The ex... can't get over her...
Q. My ex contacted me last week looking to see me again, then called me a few times afterwards, thats tues past and ive texed her a couple of times and she hasnt replied and i havent heard from her again. She told me about 2 weeks ago never to contact ...
A. 1 August 2010: Check loveshack, they have a great forum in coping. No contact is the way to go, it hurts but you will heal.... (read in full...)
Is it just how I look???
Q. well basically i used to be like really emo/goth in how i look and i liked this guy that wasnt and after telling him i liked him and him saying he didnt feel the same way back i kinda stopped talking to him for about a year, duing this time i ...
A. 24 July 2010: I would say the change in look has had an effect, and maybe how you looked before put him off.
Physical attraction is important, if you like him too just see where it goes.... (read in full...)
I feel used and very depressed, what should I do?
Q. hey guys. im hoping to god someone reads this because im so down and depressed over this situation please excuse the length aswell ok here goes a year ago a new guy started my job. i had just come out of an emotionally and occassionally ph...
A. 17 July 2010: Sounds like you have recognised your mistake. This guy sounds like a waste of space, cut contact as much as possible.
Things will improve in time and you have learnt a valuable lesson.... (read in full...)
Married and still a virgin, the longer I wait the harder it gets
Q. Hi all, I have a problem with my sex life. I have now been married for four years but still a virgin. My problem is I feel afraid and so penetration never happened. We tried lots of times but failed. It is like I contract my hymen and put a pressu...
A. 14 July 2010: No pain no gain. First time generally hurts women but it's something you have to go through, get drunk and do it, first time is never as good as after.
Good luck... (read in full...)
I want to spend all my time with him, yet when I'm with him I find myself wishing him away! Why am I feeling like this?
Q. Hey i dont really know where to start. I guess i just want someone to try and tell me what they think im feeling, because im so confused i dont know. I was in an abusive relationship for 2 years and spent everyday crying and arguing and pleading...
A. 14 July 2010: It's because he is being too nice and is no challenge for you. Don't live in each others pockets, spend time apart in your own interests and you will appreciate the time you do spend together.... (read in full...)
We hardly have sex any more and he doesn't turn me on. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years and we used to have amazing sex but over the last 9 months or so our sex life has deteriorated. we hardly ever have sex any more and he doesn't turn me on, i can't get wet at all without using lube. ...
A. 14 July 2010: Nope, your normal. Welcome to long term relationships.
The early lust is replaced by companionship which for some is more special.
It relates to procreation. Start of relationship, lots of sex to create children, replaced by companionship so... (read in full...)
Is my ex just being nice? Or is it possible she wants me back?
Q. Hi My ex recently got in touch with me- we haven't spoken since last October, when we ended and our rock band ended. Recently she got back in touch and suggested we start playing music again. I agreed to that, as I was hoping to start again a...
A. 14 July 2010: You know as much as anyone, meet her and see how it goes. Do you want her back? If so play it cool and make her work, women for some reason don't like nice guys where everything is straightforward!... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him? I feel like he's going nowhere fast.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years, he is 30 and still lives at home with his mum he doesn't pay rent, clean up after himself and to be quite honest I'm sick and tired of it. I love him, but I feel like love is not enough anymore. All my ...
A. 13 July 2010: The only question that matters is whether he makes you happy, if so stay, if not leave. Everything else can be worked on.... (read in full...)
Intelect and the uneducated.....
Q. I recently met a woman who I'm not sure I should be dating. Here are some facts about us. She is beyond a masters degree, I have a HS diploma. She is highly intelectual, very smart. I am not the brightest bulb in the box. She is Jewish, I am ...
A. 13 July 2010: You're making an issue where there is none, if anything your insecurity will do more damage than your lack of qualifications.
Also qualifications don't equal intelligence, you could be a genius and not taken an academic route.
She likes you... (read in full...)
Is this some sort of psychological block I'm experiencing with her?
Q. So, I'm a 25 year old male virgin. I know, as sad as that sounds, I was overweight for most of my life and have recently lost a lot of weight and have begun experiencing the confidence boost and attention from females that comes with it. Anyw...
A. 13 July 2010: It's first time anxiety, it happened to me too. Get her to suck it to bring it up and once hard go for it.
Ps, sex is never as good as you think it will be before you have it, although it's still pretty great!... (read in full...)
Any thoughts on what I am?
Q. Hi, I'm 17, male, i've been going out with this girl for about 9 months now, and we're are having sex. its great. Getting to my point, as much as i enjoy to look at her naked, i think i'm weird, and worry about what i like. For instance, i...
