Pregnant and feeling very alone, to make things worse after I went to my first check-up alone I found flirty texts to another woman! Am I being extra clingy because I'm pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend has a lot of responsibilities. Parents etc. He works hard too. We found out I am pregnant but he doesn't seem to pay any attention to me anyway. When I asked him to spend more time with me after work, he recently questioned me if I ...
A. 17 April 2012: He's surprised about the pregnancy because I am on the pill. He suggested an abortion and although I really want to keep the baby, I know it's not the right time to have a baby at the moment. I am still very excited about my baby and glad that I'm a ... (read in full...)
Very deep into a relationship but it's very hard to keep it going and even harder to end it
Q. We've been together 9 months. She's been living in my house most of the time, where I pretty much pay for everything. She has spoken several times about marriage and expects to be engaged sometime in the next year. I love her, and i like the thou...
A. 10 March 2012: Think again before you break up with her. Will you regret this decision?... (read in full...)
At 21, all of the good looking women are taken and all that's left are "leftovers"
Q. Ive gotten to a point where no women is good enough for me to date. At 21 all of the good looking women are taken and all that's left are "leftovers". I feel I owe it to myself to find the best the world has to offer and I haven't seen it in ...
A. 10 March 2012: If women who are 'good enough' for you are the 'good looking' ones as mentioned in your first two sentences, well, the only thing I can say is that beauty fades and really nothing is more important than what's within. Maybe don't think of yourself ... (read in full...)
He's A Gamer! ..Which means I come second
Q. My boyfriend is a gamer. we live together. I love him, but he spends so much time on his ps3, i find myself becoming resentful. I don't mean 1-3 hours per day, i'm fine with that! I'm talking 6-10.. whenever he's not sleeping or working, he's ga...
A. 10 March 2012: I know what you mean. I thought it was only me when I was with my ex. I thought all girlfriends were okay with this. Talking to him wouldn't really make a difference. Well, depends. He might either tell you all his friends' gfs are okay with it or ... (read in full...)
I'm upset that g/f lied to me about knowing an old lover
Q. I have been with more girlfriend for over a decade. Recently, a (female) friend of hers found her on Facebook. They lost touch because (I am told) they had a falling out over a guy. Her friend is living in France and married a Frenchman...
A. 10 March 2012: Sometimes us women just deny that we know a certain man because we do not want to remember what happened in the past. In this case, when her ex became her friend's husband, from my perspective, of course it was hard to take at first because we all ... (read in full...)
I betrayed the trust of my boyfriend in the bedroom. How can I find his forgiveness?
Q. My boyfriend and I of 2 years have been experimenting in the bedroom over the past few months. We started with him, at my request, being more and more aggressive with me, i.e., holding me down. Then I asked for him to tie me up, which after a lot of ...
A. 6 June 2011: mm.. you sound like you've disrespected him..... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I don't want to have sex with him! Help!
Q. my boyfriend loves me but he wants to have sex with me and i don't want to, what should i do with my boyfriend? although we can't break up because I LOVE HIM...
A. 6 June 2011: you're 13-15... don't do it unless you want to. don't do it just because they want you to do so.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex and my husband has no sex drive
Q. I have been married for just under 10 years (Age 40.) We have 2 kids, 5 and 1 years. When we were dating and before kids I was always sexually satisfied even though my husband has ALWAYS had a hard time maintaining an erection. If he's the slightest ...
A. 3 June 2011: In a way, I understand you. I wonder what should I do, too. My boyfriend has really low sex drive and he claims my sex drive is abnormal. He makes me feel bad about it. Makes me feel that I am a very improper woman. =/
I don't want to cheat bu... (read in full...)
Am I the only straight woman with a High Sex Drive?
Q. Hey. I'm just wondering i'm the only straight woman with a high sex drive. I want to have sex with men and only men. I find most woman who want sex like crazy tend to be bisexual, i'm wondering if i'm a unicorn?...
