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"Over you" songs?

Q.   hi! I went through a rough break up, my ex traded me for another woman..and of course I was heart broken and all. A friend who has a major in psychology told me I should listen to music to help me heal. Music normally reflects our feelings and put...

A.   6 June 2010: Thorn in my side- Eurythmics... (read in full...)

I have what seems like white skin all around the vaginal opening, is it because I've used soap and shaving gel to clean my inside? Sex is uncomfortable and I'm panicking!

Q.   This is going to be long so ill apologize in advance! Im really embaressed about this, and im sorry but im going to have to tell you everything to get the answer as im going on holiday tomoro and im panicking! Ive been with my boyfriend for...

A.   19 November 2008: Best solution to your problem ladies get yourselfs to family planning asap. they will listen to you if you feel embaressed don't be they see and treat people everyday as another poster has said it willbe cured probably with anti-biotics cream or ... (read in full...)

Whose surname should my new baby have?

Q.   Heya everyone =) Ok, well I've just had a beautiful baby boy, we got home from the hospital yesterday. I'm finding things hard but he is definitely worth it... I love him so much. Me and the father are no longer together (His choice, not mine...

A.   12 November 2008: Hi Congrats on your baby, start as you mean to go on dear , your b/f has not proved himself you have taken all responsibility give the baby your surname as he/she will be living with you and you will shoulder most of the upbringing and c... (read in full...)

I'm HIV positive and I'm only 16!!!

Q.   I'm 16 and I've been having sex since I was 11 I was always on the pill but never used condoms I recently found out that I have HIV and I don't know what to say to my mum, she will kill me! I thought I was pregnant but the results came back as that ...

A.   27 October 2008: Dear Sophie I too am worried for you like the other aunts on this post! I work in healthcare and wherever you got the test go back whenever you want they should give you help support and advice anytime, how did you get your results did they con... (read in full...)

Where can a single parent find a job where they don't get ripped off?!

Q.   I've taken this job that was advertised in the job centre as 15-20 hours a week. Minimum wage of £5.73 per hour. So i take it, after being on Income Support for the last 8 yrs. 16 hours is what it takes to be able to claim tax credits. Im a single ...

A.   25 October 2008: Dear Anon You need to get back to the jobcentre asap, tell them what is going on. Get appiontment with lone parent adviser you should have done this before you took the job, they will give you a back to work calculation to see if it benefits... (read in full...)

Two months pregnant and my father wants me to have an abortion. My boyfriend gets very angry.

Q.   Hi Im 2 months pregnant and found out 3 weeks ago. I am very confused about what to do. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he is 7 years older than me he says he really wants me to keep the baby and we will get married when we are old ...

A.   3 October 2008: Dear poster I am going to be brutally honest with you hear from a mothers point of view, listen to your dad HE has your best interst at heart although you may not think so now. You are only 16/17 just a girl ok your b/f is 7yrs older than you that... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   8 April 2008:  What your are feeling is natural, this is a very hard thing to go through and you will get through it pet. You will cry and feel guilt but it will get better and just because you feel this way does not mean you made the wrong decision... (read in full...)

Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...

A.   7 April 2008: natasia read another post this girl has written about telling her mother! Alot of aunt/uncle answered her post and got abuse, her saying it was unhelpful, but in my opinion she wants to be pregnant at 15?! There is something seriouly wrong w... (read in full...)

Found out I'm pregnant again. I don't know what to do.

Q.   HI rite were do i start well im 17 18 in 2 week i have a 2 and a half year old. And today i have just found out am exspecting again i have being with my bf for 3 years we are up and down. I had a abortion a couple of months ago and really dont want ...

A.   7 April 2008: No poster I am not judging you or giving you abuse, I just think it wrong of doctors not to explain to you what is wrong. Now you are trying to act responsable it unfortunate that lots of young people use the pill and condoms and they let them down ... (read in full...)

Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...

A.   6 April 2008: well you were asking for advice for cheeky monkey, it wont help any baby you have if you act like a little kid with no manners yourself.... (read in full...)

I don't know if I'm pregnant or not...

Q.   Hi. I don't know if I am pregnant or not, but I came off my peroid on Friday, but I had sex for the first time that night I looked in my knickers there were some brown stuff, but normally I have that anyway, I dont know if I am pregnant or not, ...

A.   6 April 2008: Did you use protection? If not or even if you did get to your GP strait away. Get morning after pill get educated on sex you are underage and not informed enough to be having sex. Take this as a hard lesson girl do you want to be yet another teen ... (read in full...)