A. 6 July 2010: Bi or possibly gay and in denial.... (read in full...)
Should I meet this younger girl I have met on Facebook?
Q. I really like the sound of a girl that I saw on Facebook. We have been exchanging emails for a couple of weeks now. Should I meet this girl, she is younger than me? I'd really appreciate some tips from people, especially if they are just about t...
A. 3 July 2010: Hmm, ask her to go for a drink. That is the safest most comfortable bet for a first date. If she says no to that it may be worth not pursuing her, but try anyway. Let us all know how it goes.... (read in full...)
Should I meet this younger girl I have met on Facebook?
Q. I really like the sound of a girl that I saw on Facebook. We have been exchanging emails for a couple of weeks now. Should I meet this girl, she is younger than me? I'd really appreciate some tips from people, especially if they are just about t...
A. 25 June 2010: Go meet her for a couple of drinks, char and get to know her. Jump in rather than try to get to know her online.
I have done this often and it works well, who knows, you may not even like her in person!... (read in full...)
Anal sex straight into my mouth--will I get sick?
Q. So embarressing but I have to know... My boyfriend and I were drunk and had anal and in the heat of the moment I sucked his dick straight out of my bum. I don't want to get sick. Should I take any medication or precautions? Don't worry, I don't pl...
A. 25 June 2010: Women in porn do it all the time, if you feel ok now I wouldn't worry about it. As others say, the risk is greatest if you did vaginal after. As for condoms, if your in a steady relationship then I wouldn't bother, awful things that spoil any e... (read in full...)
Should I meet this younger girl I have met on Facebook?
Q. I really like the sound of a girl that I saw on Facebook. We have been exchanging emails for a couple of weeks now. Should I meet this girl, she is younger than me? I'd really appreciate some tips from people, especially if they are just about t...
A. 25 June 2010: If she isn't at least 22 dint meet her... (read in full...)
Girlfriend frustrations - any way to fix these things?
Q. I am concerned about my Girlfriend, she seems quite unhappy with her life at the moment, and this refelcts a little on the expectations she has of me to make more money and manage my money better. the story is this: she comes home from work, ...
A. 25 June 2010: If everything you say is true then she sounds like a nightmare. It sounds lle you have tried to address these issues but to no avail. Relationships whilst often hard are meant to be fun. I would ask her to work on these issues and if you see n... (read in full...)
My girlfriend broke up with me, but things are confusing.
Q. I met this girl from a dating site a couple of months ago now, I was the first guy she dated and we got on so well that we started seeing each other straight away. We dated for only just over a month, but everything was perfect, even spent a weekend ...
A. 6 June 2010: The silence is a sign she does not wish to communicate. I'm trying to be friends with an ex I still love and it hurts like hell.
Talk to her in person, see what's what and make a decision from there. If you are not going to get back together... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I were over before I knew what actually happened! And still don't!
Q. Now I accept that our relationship is over.. I'm hurt yes blah blah but I'm trying to move on as soon as I feel ready. More on that in a sec. But my backstory has me asking questions and would love to know if anyone has been through something ...
A. 31 May 2010: Obvious, you were the rebound.
I would write it off and move on. By all means go to the party, but learn from the experience.... (read in full...)
He abused me but I still think about him!
Q. Right here goes! I have recently well 11 weeks to be exact got out of an abusive relationship with my alcoholic ex bf,it has been really hard as he is very volatile and caused trouble at my house by smashing every single window and it wasn't t...
A. 26 May 2010: You need to block his facebook, delete his number and throw anything away that reminds you of him. Ignore all his emails and calls.
No contact and no information on him will help. It will hurt and take time but it's the only way to get over him... (read in full...)
My girlfriend broke up with me, but things are confusing.
Q. I met this girl from a dating site a couple of months ago now, I was the first guy she dated and we got on so well that we started seeing each other straight away. We dated for only just over a month, but everything was perfect, even spent a weekend ...
A. 26 May 2010: I know how you feel. You need to stop torturing yourself and just give up on contacting this girl unless she contacts you first.
It will hurt, but the pain goes in time.... (read in full...)
Is this normal after FIVE years?
Q. Current situation; I'm 23 and living with my fiancee in London. We've been together since September 2007. I have an alright job, but not many friends here yet and no real activities to do (as the fiancee works nights and I work days). I am happy a ...
A. 22 May 2010: Not easy, but write down all her bad points and read them everyday. Nostalgia will make you view her through rose tinted glasses.