A. 3 June 2011: Same boat. I often feel terrible about myself because my boyfriend complains how highly-sexed I am. The way he put it, makes me feel like I am very unworthy and not proper, nicely put. Worse, I don't enjoy it with him at all. It has never felt good. ... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty for not loving my mother
Q. I've single mother, she is always out if not she is divided from me towards my siblings and my stepdad. For decades now it's just me and her. I feel so guilty that I cannot find any comfort from her, and often I feel so ungrateful because she's th...
A. 3 June 2011: I understand what you mean by, ".. her whining about work and how hard life is.." I think I have lived my life listening to her talking about money problems and her work. I know how depressing it could get. It makes you feel so disturbed.
And t... (read in full...)
Is there a way to get a guy's respect back after you gave yourself to him too soon?
Q. Just a quick question, dearest Aunts. (: I was casually seeing a guy I was very interested in, and was adamant to myself that I was going to hold out a long time before I slept with him, but one night I slipped up, I just couldn't help mysel...
A. 3 June 2011: When you give away too soon, deal breaker.
Source: Experience... (read in full...)
If he loves me, why is the ex still hanging around?
Q. Hi guys...I really need some advice! Its quite a tricky situation and none of my friends or family know what to do. Recently I started seeing a 25yr old guy i met in a bar, I have to be honest and say i wasn't attracted to him at first, but as th...
A. 19 June 2010: When a guy wouldn't answer your call when some other girl is around, it's not a good thing. if he loved you, he would have answered. i just dont get why. he probably wants both you and her. dont be a fool. just cut off connections until he's ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel pity for your ex if you think they might be getting cheated on?
Q. Is it normal to feel pity for your ex's current situation? I mean, in my case, the guy I used to date "suddenly had a change of appetite" and went for another girl. Or in other words, he dumped me for someone else. Yesterday he wasnt in cam...
A. 25 March 2010: It's sad that he doesnt know about it, i think... =(
But I'm not going to tell him anyway...... (read in full...)
He told me to move on, he wasn't interested
Q. Hi Have known this guy for the past 4 years - told him how i feel about him from the start - use to phone and speak for hours and chat online nearly every night. He lives about 4 hours from me. Have met up on a few occasions. Over the years w...
A. 17 March 2010: You might think I'm not old enough to comment but it's just my comment, anyway. I learnt that if a guy tells you repetitively he's not interested in you, you should get the message. I'm sorry if I put this in a blunt way but I agree with CaringGuy. ... (read in full...)
Just friends with benifits.
Q. i am in a physical relationship with a boy who has recently come out of a 3 year relationship. We see each other and are intimate but he claims we are just friends however aspects of our relationship are those that couples have it has been 2 months ...
A. 16 March 2010: I'm afraid you've expected too much out of this and it clearly shows that he doesn't want to have a serious, special relationship with you.... (read in full...)
How do I feel better about myself and stop thinking about my ex's new girlfriend?
Q. How do I feel better about myself? I get really depressed when I think of my ex's girlfriend. I feel I'm terrible, worthless. I am so depressed! Please tell me what to do?...
A. 12 March 2010: thank you for all your support. It's been really hard on me these few weeks. I felt as though if I could make through this, I'd be stronger than Lance Armstrong! I'm really trying to be happy. I think I'll get a copy of all the answers here to read ... (read in full...)
He chose another girl over me and I cant seem to let it go
Q. He doesnt want me anymore. I know I've been stupid but I went back begging him to come back. He keeps saying it's impossible and he doesnt want me anymore. I've been depressed, had medical leaves and ive been excused from lectures. It's not like I ...
A. 12 March 2010: well... that time when i last talked to him, he obviously made it clear he doesnt want me anymore. i do feel it's more of an ego issue because i feel as though i'm the second option and i obviously am something he doesnt appreciate.
and actu... (read in full...)
How do I win him back with this girl around?
Q. i really want to be with him back. the reason why we havent been meeting for three weeks is that the last time we met, i got really jealous and told him how much it hurt me to see him texting girls every night. although i was convinced that theyre j...