I think I have a crush on anonmous phone caller, do I tell him?

Q.   I don't know how to explain my situation but I'll try my best.Well a couple of months ago I received a call on my cell phone from a private caller I answered it and the guy asked me "how was your day?" and I responded "who is this" he wouldn't ...

A.   6 April 2008: Agree 100% with other posters. Change you phone number pronto, tell an adult get them to answer your phone preferably a male one, this is dangerious dear.... (read in full...)

My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!

Q.   I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...

A.   6 April 2008: Glad to be of help sir. I think sometimes we go into a trance and miss vital points and we are in such distress we can't really think staight. I'm delighted you are all doing well stick together and wishing you well.... (read in full...)

What would you do if you wanted an abortion, but your partner didn't?

Q.   If you are pregnant and dont want to have the baby for a lot of reasons and know in your heart the best thing would be to not have the baby, but your boyfriend really does want to have the baby, how should you decide if you keep the baby or not? ...

A.   6 April 2008: Flynn 24 you have a lot to learn son and you attitude is back in the dark ages when woman were second class citizens and had to do as they were told. This is the 21's century son, and women are not stupid we can decide for ourselves. ... (read in full...)

What would you do if you wanted an abortion, but your partner didn't?

Q.   If you are pregnant and dont want to have the baby for a lot of reasons and know in your heart the best thing would be to not have the baby, but your boyfriend really does want to have the baby, how should you decide if you keep the baby or not? ...

A.   6 April 2008: After rading this post I remebered a story in the news a couple of yrs back. Woman fell pregnant wanted a termination her partner did not, he took it to court to stop her having one. He LOST! and thank god as woman would then be forced to carry ... (read in full...)

I'm on his "list" at number 2, is this proof he only wants me for one thing?

Q.   my lad mate knows i like him as more than a mate and says he likes me too - were not going out but he wants us to do things with each other but im avoiding it because hes 19, im 15. yesterday we were texting each other and he was being flirty with ...

A.   6 April 2008: Yes dear it's proof he only want to use you for sex. He's a lot older than you, but still immature. Let him groom someone else or tell him to get someone his own age to play with as they would put him in his place.Also tell him with that attitude he ... (read in full...)

Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?

Q.   hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...

A.   6 April 2008: I live in the UK I have 2 daughters both grown up, I have hit them if the misbehave, or gave me backchat I was not charged!! I was also brought up in the 80's I was not put on a leash nor do I know anyone that was! In this case the social serv... (read in full...)

Pregnant on a period?? help!!??!!??

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex and he has been "letting it go" in me and we really want a family... so we have been trying to get pregnant but on the day that I think we concieved my period came down the very next day.... Plus I ...

A.   6 April 2008: You came on here to get advice thats a good one according to you updates. Didn't you know that having unprotected sex even just once you can get pregnant? Apparently not! but you also say you are trying for a family! So dear you have got what you ... (read in full...)

Are virgins less likely to get pregnant the first time they do it?

Q.   I'm a virgin and was wondering if i have sex without a condom for the first time what are the chances of me getting pregnant? Because my boyfriend has had sex before and wants to do it without a condom because he says condoms don't let him enjoy it, ...

A.   6 April 2008: LJ001 Please don't apoligise for myself and Bad Voive we are BOTH ADULTS and sorry if you find our answers harsh, but they are TRUE. This is a BIG DEAL we are trying to save this girl from making a BIG MISTAKE andI think my advcie actually got t... (read in full...)

Should I forgive my mother for the sexual abuse or not? Is she interested in me or pursuing my money?

Q.   hi there im 18 and in foster care i have had many problems in my life but this is my main 1. when i was younger my mum sexuaily assulted me and nuglected me and beat and just treat me like shit. older and like i said in foster care but my mum is n...

A.   6 April 2008: Laura Don't you think there is a BIG difference between neglect and sexual abuse? This guy has said he has many problems his main one is his mother,I don't like your attiude towards the UK accoding to you its a crazy country where abortion... (read in full...)

Are virgins less likely to get pregnant the first time they do it?

Q.   I'm a virgin and was wondering if i have sex without a condom for the first time what are the chances of me getting pregnant? Because my boyfriend has had sex before and wants to do it without a condom because he says condoms don't let him enjoy it, ...

A.   6 April 2008: Your welcome dear hope you got the point i was trying to make as this is a big deal.... (read in full...)

