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I keep vomiting - am I gay?

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Question - (21 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi, i am a male, sometime i think i am gay but sometimes I think i am not. I like watching guys naked and dream about them. but sometime, it maked me vomit thinking of it, but somethimes I like it. I had sex with a women, and I enjoyed it, but i do not like looking at Lesbian pornography, when i look at it maked me vomit after it, same thing with Gay Pornography. I am confused I am not shure if I am gay or not? Please help me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008):

Ha. Vomitting. I hope you're not serious. Maybe its just that you're thinking about your friends view towards homosexuality. There are many homophobes in this world and its usually not neccessarily look upon with praise during the teen years because of society. I remember me denying my feelings towards men when I was younger because my 'friends' used to bash gays. I didn't want to be the one they bashed next. I wanted to be liked. But then, after u graduate, after u go home, after you go to bed...who do u have? Yourself. Your friends arnt there to appreciate you, you only have you. So why lie to yourself?

My advice is to look at porn with an open mind. Think solely of ur orgasm and which sexuality u would like to help u reach that orgasm. And if u think of those straight guys at school who deny being sexually curious, they're lieing and are probably going through the same dillema you are.

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A male reader, Dextro69 United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2007):

Dextro69 agony auntYou are at an age where you are still discovering who you are as a person.

during the teen years many people have feelings for people of the same sex, just because you didnt like lesbian porn this does not mean you are gay (i'm not to keen on it myself) do you like looking at naked women by themself? over the next few years you will find out who and what you are, if you feel you need to experiment with males as well then do so.

you may also have bi tendencies.

Please remember tho before the age of 16 in the UK 18 in the US (i think) it is illegal to have sex with a male or female. also remember to use a Comdom whatever type of sex you have.

What ever you decide enjoy your life and live it how you want and be want you want to be. above all have fun.

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A female reader, Emzy1591 United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2007):

Emzy1591 agony auntAt your age it's probably just a phase, being gay isn't just about watching porn, its how you feel around guys and how you would feel being in a relationship. If you aren't sure why don't you try dating both girls and boys and see which ones you like more?

As i say its probably a phase which you will pass through.

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