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writes: Ive been with my girlfriend for 8 monthes now and its got to the point where i feel she dont love me no more. We've had our problems but i still love her dearly. I get the impression she hates me. We went away for a week, we didnt kiss hug or even hold hands. I really dont wana get over this girl as shes so special. I dont know what to do, i feel its time to go but i really dont want to. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (27 August 2007):
In addition to what the other agony aunts have said, which is great, I have one question for you: why would you want to be with someone who doesn't love you anymore? I know that letting go of her is painful, but, think of it this way: you need someone who will love you back.
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reader, kenny +, writes (26 August 2007):
When you went away for a week did you attempt to kiss her or hug her, or hold her hand. If you did and she brushed you off after several attempts at trying then maybe it is time to move on.
Maybe she has fallen out of love with you, but for your peace of mind i would talk to her and ask her once and for all what her feelings are for you. At least this way you know where you stand and can move on if needs be.
good luck
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reader, Emzy1591 +, writes (26 August 2007):
Well, sit down and talk to her. Tell her how you feel and find out whats going on in her head. Then you can both come to a mutaul decision about where you go from there. If she feels she doesnt love you anymore, even if you dont want to lose her, you would have her happiness at heart and if thats what makes her happy you will have to let her go. If you do break up, then try n stay friends. I hope it all goes well for youxxxxx
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