Focus on what you have now. Everytime you think of her think how bad she was then think of something else.
If she ... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship creating insecurities with boyfriend, what can I do?
Q. i discovered that my bf was cheating on me then we talked about it and we seemed okay but i'm still feeling insecure about it because i live far away from him and his so called ex girlfriend lives close to him.How do i get over it and trust my bf ...
A. 22 May 2010: This is not what you want to hear, however, he cheated and made you insecure.
You should cut your losses and find someone who will treat you with respect, like you deserve.
Once a cheat always a cheat I'm afraid.... (read in full...)
My wife is not sure she wants to be with me!
Q. MY WIFE IS NOT SURE SHE WANTS TO BE WITH ME I've been with my wife for 10 years but now tells me she does want children but not sure if it's with me and that she doesn't think she has feelings for me any more. We've had loads of really good time...
A. 21 April 2010: Leave her but make sure she cannot screw you over for money etc. I'm amazed at how much you have put up with. You will meet someone better and it is easy to forget once you have something better.
It will be hard but worth it for your long term hap... (read in full...)
My own words have come back to bite me! how can I get him back?
Q. me and my boyfriend of 3 years tend to argue and not see each other for a week or 2. i always maintained if any girl comes between us at any time that its over. he`s recently found out through a so called friend of mine that i myself had sex with a ...
A. 21 April 2010: Sounds like you made your bed, now you have to lay in it.
If you were soulmates you would not be in this situation.
He may forgive you in time, but rebuilding trust may be impossible.... (read in full...)
I'm 19 and still a virgin. Is this normal?
Q. Im a male, 19, never had a girlfriend and still and virgin. And now im depressed (well probably not really depressed, i just feel really low) and worried sick about it virtually all the time. I dont really know what it is thats making me worry, i ...
A. 21 April 2010: You're normal. Ask a few girls out, spend time with them and it will happen. Stop focussing on sex as a win and try and have a relationship.... (read in full...)
Will any man love an ashamed ex-prostitute?
Q. I am from an abusive family and at the age of 16 I ran away from home. I am ashamed to admit this but I turned to prostitution. I did this for a few months. It is a dark depressing period in my life. I eventually moved in with a friend from ...
A. 21 April 2010: Ignoring all the political correctness, I think the vast majority of decent guys would be put off. I would keep this to yourself and not tell a soul as it can only ruin things. It's the past, don't even let it potentially ruin the future. Hones... (read in full...)
From Ugly Ducking to Swan but now feeling socially inept..HELP??
Q. Hey everyone, I'm a 22 year old male, 6'2, I'm averaged size but a little bigger cuz of my height...built like Steelers QB Ben Roethlisberger (haha, that probably isnt the best example at this point in time haha) and Ive gotten that way by losing ...
A. 18 April 2010: Wow, you over think things!!
Stop focusing on the end game, ask a few girls out and let things happen naturally, you have nothing to worry about. It's not a contest.
Ps, you may wish to hold back on telling them how great you are and let them... (read in full...)
Concerned about something in my semen
Q. i just cummed up 3 white things. they look like pieces of chalk. i know its not chalk but what is it?...
A. 24 March 2010: I'm no doctor, but sounds like kidney stones.
You need to see your gp urgently I would say.... (read in full...)
She contacts her guy friends non stop. How do I deal with this annoying habit?
Q. Ok, I dated this Girl back in highschool. And of course highschool being what it is in todays world i was cheated on. Well life goes on and here i am. We dated and once she graduated She moved Down state to me. We got engaged, Once she got bac...
A. 14 March 2010: Seems you have addressed this and she still continues, you can't stop her having friends, but exes are not friends IMO.
Talk to her again, give one more chance and if it continues get rid.
Or...
Get some girl friends and do the same, nothing... (read in full...)
Nothing I do is helping my high sex drive.
Q. I am a mother of 2 little kids and I am married, just recently i have noticed my sex drive has been really high and my husband doesn't have a high sex drive anymore. When we make love it won't stop it, I then use my toys but that don't help, please ...
A. 10 March 2010: I'm the same, my sex drive is very high and my girlfriends is low, causes a lot of problems. Your husband needs to give you more sex to keep you happy.
I would like sex twice a day at least, she is happy once a fortnight. We have sex nearly e... (read in full...)
Life after my affair...
Q. I had an affair with a man 20 years my senior. We were caught by my husband. yes, I know it was wrong. Long story. Anyway, its been almost three months since we were caught. In the initial weeks after the affair there were lots of texts back and ...
