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Job interview: what to wear and what to say
Q. Hi, I know this isnt a relationship question but i really need some advice! I have a job interview on Wednesday and its my first ever interview so i want to know what would be good things to say and what kind of clothes to wear? I really want this ...
A. 21 May 2008: Thanks for your advice guys. I got the job :)... (read in full...)
How do I approach the popular boy?
Q. I really like a popular boy. But i don't think he notices me. How can i get him to see me or talk without him knowing im being pushy.also its hard because he hangs round with peoplee who are qutie popular too.. Help!...
A. 19 May 2008: Make friends with his female friends and get in with the gang.
But please remember that the "popular kids" arent always the nicest kids on the block. They can be quite stuck up and big headed due to all the popularity and the whole "i rule the... (read in full...)
Has anyone got engaged young, and if so, did it last or not?
Q. My boyfreind asked me to marry him and i said yes. I just wonder if anyone else has been engaged so young? Im so happy;-) ...
A. 19 May 2008: My friend got married at 18, 3 years later shes divorced after lieing and cheating due to unhappyness. My advice would be dont get engaged. You 16-17 you still have your whole life ahead of you, college, univeristy, work, your going to meet so... (read in full...)
My husband caught me having sex with my cousin
Q. Im married with kids but not long ago my husband caught me having sex with me cousin. I realise that i love my cousin, an that i have tried to ignore my feelings an so as he, but we can't. We love each other, i'm older than he is (by 14yrs)an family ...
A. 19 May 2008: You asked us a question and for our advice. DiovanLestat was just giving her advice- which u asked for. Sorry love, truth hurts. You are sick and you are twisted and tbh i wouldn't expect your husband to stay for long. You're going to lose ... (read in full...)
Embarassing question, I seem to have lost a vibrator...
Q. okay, this is embarrassing. About 2 weeks ago, I came home from a night out (yes, alcohol was involved). I fell asleep with my cordless "bullett" (a small vibrator) and have not been able to find it since. Is it possible that it is lost inside of ...
A. 15 May 2008: I agree with all the other aunts, i doubt its lost up there lol. Have a check on the floor area around your bed, if you have a wardrobe or bedside cabinet it might have rolled under there. Also have a check actually inside the duvet cover, You might ... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact him?
Q. Ok, sorry if this is long! I met this guy back in january this year when he was building my neighbours kitchen. I asked him for his number and we spoke everyday after he finished work and he wudnt leave my road until about 7 each night (finished ...
A. 14 May 2008: Hes 19, so theres 3 years between us. x... (read in full...)
I have a BF, yet this other boy tries to hold my hand and kiss me in front of everyone! What to do?
Q. I have a boyfriend and i love him to peices, i really do! But a boy I know has just asked me to have an affair, and i dont know if i should say yes. I really like him and before i went out with my new boyfriend i was always waiting for the boy to a...
A. 7 May 2008: Ok Well firstly i agree with the other aunts- dont have an affair because it really isnt worth the hurt it will cause.
One thing that really bothers me is you say "before i went out with my new boyfriend i was always waiting for the boy to ask m... (read in full...)
Where can I get Lapdancing/Stripping lessons?
Q. i want to give my boyfriend a striptease or a lapdance, does anyone know any sites that have tutorials..? (preferably videos) any tips would be much apreciated. thanks!...
A. 17 April 2008: type into Google Sex 101, they have videos x... (read in full...)
I found out my 16 year old had (protected) sex, how should I approach her about it?
Q. I have a 16 year old daughter. Last night, I picked up the phone wanting to make a phone call unaware my daughter was talking to her best friend. She had said that last Saturday, she had sex with her boyfriend, who is also 16. When she had gone out ...
A. 9 March 2008: Speaking from a 16 year old's perspective...she probably didn't tell you that she had sex because she was scared how you would react. And I don't think she would appreciate knowing that you were snooping through her bedroom!! So my advice would be ... (read in full...)
My gf has openly told me she cuddles and kisses her ex, and will glorify how much he loves her, etc. Do I leave her??
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 5 months now and she is amazing. For a month she blew me away, she was nothing but the greatest person on Earth and I even proposed to her. I know I'm young, but I can deal. Anyway, she al...
A. 9 February 2008: It sounds like shes still in love with her ex, i would leave. She clearly likes him still and if she does then theres not much you can do to change that. Tell her that if she doesn't commit herself to you then you will leave or ask her if she would ... (read in full...)
He's given me his number and shown interest, how do I ask him out?
Q. Hey Aunts Ok, theres this guy whos building my next door neighbours kitchen who is amazingly cute. I asked him for his number yesterday found out hes 19 and he stayed behind for an hour after work talking to me today and yesterday. I wan...
