These flashbacks and nightmares that remind me of the rape are geting out of control, how do I stop them?
Q. When I was 11 almost 12 years old I was raped. Im a very strong person when it comes to bad things happening to me and alot of things have but I wont name them all or we would be here for days. anyway Iv always had the mind set that everything ...
A. 25 September 2010: KrAzI BbY,
the only thing i can tell you is time heals all and talking about it helps too but you have to remember it's not your fault..once i relized that it almost seemed like the nightmares and feeling afraid faded out.
im so sorry and if... (read in full...)
How can I control my anger problem?
Q. My anger problem is getting worse and ive started to have random outbursts towards my boyfriend, like hitting him, biting and like squeezing his face and diggin my nails into him, i cant help it or stop myself. i say sorry millions of times. it ...
A. 12 July 2009: wow....when i read that i thought of myself about a year ago.
im bipolar (diagnosed)....sounds kinda like you could be too. i suggest getting checked and if you are then they can give you medicine to help. if not explain to the doctor whats go... (read in full...)
My bf is annoyed I wont talk to my father about birth control, who's right?
Q. I hope someone can help me out. I'm so confused. Sorry its so long, but you have to understand the whole story to answer the questions. I'm almost sixteen years old, and me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. I never really fo...
A. 12 July 2009: i am 15 as well and had the same problem about 2 months ago just not with my boyfriend my best friend (long story) basically she told me to tell my mother and get her permission so i wouldn't get into a load of trouble if she stumbled across ... (read in full...)
Why is there white stuff?
Q. Hi plz i jst wanted to know if there is something wrong with me i see whitish staff dat comes out of my vagina is this normal? ...
A. 12 July 2009: yes, its called discharge. every girl has it but some worse than others.... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble coping with these images of the attack.
Q. hey .. im a 15 year old girl and i jus wana no if people think im strong and if im coping? i hav been attacked before! and for the second time i got attacked agen .. although i got away .. i saw my friend get stabbed .. i actually saw the knife g...
A. 8 July 2009: tell your parents or whoever you live with that you want some kind of help....like a therapist or psychologist.
i know what your going through....i saw my friend kill himself a few summers back. but they helped me a lot!!
good luck && im reall... (read in full...)
She's dated all my friends but wont date me!
Q. Ok there's this girl I really like and she's dated ALL my close friends but she won't date me. I know she likes me but she won't date me. She's even admitted to liking me to my face. but she's been so cold to me since this "incident". One track day ...
A. 6 July 2009: why would you wanna date someone all your friends have been with?
but anyway....i think that is an extremly stupid reson to not talk to someone so maybe she didnt like you as much as she though b4 your argument.
everything happends for a reson ... (read in full...)
Would this be classified as rape or no?
Q. I basically wanna know if this classes as rape and if the guy still has an interest in me or not. Well about four months ago i went to meet a guy off the internet. He wasnt the first person id met off the internet and i always have an incling ...
A. 24 June 2009: yes that is rape...oral rape
you told him no and he did it anyway and if you can prove it then you could press charges and have him locked up.
the bed broke??? girl you best belive you've got someone really looking out for you....thats... (read in full...)
One night of sex, now I'm pregnant and he doesn't respond
Q. My bestfriend and I have been friends for years, since we were babies. Our families know each other really well. On the night my bestfriend was leaving to move to the other side of the country I told him I loved him and had done for many years. ...
A. 19 June 2009: go see him.
it doesnt matter if he doesnt want the baby because now hes stuck....it was a mutual choice to have sex so he has to deal with the consequences of his actions.
and be sure you tell both sets of parents so they can help out with your dec... (read in full...)
How can I not be so excited?
Q. how can i not be so horny? Okay, so i've always been like this, when a girl tells me she's going for a shower or getting changed im thinking about it, but today i reached a new one. I was sat in class, and this attractive girl asked to go to t...
A. 5 June 2009: try thinking about something else or turning around to a guy friend and talking about something else. it should go away as you get older though... good luck X... (read in full...)
Why do women like bad boys? Because they treat them badly?
Q. I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I enjoy breaking the myth that nice guys finish last, I'm well off, good at my job, phyisically fit and an acomplished sportsman. I have however fallen flat on my face when it comes to dating. Women just are ...
A. 30 May 2009: a bad boy doesnt have to be an asshole...
i know i tend to go for the bad boys because they are:
-harder to get to open up
-better when they start to care about me
-be kind of like my body gaurd so no body wants to mess with me
-all my fr... (read in full...)
Had sex with my sister, she says if I tell she will cry rape, what should I do?
Q. When my sister and I hit puberty we started masturbating together because we were curious how it would feel. It turned out to feel great; but, around two years ago she started to do oral sex on me. On my seventeenth birthday weekend when my parents ...
