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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I just got out of a realtionship that lasted about 3mths. tho that may not seem long it was a big deal for me I almost...loved him. ANyways he cheated on me with a girl "erin". And now I feel like I HAVE TO HAVE A BOYFRIEND! Idk why but i just do... i want to be single have time to myself but all i can think about is getting a boyfriend and how to get one. Me and m dad have a terribal realtionship and i think that has to do w/ me wanting to have a bf but idk i need some help or advice.coments are appercated insults r not.thanx
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reader, heartbroken101  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 please dont be at the stage where you NEED a boyfriend...because then you will go for any 'nice guy' that comes along and treats you like a princess...these guys are fake and they have you right from the word 'babe' or 'beautiful' you need to be single for a while and do things you enjoy. have fun and be young. me and my ex went out for 3 months and i was in love with him and i still am. but dont let your relationship with your dad suffer because of this guy...its not worth it because your dad will be there when every other guy isn't....a girls daddy is the only man she can truly depend on. goodluck sweetie and fix your relationship with your dad and dont NEED a boyfriend...you will be fine without one...trusttt me!
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reader, xanthic +, writes (18 August 2010):
 You want a boyfriend because you feel alone and crave male attention, that's all. Unfortunately, finding a new boyfriend isn't going to fix anything, especially if you're still hung up on your ex. Give yourself some time to heal and get over what happened.
Casually dating after a while would be fine, since it's not as emotionally involved. It'll take your mind off things, and you'll have fun meeting and getting to know new people. Wait a while if you're looking for something more serious, though.
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