A. 10 January 2008: Hey Aunts, thanks for the advice, i didnt need to ask him out, he literally threw himself at me today and kissed me so things r going well, i will deffo suggest a coffee tho. Thanks for your advice, Birdynumnums yours was hilarious! x... (read in full...)
I never got an orgasm, what is wrong with me?
Q. rite this is really embarasing im 15. when i masterbate i dont get an orgasim or come, i have never done anything with a boy before, just a kiss. i have never had a proper realtionship either. when i finger myself i dont get any pleasure out of it ...
A. 8 January 2008: Its ok, i dont enjoy fingering myself and ive never had a proper relationship let alone a boyfriend so its ok. When your body is ready you will know and guys will come along like buses so just be patient! But its nothing to worry about, maybe try ... (read in full...)
How can I stop this male escort from blackmailing me?
Q. i had sex with another man..he was an escort..i paid him money..now he is blackmailing me for more money..which i gave him ..and now he wants more money from me..and he threatens to tell others about this experience if i dont pay him...it can ruin ...
A. 30 November 2007: Report him to the agency he works for if he works for one.... (read in full...)
How long will a guy wait for sex??
Q. So heres just a general question to see what everyones point of view is. How long is a unreasonable amount of time to expect a guy to wait for sex? What I mean is, say a girl isnt ready to have sex with her bf (whether she be a virgin or not) but...
A. 28 November 2007: In reply to ur follow up question i asked my boyfriend that question the other night and the simple answer i got is that men need to orgasm on a regular basis whereas women can go longer without needing an orgasm. Im still a virgin and tend to ... (read in full...)
Got a crush on my teacher. I am hoping if I tell him it will go away
Q. Hi, i need everyones opinion. Dont think of this as ohh its jsut another teacher problem, but actually just tell me an honest answere as i dont know if what im goin to do tomorrow will be a mistake. Okay so i am a senior at my high school and its g...
A. 20 November 2007: Its a crush, dont tell him because you could ruin the student-teacher relationship that you have with him right now. It will pass i assure you, try going out with friends and meeting guys that way, im sure once you have something new to focus your ... (read in full...)
Is my friend's strategy valid? - to make women like him.
Q. I recently spoke to one of my guy friends about how he gets girls/woman to like him ( because he always seems to have woman on the go) He said that he gives them attention and then cuts it off and this makes them want more? What do you think? Doe...
A. 18 November 2007: A guy did that to me before and i lost interest completely because it made me think that the guy doesnt want me and therefore is not worth my time as i wont be getting anything back. I spent weeks of being unhappy, trying everything i could to get ... (read in full...)
Who would you choose - money or no money?
Q. Ok,Simple question. If you re torn betweet two men for marrige, One of whom Is pretty rich(can have laisure and relaxed life with), and the Other not so much(indeed may have money problem later), You like them both in certain way, Who would you ...
A. 4 November 2007: I think your being quite selfish by choosing the men by the amount of money they each have. If it was me i would choose the one who i like more, if its the guy with lesser money then so what? If he makes me happy then thats all that matters. I think ... (read in full...)
Should I block him?
Q. this guy ive known since joinor school, well ive got in touch with him. everything was going ok till yesterday. his mate was round his house and we were talking on msn. all of a sudden he was like oi f***er, you are ugly as hell, i dont want to ...
A. 3 November 2007: block him and delete him. he sounds like an immature person who isnt worth your time. ... (read in full...)
How do you forgive someone who keeps breaking promises?
Q. hey me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 2 years.Recently since he started working as a lineman he has been a total jerk. he lies to me about everything! he promises he wont lie again and the next day he does the exact same thing. What ...
A. 27 October 2007: Leave Him. Find someone you can trust because this guy sounds like a complete unreliable person to me and you are the one who deserves better. ... (read in full...)
Is he giving me space or ignoring me?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up about 3 months ago now. It's his 21st birthday in 2 days and I feel like I have to acknowledge him in some way, but don't want to look desparate. We'd been going out for 2 years, and were friends before that. He'd ...
A. 27 October 2007: Move on, if he wanted to stay friends he would of got in contact by now. Maybe just send him a card or something? When you've been in a relationship with someone and you say you still want to be friends, it very rarely happens because of all the ... (read in full...)
I can't cum - am I weird?
Q. hi, my friends tell me all the time that they masturbate and that its really nice adn we also discuss there relationship with boys like which boys made them cum the fastest and who was the best and fingering and other things but i have never ha...
