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writes:I recently spoke to one of my guy friends about how he gets girls/woman to like him ( because he always seems to have woman on the go)He said that he gives them attention and then cuts it off and this makes them want more?What do you think? Does this work?Thankyou x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): It'll work on damn near any woman I've ever met. Doesn't matter how intelligent, mature, educated, secure . . . they all fall for it over and over again.
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reader, samohir  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 Can work for some time, But any Clever woman will dump him as soon as she concludes he is playing games.
So for a long term definately No.
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reader, Emzy1591 +, writes (18 November 2007):
 A guy did that to me before and i lost interest completely because it made me think that the guy doesnt want me and therefore is not worth my time as i wont be getting anything back. I spent weeks of being unhappy, trying everything i could to get him to talk to me text me etc and now that ive moved on im so much happier, in my opinion this doesnt work. Guys are attracted to girls who are confident and approachable and easy to talk to. My advice would be to be those things and guys will just flock to you. Maybe go clubbing or something and have a laugh with girl mates, guys find this attractive too as it shows that your capable of going out and having a good time plus if you look great then you will catch guy's eyes so..maybe try that rather than the method your friend suggested as it may annoy people and make them think u r playing them.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 This is a psychological game where the man who is aloof appears to be "worth more" because he isn't "available". The woman starts to feel insecure about herself and begins to wonder if she is worth anything. Then when the man does make contact she is left to feel greatful that he called her pathetic self.
Yes, sorry to say that sometimes this strategy does work. But sometimes it backfires. It really does depend on the guy, the circumstances and where the woman is at. If a woman is confident in herself and a guy confuses her, she will likely move on.
This is not a mature relationship however. Eventually the game playing does get old even when the woman (or man) is insecure. Everyone desires to be treated with respect and they should be.
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reader, AnnaW219 +, writes (18 November 2007):
 well i have a met a lot of guy like your guy mate and yes it does sometimes but only for guys i no that sounds stupid ill tell you what you should do act your self if you want guys by your side but i tell its better having just one. but it can work for a girl but the guy will no what your doing
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): Well, this strategy could go both ways, depending on the girl .
1. If he does that, the girl might want more, because they want more attention.
2.The girl might just get confused about what she's feeling. She might think: Does he like me? Or was he just playing around?
So really it might work. It might also depend on the guy. If he's good looking, funny, got a good personaity etc...
But if it's a bozzer, or a lazy type gy, then it won't work as effectively.
I hope this has helped you.
Please rate my answer. Thank you.
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