Guys, would you be turned off if a girl had someone else's name tattooed on her?

Q.   I have a bf that doesnt trust me at all, and i got his initials tattooed on myself.........i really love him, but i dont know if it's going to work out.....guy out there..would you be turned off about the idea of a girl with someonelses name on ...

A.   6 April 2008: WARNING!!!! Anyone thinking of getting a tattoo,Only ever get mother father childrens names as these folk will be with you for life. No b/f or g/f or even partner as you can break up. I have a tattoo its a scorpion it means something to ME. Post... (read in full...)

What do you do with a boyfriend who cheats and talks bad about you?

Q.   What do you do if you date a guy and have been with him for almost 3 years that tells you he loves you and only you,but he talks behind your back and sees other women he leaves and doesn't call for days then calls back and makes excuses and denies ...

A.   6 April 2008: DUMP HIM! Better to be miserable about something, you will heal, get stronger and be happy.... (read in full...)

My BF is bipolar and finds it hard to obtain work, should he lie about his medical history, other suggestions to facilitate the opening of perspectives?

Q.   Hi my boyfriends bi-polar and struggling to get work because of his medical history. He seems to be getting more depressed and recently said he as to accept is life is over. Should he lie about his history? Does anyone know where he can get help ...

A.   6 April 2008: Hi Poster Agree with Country Woman also as you are in the UK there are some great organisations such as Shaw Trust, Workable and other local places depending on where you live. Has he thought of volentary work just as short term or agency work ... (read in full...)

I keep having sick dreams about my dad. I'm bipolar and I'm confused.

Q.   i keep having dreams are really sick in them i am having sex with my dad i also have sort of memories of times when my dad had had an argument with my mam and slept in my bed when i was younger i dont dont know if they are real or me just making ...

A.   6 April 2008: Agree alot with askoldersister on this one. I would go back to doctor and also search biplor on internet. I too think people with this and other mental health problems search their brain for a cause as to why they feel like they do, when really i... (read in full...)

Was this the right thing to do?

Q.   I caught my 12 year old niece smoking cigarettes with her friend. I was going to tell her mom, as I was bringing her home she said that if she gave me a blowjob can I forget about it? We pulled down a back road and she sucked me off in my car, S...

A.   6 April 2008: Some of the answers on this subject are just quite ridiculious! I don't care if she BEGGED YOU TO DO IT! I don't care if she is related to you or not to the 2 anon and firephenix YOU think this is OK because she wanted to do it!!???? anons post as y... (read in full...)

Does my bf want sex with my sister after our threesome??

Q.   I gave my bf a threesome and a bj with my sister and both times he touched her first (guess he thought I didn't notice,but says he didn't) now its like when she comes over he looks in her direction frequently and when he talks to me he will turn to ...

A.   5 April 2008: Did you post before you had threesome as happy4947 23rd Nov 07? Its sounds so similar b/f too drunk.... (read in full...)

Are virgins less likely to get pregnant the first time they do it?

Q.   I'm a virgin and was wondering if i have sex without a condom for the first time what are the chances of me getting pregnant? Because my boyfriend has had sex before and wants to do it without a condom because he says condoms don't let him enjoy it, ...

A.   5 April 2008: Poster You have access to the internet, do yourself a favour look up SEX EDUCATION! although I am sure they taught you this in school NEVER HAVE SEX WITHOUT PROTECTION!Also you are UNDERAGE!DUMP the b/f he's THICK! you have a BRAIN use it wisel... (read in full...)

He teaches at a different school, so does that still make it illegal?

Q.   Hey everyone, i just need a little bit of advice, so here is my problem: I am 16 and the guy i like is 27, and my friend told me that he likes me too (i met him through her). I found out that he's a teacher, and i know that it is illegal for ...

A.   5 April 2008: I don't know about the teaching in another school, but the one thing I do know is what mature profesional 27yrs old guy would want to date a 16yrs? Where could he take you out? Do you expect to mingle with HIS peers or him to mingle with your... (read in full...)

Found out I'm pregnant again. I don't know what to do.

Q.   HI rite were do i start well im 17 18 in 2 week i have a 2 and a half year old. And today i have just found out am exspecting again i have being with my bf for 3 years we are up and down. I had a abortion a couple of months ago and really dont want ...