A. 27 October 2007: Youre too young to be worrying about this kind of thing. Youre probably not cumming because ur body isnt ready for sex of any kind. Wait until you're older to be worrying and discussing these things!!... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and involved with 2 guys and a girl and still feel the need for more!
Q. hey you guys...I am in serious trouble. I am a 16 year old girl and I am currently involved with 2 guys and a girl. I have a problem where I am always looking for more heat and I will go to any measures to get it. One of the men is 47 and happens to ...
A. 26 October 2007: Ok...what ur doing is slightly....wrong.
Why dont u just pick one of them (probably best not to be ur stepbrother) and try n have a relationship with them. Being in a deep and meaningful relationship with someone you love is always more fufillin... (read in full...)
I fancy my evening class teacher, how do I let him know?
Q. Have been single for 4 years, during which, only one man has caught my real interest. He teaches me, once a week, in evening classes.He does pay me attention, and occasionally flirts, but has never made a move, in or out of class. I have not made my ...
A. 26 October 2007: Ask him out for a coffee or something? Just get to know him and see how things go. Dont make a direct pass because he could knock you back, if u ask him for coffee you can find out about him in general conversation e.g. if he is in a ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy to be irritated by this whole situation?
Q. My boyfriend's ex girlfriend (whom he was with for 3 yrs) prior to me, asked him to "cosign" a $10,000 student loan for her. Personally I think its just another way for her to hold on to him and stay present in his life, so they have "reason" to ...
A. 24 October 2007: This does sound a bit fishy. I mean why couldnt she get a parent or relative to cosign it?
If that was my guy i would be absolutely furious and would of stayed away for a few nights just to calm down! It is completely out of order. I mean why... (read in full...)
Do my parents have any legal hold over me?
Q. Im 16 and my boyfriend is 22. My parents arent happy and are saying they wont let me see him and stuff. Do they have any legal hold over me to stop me from seeing him, or am I legally allowed to do what I want?...
A. 24 October 2007: ur over the legal age to have sex so anything he does to isn't illegal. Unless the guy was seriously dodgy then i dont think people will be too concerned. Just be careful and dont fall out with ur parents over it because
1. they r just looking ... (read in full...)
I am 12, he is 28. We are in love and he says he wants me to move in with him as soon as I am 16.
Q. About a month ago I met a really sweet guy at my aunts wedding. I'm only 12 but i look alot older and people tell me i am a lot more mature than my age. He's 28 and he works with my aunt. Pretty much everyone in my family knows him and they all seem ...
A. 23 October 2007: WOAH This age gap is waaaaay to big and the fact hes kissed you is completely inappropriate and since the police have been involved that should tell you instantly something is wrong. if you were 19/20 it would be more appropriate but this guy is ... (read in full...)
Anyone have an free English dating website recommendations?
Q. What are the best dating websites that are free that are england ...
A. 22 October 2007: Erm other than this one!?
www.thesite.org is quite a good site, covers everything not just dating.... (read in full...)
I keep vomiting - am I gay?
Q. hi, i am a male, sometime i think i am gay but sometimes I think i am not. I like watching guys naked and dream about them. but sometime, it maked me vomit thinking of it, but somethimes I like it. I had sex with a women, and I enjoyed it, but i do ...
A. 21 October 2007: At your age it's probably just a phase, being gay isn't just about watching porn, its how you feel around guys and how you would feel being in a relationship. If you aren't sure why don't you try dating both girls and boys and see which ones you ... (read in full...)
How do I get her to beleive I would never hurt her?
Q. Okay well my girlfriend and i have been going out for 8 months now and everything is going amazing. But when we first started dating it took her a couple months just to trust me in the least little bit and she has been constantly afraid that i am ...
A. 21 October 2007: I think maybe you should talk to her. Promise her you will never hurt her and tell her to tell u when she feels uncomfortable. That way she may feel more in control and so she can push the buttons and it will prevent her from getting hurt as shes ... (read in full...)
He's got a car - should I go and meet him?
Q. Moderator's note: This is the same young lady who asked a few posts ago about having sex with her 16 year-old boyfriend!! (or at least - it's from the same computer) well. theres this guy and i like him right hes ok n hes fit n stuff but ive on...
A. 20 October 2007: Don't go! This guy obviously only wants you for sex and your clearly too young not to mention underage. If this guy really liked you then he would want to meet up with you for another reason other that "I got johnnys needs usin". My advice is to ... (read in full...)
For the guys. Would you be bothered with body acne
Q. Hi, this question is primarily for guys. I have a pretty good body, slim, and I'm not self conscious about my body when I'm clothed. The thing is that I have a weird form of acne that takes literally years to heal and because of it I have little ...
