean its been months that we only sent messages and now its the facebook IM thing,i shouldnt jump into skype,but then again im so curious lol
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reader, petina1  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 I can see how its getting a bit boring. Maybe if you reduce the time you chat, say once or twice a week and when he's not at work. Absence makes the heart grow fonder so they say. Hope this helps
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