A. 6 March 2010: yeah.. but i want him back!... (read in full...)
My friend envies anyone around her that has a child or gets pregnant how do I stop her from feeling sorry for herself?
Q. my friend has pcos(doesnt have periods so chances of her getting pregnant are slim) she gets jealous of anyone who has a child or if she finds out someone is pregnant she goes on self destruct feeling sorry for herself. She's recently found o...
A. 6 March 2010: i m sorry if i sound a bit inappropriate but it's my opinion. i want kids so much but i m aware of how i could not provide for any kids right now, since i'm just a student anyway. i opt to get a pet. and for her case, when she's financially stable ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to take us to the next level?
Q. i've been dating a girl for over 6 months now and all we've done is make out. we've talked about sex but she has told me that she doesnt want to, yet. how ever, she has told me that once or twice while we've been alone together she has wanted to do ...
A. 6 March 2010: tell her how much she means to you. dont lie about it. dont give false expectations just because you want sex because it wont turn out well. i know it. a guy who told me he loved me just to take my first kiss away. and after that when i reassured ... (read in full...)
I don't want my parents to see I've been phoning someone out of state and get suspicious. How can I get in touch with him via phone?
Q. So I've been IMing this guy for awhile. I want to call him and talk to him and such, but he lives in Philadelphia and I live in Florida. I'm scared that my parents will see that I've been calling someone out of state and will get suspicious. I need ...
A. 6 March 2010: skype?... (read in full...)
Why do people have such big regrets about losing their virginity?
Q. I'm an almost 18 year old virgin, and I've heard other women say that they've regreted their first time and wish they had waited. I don't understand. Why did they regret it and what did they wish they had waited for? I've been a bit upset about wh...
A. 25 February 2010: i m a virgin. i used to think it was such a big deal to keep it until i finally realised that there isnt really much logic behind it. i've been thinking, why would i want to wait to lose it to the man i'll be marrying when most probably he's not ... (read in full...)
Should I be friends with him after he hurt me so badly?
Q. So I'll try and make this short. I was in a very long term, happy relationship. We split up amicably-ish about 5 months ago. He hooked up with an idiot of a girl straight after. She is such a loser! Amongst many idiotic things she does, she cons...
A. 25 February 2010: oh my gosh this is such a complicated situation. i totally know how you feel with the guy we used to date, dates a loser!
even worse, i feel very ashamed with our mutual friends that it didnt work out.... (read in full...)
It bothers me when my girlfriend masturbates. Can you help me understand why?
Q. Preface: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We've been sexually active for slightly longer than we've dated. That aside. My problem: It bothers me when she masturbates. But the problem is, I can't pin point why. Its the "hear...
A. 25 February 2010: i'm not trashy but i used to think i needed a guy to satisfy me sexually. apparently that's not the case, i feel that i could satisfy myself better. all the touching and kissing with that guy was good but i finally find myself really independent of ... (read in full...)
Broke up... what's for me now?
Q. Hi again i have recently posted about my situation. My girlfriend and i have been dating for two years, until recently she told me that she wanted to be able to have fun and be social. She stated that she wants to be single. before this she had been ...
A. 17 February 2010: sometimes, after people get bored in a steady, long-term relationship, they tend to think that it's better to have fun around and stay single rather that get himself/herself committed to only a single person, always a thought i have yet to figure ... (read in full...)
Is not closing my eyes when I kiss someone normal?
Q. Last October I had my first kiss. About a month later I had kissed another person and ended up making out with them. I thought it was them, but I think I may be a bad kisser because on New Years eve I played spin the bottle and I...kind of missed. I ...
A. 17 February 2010: it's normal. i did it the first time. and while i was kissing i was actually having these thoughts in my mind, "i thought i read somewhere that it's rude to have your eyes opened while kissing".. but i was like "whatever!".. it's a kiss. you ... (read in full...)
Could you consider what happened to me as rape? I never actually told him to stop.....
Q. Saturday night I went out with some friends from work. After the bars, we went over to one of their houses for an after party. At about 4:35 I went to hang out with one of the guys alone. (No intention of sex, just wanted to make out). We were d...
