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female
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anonymous
writes:So, my boyfriend and I broke up after 2 1/2 years because I transferred to a different school 2 1/2 hours from where we lived to obtain a better education. I asked him to come with and for some reason he said he didn't believe that I wanted him to come with, so he moved cross-country back to his hometown. I have been living in this new city for a good three weeks. I still love my boyfriend, but I was definitely lonely, hurt, and met someone. This someone is very kind and definitely cute and we had sex. But, of course, it was basically just a rebound. This new guy wants FWB and I am now more confused than ever. I don't know if I should move on from my ex-bf and start everything new here (not necessarily stick with the FWB with the new friend, but just begin something new) OR try to work out some sort of long distance relationship with my former bf. Because he has said he wants me back and would do anything. Of course, would I need to tell him about the sex with new guy if I did get back with him OR not tell him? Should I even give him this chance, I mean he moved cross-country like he wanted to get away from me... I AM SO CONFUSED. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. What would you do?
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reader, heartbroken101  +, writes (18 August 2010):
 i would stop having sex with this guy...and dontttttttt become friends with benefits whatever you do. don't do that to yourself. its such a horrible thing to do. this guy doesn't care about you he just wants you to be there for fun and someone to call on. dont do that to yourself. talk to your former boyfriend about everything. talk to him about what your feeling and that your worried about why he moved cross-country. you just need to talk to each other. preferably face to face. so goodluck!!!
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