A. 22 May 2009: dont tell anyone
and
stop messing with your sister.....thats nasty....what if you got her prego then what??
she would tell and everyone whould know you had sex with your sister!!
do the right thing
X... (read in full...)
Going to meet his family but I'm not allowed to kiss him!
Q. Ok, I have been dating this guy for 6 months. He asked me to meet his family who live 5 hours away. I said yes. We are going to spend a week with them at the end of the month. Yesterday he told me that we wouldnt be able to sleep in the same room ...
A. 14 May 2009: i totaly get where hes comming from....my dad is like that with every guy im with....and he happends to be a strict southern baptist as well. (baptist or any christian for that matter belive that sleeping with someone who isnt your spouse is a very ... (read in full...)
How tall is too tall?
Q. So, uh, ladies... what height do you prefer on guys? What's gotta be the bare minimum height you like on a guy? And if there's such a thing as too tall, beyond what height would that be?...
A. 11 May 2009: i dont think there is such thing as being to tall (for guys)
im 5 foot 2 inches and absolutly LOVE tall guys but i dont really care how tall they are just as long as there atleast a half an inch taller than me. lol
hope this helped... (read in full...)
Have to see someone every day, want to get over them!
Q. what is the best way to get over someone wen your forced to see them everyday? wen i say get over i mean stop fancing/loving them! i really need to...its tearing me apart...any suggestions? the thing is i dont really know them as a person, like ...
A. 27 December 2008: i know exactly how you feel....
i had to focus on his flaws.....his happend to be he was rude and disrespectful to teachers and total strangers. it took me a while to relize that because i liked him so much so dont worry if you come home the firs... (read in full...)
This has been bothering me for 23 years... was I raped?
Q. I have a serious question that has been in my head for 23 years or so now. When I was 15, I went cruising around with a guy I had known for well over three years. I had one puff off a joint he offered me, and I also had a drink of his beer. I ...
A. 14 December 2008: It sounds like rape to me... both ways because you said no and you were under age but he was of age... If it's been bothering you this long maybe you should get some kind of help.... just to talk or something like that. I know how you feel....... (read in full...)
How can I attract guys? What's wrong with me? Am I that repulsive?
Q. My name is Kristen and I havn't had a boyfriend in so long ever since freshman year of highschool (I'm twenty years old and a junior in college). Ever since then,my self-esteem has gone even lower than before. I'm think I'm too short (I'm 4'5"),I'm ...
A. 12 December 2008: Guys like girls who are okay with the way they look. and your so not fat....most guys like shorter girls and not all guys like perfect...i may be a girl but i know 4 a fact i cant stand perfect....i like flaws it gives me something to love even tho... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex with me!
Q. Okay, there's a guy I really like. He's 17 and I've known him for a while. We're really good friends, but he wants to have sex with me. Should I agree to it? I'm kind of nervous, but how can I reject him? I don't want him to hate me as a ...
A. 11 December 2008: no means no and if he doesnt like it then hes not your friend.....you shouldnt have sex if your no in love eather....but thats your choice not mine.
if he really cares about you then he'll understand that your just not ready.... (read in full...)
These flashbacks and nightmares that remind me of the rape are geting out of control, how do I stop them?
Q. When I was 11 almost 12 years old I was raped. Im a very strong person when it comes to bad things happening to me and alot of things have but I wont name them all or we would be here for days. anyway Iv always had the mind set that everything ...
A. 21 September 2008: HEY,
THANK YOU SO MUCH ALL OF YOU....YOUR ADVICE REALLY HELPED....I CALLED THE SCHOOL PSYCHOLOGIST THIS MORNING AND SHE ASKED ME TO COME IN AT LUNCH MONDAY. (IM GOING)
AND THE GUY WHO RAPED ME IS IN JAIL FOR A VERY LONG TIME BECAUSE OF ANOTHER ... (read in full...)
Is a massage a good way to get her to feel good about having sex?
Q. I have met a very attractive woman who is 5 years older than me. We hit it off and have done some fun activities together. We had some good time to talk about each other and our lives. Seeing how beautiful she is I have thought about what she might ...
A. 20 September 2008: are you serious?! try and be a little more mature than that....be a man not a boy.
teenagers sit around thinking about what people look like naked, pressure wemon into having sex, and ask for naked wemon on there birthday....men respect wemon enou... (read in full...)
He has no respect for girls who show a lot of skin. How can he say that?
Q. Me and my bf are both 19 and I feel that there is alot of inconsistencies in what my bf does and says. My bf has posters on his bedroom wall of half naked women. This really offends me. I find it degrading and disgusting and whenever I go ov...
A. 20 September 2008: you need to break up and get away from this guy....he could get so much worse than holding you down and it sounds like he will....
hes not a Catholoic....people who belive in god dont do those kinds of things....its all a show so he can look like... (read in full...)
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