A.   5 April 2008: Poster You really need to go back to you doctor pronto! have they explained to you why you cannot use contriception and what these problems are? It is absolutley disgraceful of them knowing you had a baby at 15, then an abortion for them to say ... (read in full...)

Do I give my husband space after he says he no longer loves me? He says there is no one else!

Q.   I have been with my husband for 8 years and married for nearly 3. Three weeks ago he told me in tears he wasnt in love with me anymore, he said he still loved me and cared for me, but thought he should move out for a few weeks to see how he feels. ...

A.   5 April 2008: Poster Sorry dear but this husband of your is doing you a bifg favour? How old is this guy? He didn't knowe you loved him soo much! you married him, bought a house together, was going to try for a baby all the things your suppose to do and now ... (read in full...)

I had an affair and I love him.

Q.   Last year i had an affair with a married man and too this day i am still in love with him. i have never been able to get over him and i know for a fact he loved me aswell. I have decided to write him a letter but as if its wrote to his wife. SO he ...

A.   5 April 2008: Dear poster The FIRST thing I am going to suggest to you is you call this LOVE! You are having to see a theripist! this guy sorry did not love you or his wife, he's a lying cheating rat! Look what he has done to you, how can you love him? Its a yr... (read in full...)

What would you do if you wanted an abortion, but your partner didn't?

Q.   If you are pregnant and dont want to have the baby for a lot of reasons and know in your heart the best thing would be to not have the baby, but your boyfriend really does want to have the baby, how should you decide if you keep the baby or not? ...

A.   5 April 2008: Hi Brooke You have answered your own question dear quote "Would you take into account the possibility of the relationship ending further down the line, where he would more or less have a life the same as before the baby came along but with acc... (read in full...)

My wife abandoned me and our kids for her online lover!

Q.   I am 49, and my wife is 31. A year ago she started an online relationship with a man in Hungary, which she physicaly carried out by taking a vacation with my 4yr old daughter for two months, leaving me with my 12yr old son. While there she ...

A.   5 April 2008: Poster Got to agree with Bad Voice 110% don't wait for her to come back or get in touch, get sole custody soon or she may return to take your kids along with her next time. Your not a wimp or a doormat sir you are just hurt and angry that this wom... (read in full...)

Is it safe for me to have sex while pregnant?

Q.   I'm Deborah 31yrs old female from Lagos just hot married and I'm 2 months old pregnant for my husband. I always feel pains in my Abdomen and stomach. Please, I want you to advise me if it is proper to continue to make love when pregnancy is 2 o...

A.   5 April 2008: Deborah If you have pain you need to see your gp to check all is well. Most woman have sex throughout their pregancy this is normal and it will not affect baby or pregnancy. Again get yourself to GP, tell them you have pain, is it there all the... (read in full...)

My guy doesn't get on with my child and wants us to move out. What should I do?

Q.   I have been going out with my partner for 4 years, everything is great between us,he says he loves me very much. He asked me to move into his house with my two children a couple of hundred miles away from my home town 2 years ago. I moved in and ...

A.   5 April 2008: Lady All advice below is 100% move out rent a place so you don't disrupt your kids, Why will you lose your business, friends and family? I think this guy has made his feelings clear, do you want your boy to feel he's bad not cared for and unloved?... (read in full...)

24 and still at home, is that normal?

Q.   This may sound silly but here goes. Im 24 years old, 25 in June, and I still live at home with my parents. I am single but that's through choice as I havn't met anyone I like yet. I have a good job and earn good money. I have lots of friends and a ...

A.   5 April 2008: Bobbyjo I am anon poster agree with you about heidijoe although I think her answers stems from the last bit of you post wanting to settle down have kids, but again i disagree with that.You have another 10yrs on you before you worry about all of that... (read in full...)

Having a baby now when I'm so young but need to for health reasons?

Q.   I'm 16 and i want a baby now with my boyfriend who i've been with for 3yrs. i was told that because of a mutation in my genes as i get older it would be harder for me to give birth to a healthy baby. I am deeply in love with my boyfriend and i want ...

