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writes: i've been dating a girl for over 6 months now and all we've done is make out. we've talked about sex but she has told me that she doesnt want to, yet. how ever, she has told me that once or twice while we've been alone together she has wanted to do it. i love her and want to take our relationship to the next level. how or what can i do to take it to the next level? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): its probably best if you wait for her.but sometimes girls say things they don't mean and she might want it as much as you do...or even worse.but just wait for her because she might be scared she'll get hurt after having a strong bond of such kind between the 2 of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): ok, listen closely. Girls do alot of tests. We want to see if you respect us enough to give us time, but are still interested in us. In her case i don't think she is ready, but i think she thinks ur completely into sex. which scares her, that if she doesn't give it up, your gone. Don't pressure her...kiss her on the neck and see where it can lead
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reader, heather016  +, writes (6 March 2010):
tell her how much she means to you. dont lie about it. dont give false expectations just because you want sex because it wont turn out well. i know it. a guy who told me he loved me just to take my first kiss away. and after that when i reassured it, he answered, "hmm.. it's not love yet". dont say things you dont mean. dont say things you dont mean and take it back.
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