A. 9 March 2010: I have to say you both probably got what you deserve. I feel bad for your partners.
Whatever happened to being faithful, forsaking all others?!
Learn from your mistakes and become a better person, try to find some good in the situation.
Go... (read in full...)
Why does my foreskin not retract? And why did I not ejaculate after two hours of sex?
Q. I have found that the one time i had sex, my foreskin did not retract and i also didnt ejaculate after 2 hours of constant sex The reason im asking why this is a problem is because of the simple fact of.. When i masturbate i can choose when to e...
A. 6 March 2010: You need to see your GP about this, they can advise you on how to loosen it. The reason you couldnt cum is that without the hood down you cannot feel enough from the girl to get their. even without your problem it is easier to finish through ... (read in full...)
Do most prefer 'curvy' women?
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-is-it-only-the-mans-biology-thats.html I want an opinion from the uncles of this site.Hopefully men will be able to shed more light on this. Is it true that majority of men only like curvaceous figur...
A. 4 March 2010: Most honest guys would say slim is best. Megan fox has the perfect figure and looks. However curvy women are nice too, but some people confuse curvy with fat. Fat is not good.... (read in full...)
I wanted to leave my boyfriend, but he made me feel guilty. Now I am cheating on him with the guy I liked. What should I do?
Q. i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years in november as i had feelings for someone else. after seeing how hurt he was i got back with him the day after. it was a rushed decision, just like the decision for him to move in with me and book a £4000 ...
A. 25 February 2010: You cannot make an omelette without breaking eggs (well, you can if you're clever... But anyway). You are going to have to leave your boyfriend because it isn't fair on him or you. The other guy should respect the relationship and be patient. D... (read in full...)
I'm paranoid about my penis size, so much so I cant even use urinals
Q. I'm 18 years old and i'm really self conscious about my penis size, whenever i'm out i need to use the cubicle instead of a urinal just in case someone notices. i dont know if i'm being too paranoid because i've got no one to compare mine to. would ...
A. 23 February 2010: Well, to be honest size doesn't matter to an extent. I would say anything between 4 and 7 inches and you have no worries. Smaller and it could be an issue.
My girlfriend says this to be the case and she has varied between 3 and 9 inches. ... (read in full...)
He was a drug dealer but says he has reformed
Q. ok this si going to sound stupid because i cant belive i'd say this but cutitn to the point. met a guy online.normally i wouldnt rush into things or get attachedd. nearly been a week and we jst chat so much. seriously hes great, and he unders...
A. 19 February 2010: Look at the situation objectively, doesn't seem quite right does it?
I would give him a miss, plenty of non ex-cons out there.
People can change, but why take the chance?
You know it's not right, or else you wouldn't be posting here. Follow ... (read in full...)
He's clearly not into me any more but why?
Q. Hi Guys I AM PUZZLED?!? I was seeing a guy that I really liked for about a month and then went to Thailand for three weeks. We live 10 minutes away and the sex was amazing. We spoke whilst I was away and he said he missed me, then when i return...
A. 16 February 2010: Loads of possible reasons. Most likely ge lost interest during the time apart, could have met someone new.
You have tried to restore things, cast your line somewhere else, it may bring him back or you may find a better salmon.... (read in full...)
I just can't take much more of this sneaking around.
Q. Please no judgment or negative comments. I have been married for about 5 years and about a year ago my husband’s best friend started to be real friendly with me. My husband’s best friend is nowhere near my type. He is not something I would be ...
A. 16 February 2010: Tell your husband and let him decide the outcome. He deserves better and so does the other guys partner.
Remember your vows? Forsaking all others? They are there for a reason.
How would you feel if the boot was on the other foot?
Leave y... (read in full...)
I'm so frustrated because of my name and envy others with nicer names!
Q. Please try to understand how I feel, because this problem might seem really shallow to others, but it's upsetting me a lot. I love my family, but I hate, hate HATE our family surname. I don't mean I just don't like it. I mean that the name ca...
A. 15 February 2010: You can change it for a fee. Do that, although your family maybe not be impressed. Problem solved.... (read in full...)
Our sex drives have gone down the drain!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8months now and we have a strong relationship. when we first met our sex relationship was great... but now it seems boring we have tried to spice it up a little by having sex in other places as well ...
A. 13 February 2010: Not much you can do. Unfortunately biology makes things exciting at the start and then that excitement vanishes. To get it back you would have to be with someone new. It us called the honeymoon period and happens to all relationships. ... (read in full...)
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