A. 16 October 2007: I'm not a guy but i do have/ did have really bad acne on my face and haven't really had a boyfriend.
Be thankful that if you did have a really bad outbreak that u didnt want people to see you can cover it up and deal with it without anyone k... (read in full...)
I'm scared of have sex with my bf plz help!
Q. I'm 14 and my bf is 16 we've been dating for nearly a year and we both wana take our relation ship to the next level we both wana have sex but im scared to and he knows this, hes been trying to help me get over my fear it's been like 2 months but im ...
A. 5 October 2007: If your scared you blatently not ready. neither are you legally old enough to have sex Dont do it... (read in full...)
We like to have sex anywhere that could be fun, bus shelters etc; my bf is 17 and I'm 15, could this be wrong?
Q. is what im doing ok?? i like to be very passionate in the bedroom. i prefer to use handcuffs or belocked to a bed while a guy takes full advantage of me. i like to have sex in the back of a car, morrisons carpark, in bus shelters. on park benched or ...
A. 30 September 2007: You need to stop this now. Your underage and your boyfriend is going to get into trouble! It wont be long until you turn 16 and then u can have legal sex, so wait a bit longer. You probably feel all kinky because what your doing is breaking rules, ... (read in full...)
My friends don't approve of my older boyfriend
Q. ok so im 15 and going out with a 21 year old. everythings fine except my friends are being really annoying about how its wrong. what bothers me the most is my best friend is getting pissed off and hes always like dont even mention your bf anymore ...
A. 20 September 2007: Im in the same kind of situ as u. Im 15 and i went out out a 23 year old and even tho he made me happy my friends didnt approve. if they were ur true friends they wud be happy for you, thats what i said to my friends and they said ur right if he ... (read in full...)
I am really falling for this guy and its messing up my schoolwork.
Q. well my prob is: iv known this guy really well for quite a long time now and we've always been really close, i tell him everything and he always helps me and is there for me. the problem is i am now starting to fall for him really bad, i cant get ...
A. 12 September 2007: Why dont u try asking him out? Im 15 and ive been out with an 18 year old. It sounds like you really like him so why not find out if something could happen?
Secondly you do need to focus on ur schoolwork, maybe talking to this guy and explaini... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity before university with a good friend or should I wait and try to find someone there?
Q. hiya. I am going to university in a couple of weeks time and dont know what i should do. Should i lose my virginity before university with a good friend or someone i like, or should i wait and try to find someone at university? Any advice would be ...
A. 9 September 2007: I would wait until you find someone you love and care about. If you lose your virginity to your friend you would be doing it for the wrong reasons. Some guys find girls who are virgins really sexy so wait until uni, you might find the perfect guy ... (read in full...)
I'm 13. Am I ready for sex?
Q. Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl 14 in two weeks an I'm stuck in a situation because I met this boy on msn and he's really nice to me an everything. I've seen him before but the thing is he wants to have sex with me and I am fine with that but I'm still a ...
A. 1 September 2007: Hey Ok firstly-DON'T EVEN CONSIDER HAVING SEX! Your 3 years under the legal age and no matter how mature you think you are, its a stupid idea. Your body is not physically ready and neither are you mentally. Secondly, this boy shouldn't e... (read in full...)
I dont feel like my girl loves me anymore! But i dont want to lose her...
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend for 8 monthes now and its got to the point where i feel she dont love me no more. We've had our problems but i still love her dearly. I get the impression she hates me. We went away for a week, we didnt kiss hug or even ...
A. 26 August 2007: Well, sit down and talk to her. Tell her how you feel and find out whats going on in her head. Then you can both come to a mutaul decision about where you go from there. If she feels she doesnt love you anymore, even if you dont want to lose her, ... (read in full...)
More than just a crush on a tutor
Q. More than just a crush on a tutor I have had feelings for one of my tutors (in his early thirties) at my university all year. As he had recently resigned for another job in a different city I decided to ask him out to dinner before he leaves...
A. 17 August 2007: I can see where he is coming from, because dating students is frowned upon. He probably just feels a little awkward about the situation,maybe you should speak to him or call him and ask him straight whether he likes you or not.... (read in full...)
I was asked out the other day by a 15 year old girl but I'm 23. Should I go?
Q. Hi all I'm a 23 year old male and was wondering if you could give me some help and or your opinion on what I should do. I was asked out the other day by a 15 year old girl. I have known her quite a while and get on really well with her. She is v...
A. 17 August 2007: Hi, Im 15 and in kind of the same situation. I am seeing a guy of 25 and we have a fantastic relationship, and we havent slept together. Hes prepared to wait until im ready even if that means i turn 16 and still dont want to lose my virginity. If ... (read in full...)
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