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writes:I dated a girl 2 years ago for a couple of months but it didn't work out as she wasn't happy with herself. Fast forward 2 years and we started seeing each other again for the last 3months. We were crazy about one another could get enough of one another constantly contacting each other and planning things for the future. She'd never felt like this beforeShe has recently started a new job that she's finding stressful then out the blue I get a text message saying it's not working as she needs to concentrate on her job but she really likes me and the timing is just bad. She just couldn't tell me over the phone either.I'm guessing the general consensus is to just leave it, but do you think they'll be chance things will work themselves out between us?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2010): I think you guys are probably right, I really hope she comes back to me as we were so great together and this came of the blue. I guess we'll have to wait and see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): She didn't want to talk to you, maybe she thought that you say something that changes her mind. Let her alone. If she needs you, she'll call you but if she doesn;t need you, forget about her. Try to find another one.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Wow she doesnt respect you much.
Things may change if her life doesnt go the way she wants it but if you dont want to end up being her fall guy you need to take control if she comes back saying sorry.
Try a period of zero contact, dont even reply to her text.
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reader, heartbroken101  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 firstly...i think the reason that she did it over message was because she was scared that you would say something that would change her mind...my ex did that to me over text message as well...but i think you do need to give it time. talk about it. be friends. let her know that you are there and talk about emotional and personal things like how she is feeling and if you can help (if she doesn't wanna talk dont push it) but let her know you care about her and your interested in her and how she is going.
goodluck!
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