A.   4 April 2008: Thank you askoldersister I wasn't signed in at the time to reply to this young girl.Poster you decision should be made update us please and remeber think before you reply.... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   2 April 2008: Hi Poster I checked when you go as had not heard from you. You seems to be coping it just seems like a long time has passed. I understand youre still scared hopefully someone either b/f or friend will accompany you so you don't feel alone, if y... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   30 March 2008: Just thought I would add on here if anyone is interested as Tish suggested I was looking back the forums and there is one Re Abortions!!!! Poster I would advise you check this out as I think this may help you. ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   27 March 2008: Poster If there is anything I can do to help and support you I am only at the other end of an e-mail if you want.Thinking of you.... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: Laura Read back your post to this girl, you are making out she is evil if she goes through with this. that is wrong maybe she does believe in God I do I am not evil I will not be judged by you or anyone else that didnot walk in my shoes, you are ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: Laura You have lost this battle, and its not up to you read what the posters last update was! poor thing trying to explain WHY! her GP is a DOCTOR what qualifys YOU I am no dictor just trying to HELP not tell her what to do I have never said go ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   26 March 2008: Laura You seem to be missing the piont here this is NOT about YOU or ME is this girl asking about feotus pic? NO! Is she asking YOU how SHE will feel if she goes through with it NO! NOBODY KNOWS THAT! She is doing what has been advised go speak to... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   25 March 2008: Hi Poster Just got to add SOME of the other aunts are just sorry they didn't get you to change your mind and want to make you feel even worse by saying to look at pics.These aunts have kids of there own they made their own choices nobody telling ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   25 March 2008: Hi Poster Glad that you went to GP and clinic where they can give you the best advice. The only other thing I can suggest to you is if you can't talk to your mother, talk with a friend/relative for support to go with you as yes it is scary fo... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   23 March 2008: Poster Glad you responded, sorry this had turned to a debate, as I said you don't have to explain yourself.I hope you make the right choice for YOU, take care of yourself and I wish you the best whatever you do.... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: Annalisa & Co Stand by everything I said before, sorry I thought you said you had an abortion before,like others have said before me this poster asked "How is an abortion done?" what happens when you go to clinic/hospital not moral religiou... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: Annalisa Correct me if I am wrong here but did you not say you had an abortion? (sex before marrage)did you think it was an easy choice? As for rape and being forced into unwanted pregnancy, it's not the baby's fault, is it?! That statemen... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: TO THE POSTER YOU SEE WHAT I MEAN PREACHERS I REST MY CASE FOR LAURA & ANNALISA BLA BLA BLA GO SAY A FEW HAIL MARYS AND ALL WILL BE FORGIVEN!... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: laura I see your only updating your own responces to this and not included mine preach all you like dear its only your views... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: Laura No one not even YOU can tell if this poster is goiong to suffer mental health problems, you are preaching against abortion plain and simple scaremongering, being influenced by the catholic church it a bloody disgrace. I am not a catholic... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: Abotion is just to easy in the UK who says that YOU? And you can't just walk in and have one there is a procedure you have to go through like everything else, so your WRONG!... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: laura read my notes I AM A MOTHER OF 2 I know what being a mother is ALL ABOUT also a single parent.I just hope you never find yourself in this position yes you make it sound easy anyone wanting an abortion can just walk in and get one!!!!!... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: oh and just for the record i did answer the poster question as best i could and i have had termination. the hospital i went to was very kind and supportive, they did not judge me, even when i was in theatre before the put me under they asked if this ... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   22 March 2008: laura This is the knd of reply I am trying to piont out, there is too many folk on here saying this girl will kill her baby, she will regret having termination, it is HER RIGHT IN THIS COUNTRY to have a LEGAL ABORTION WITHOUT HAVING TO JUSTIF... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   21 March 2008: Hi Poster Its me again after reading all the updates. I just don't get this I had termination 20 odd yrs ago I was before 12 weeks, I went to GP he referred me to hospital appiontment went there couple od days later admitted put to sllep had term... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   17 March 2008: Annalisa Glad you got back to pick up on your statement wither it was 4 weeks6 weeks "what exactly did you see on the scan" A BABY!!! fully formed I disagree but what the heck. You are reiligous I just read another post about abortion and yes your... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   14 March 2008: Hi again Just to see this from another point of view its like teen asking about child birth, now everyone has diff experiance some have it easy some have it a bit harder, do we tell everyone that labour is a nightmare & all the things that hap... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   14 March 2008: Just to add you removed the bit about a baby being fully formed at 4 weeks I wish to disagree with that & I am sure I will not be the only one!!!!... (read in full...)

How is an abortion done?

Q.   I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....

A.   14 March 2008: Dear poster My hear goes out to you, you are only young 16/17 and you have not one but 2 older aunts on here scaring the living daylights out of you (shame on them!) Annalisa and Gina Bullock just because you both regreted termination does... (read in full...)

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