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Is my ex just being nice? Or is it possible she wants me back?

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Question - (14 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 July 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *arrybaggs writes:

Hi

My ex recently got in touch with me- we haven't spoken since last October, when we ended and our rock band ended.

Recently she got back in touch and suggested we start playing music again. I agreed to that, as I was hoping to start again anyway. But in addition to this, she's been asking what I've been up to in my life. I haven't given away much, and haven't asked her what she has been up to. She seemed a little annoyed, either by me not telling her much or asking her what she was up to.

Is she just being nice, or is it possible she wants me back and was fishing for info about my life?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010):

Sounds like she might want you back. Have a think about whether you want her back and then have a talk about it. You need to be clear what's what.

On the other hand she could have found someone herself and be waiting for you to say you met someone, so she can tell you without it being hurtful.

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A male reader, Flyguymyeye United Kingdom +, writes (14 July 2010):

You know as much as anyone, meet her and see how it goes. Do you want her back? If so play it cool and make her work, women for some reason don't like nice guys where everything is straightforward!

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