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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years and we used to have amazing sex but over the last 9 months or so our sex life has deteriorated. we hardly ever have sex any more and he doesn't turn me on, i can't get wet at all without using lube. i love him to pieces so i dont know what it is. when i masterbate i cant cum either and when i think i'm going to it's just urine. is there something wrong with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): thanks for the feedbac guys. i dont know whats happened to make us change i just thought all couples went through it. I'm more concerned about the fact that i can't cum.. is it me or is it him? maybe we need to try new things and have more fun in the bedroom but i dont know what to do in order to make our sex life improve
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reader, Flyguymyeye +, writes (14 July 2010):
Nope, your normal. Welcome to long term relationships.
The early lust is replaced by companionship which for some is more special.
It relates to procreation. Start of relationship, lots of sex to create children, replaced by companionship so you stay together to raise the children to a suitable age.
It's life and you will only get that excitement with new partners, hence why people cheat.
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