A. 17 February 2010: "I never actually told him to stop....."
it's not a rape. it's considered consensual.... (read in full...)
I feel extremely disrespected after I told my boyfriend to stop during sex and he took no notice! What should I do?
Q. hi to make this as short as possible... im about to be 16 and my bf is 19. we had sex for the first time a few nights ago. it was my 4th time ever having sex. he was way too aggressive and did it way too hard and i cried and told him to stop but i ...
A. 17 February 2010: you sort of whispered. the information did not reach him. and even if it does, you should have had been more serious when you tell him. when you sort of whispered, he would have thought like, "meh, no biggie, just a bit more"..
i dont get it. why ... (read in full...)
Can it ever really be just friends when you feel this way about each other?
Q. If a guy and a girl are really good friends, know everything about each other, have great chemistry, and are physically/mentally/emotionally very attracted to one another, can it ever really be just friends? I have a friend who I connect with on all ...
A. 17 February 2010: hmm platonic love?... (read in full...)
Why would he say these things to me then start dating someone else? Is there something wrong with me?
Q. he would tell me i was beautiful,smart,funny,caring,nice,sweet, pretty much every nice thing you could think of. he told me he loved being with me ,he would flirt with me all the time,he asks me to a movie,never texted me back ,stood me up,and now ...
A. 17 February 2010: sometimes guys u meet in life might be players. they enjoy having a few girls around, flirting with a few and what not. at a certain age, we definitely hope theyre as loyal as they could be. maybe you can learn from this. understand that the dating ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend flirts with all my friends, what should I take it as?
Q. Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been on and off for 9-10 months and he flirts with all of my friends. He knows I'm sorta pissed at him right now-but he doesn't know why. So he's trying to think of a way to make it up to me. I love him and care for ...
A. 14 February 2010: the same thing happened to me! well kinda.. try talking to him about this. let him know. see how he reacts. if he does apologise and what not, and if he's figuring out how to make it up to you, just tell him that you dont wanna see him going around ... (read in full...)
I was wondering why a guy would leave someone like me for someone like this?
Q. Guys, I need your opinion here. I am (what people say is) an attractive, tall slim brunette. I have only been with the one guy in my life and I put everything into our relationship. I was open, honest, trusting, always cheerful and fun to be ar...
A. 14 February 2010: why wasting your time for someone who doesnt appreciate you? you're an attractive, slim brunette.. i'm sure you can get some other guy by just a lashes-bat...... (read in full...)
Using one another...?
Q. Am I being silly or have people felt the same as me. I am a 25 year old female (virgin), I have low confidence and no guys ever want to date me, they just want a bit of fun no strings, I always laugh it off but I have for the first time fallen for ...
A. 13 February 2010: you'll most probably get attached to him over time and it'd only hurt you in the end. you're the one at loss eventually, when you really love him but on the other hand, he doesnt feel the same. i assume he wont feel attached to you over time because ... (read in full...)
The thought of her doing that with another guy disgusts me!
Q. I need your opinions. So last night my fiancé was giving me head. As I was about to finish, I pulled it out of her mouth and finished on a towel. She seemed surprised and asked why I didn't finish in her mouth. I said I didn't know, I didn't t...
A. 12 February 2010: of course you'd feel uneasy about it 'cause you really love her.
"Do you think she had done that with her exes? And why?"
why are you asking this when...
"But I guess I can't be upset about that because I have finished in other girls ... (read in full...)
I have 5 girlfriends and now it's a problem.
Q. I've got five girlfriends and I honestly don't know what to do. Basically, I met a girl three years ago in college. We began a relationship, got serious, then she left for work in the USA. We're still together in the form of a long-distance ...
A. 12 February 2010: wouldnt it solve your problem IF a girl who's got a bit of each of those 5 girls in her. five in one. that'd solve the problem. then treat her good and dont hurt her. wouldnt it be disturbing to you to hurts girls?... (read in full...)
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