My live-in BF has never once in the whole 2+years touched me in a sexual manner!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and 3 months, in the beginning it was good, he would hold me and kiss me and say loving things to me, he moved in with me after three months and then things started changing. He became less affe...
A. 2 May 2012: From reading what you have put my advise would be to leave him and move on. Find someone who is loving, affectionate, actually cares about you and won't cheat on you.... (read in full...)
My husband and I are not in love anymore but trying to work it out for our child, should I stay or follow my heart and be with the other man I love?
Q. I have been married for about 6 years and am not in love with my husband anymore but am trying to work things out for our 2 year old daughter. I am in love with another man and have tried to stop communication with him but can not. The feelings take ...
A. 25 April 2012: You know why your current relationship is not working. It's because your after another man. If you want your relationship to work cut contact with the other man and concentrate on your family, if you don't really care about making it work (which is ... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who has done porn?
Q. I am going to do a photo shoot in a few weeks...a photo shoot for a pornographic magazine and website. My closest friends, the only ones who know about it, have said that it may affect future relationships that I have. But is that really true? ...
A. 25 April 2012: If you want to talk to me as I have done a small bit of porn in my past feel free to pm me and I will try to answer any questions or worries. Just because some people don't approve does not mean your doing something awful. You can't keep everyone ... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who has done porn?
Q. I am going to do a photo shoot in a few weeks...a photo shoot for a pornographic magazine and website. My closest friends, the only ones who know about it, have said that it may affect future relationships that I have. But is that really true? ...
A. 24 April 2012: Personally I don't see it as an issue. Plenty of people have "interesting" pasts I myself have given it a try, it was a joke for my friends for a short time but I have never had any problems from it. When dating I don't normally tell many people and ... (read in full...)
Is he acting normal for a sex buddy?
Q. I have had this sex buddy for several months and he seems to be more affectionate these days. The other day we had sex and he had to rush off and apologized a couple of times and said he would try to come back by to spend time with me. He asks me if ...
A. 17 April 2012: He is showing you that he likes you and cares about you. Maybe he wants more than sex buddies but does not want to say incase it makes things difficult.... (read in full...)
Why does a man go off of sex?
Q. why does a man suddenly go off sex, the first year was the best, now nothing for 4 months, is it possible to have a relationship without, i am getting through a lot of batteries lol...
A. 16 April 2012: personally i have always needed sex. Apart from when i found out my ex was cheating. However from reading lots on here i have put a list together of possible causes that appear to effect peoples sex drives.
Stress.
Problems in the relationship... (read in full...)
In a relationship with an older woman....she's so beautiful but so insecure! How do I fix this?
Q. Ok so I was a the club and I saw probobly the most attractive girl I seen in my life(I thought I was drunk until i saw her again and she looked just as good!). As a matter a fact all my friends tried to get her number individually but failed. I was ...
A. 16 April 2012: dont listen to the negative stuff. There is an age gap of 20 years between my parents. They get on extremely well and have now been married for 30 years. If you care for her that much let her know that and just see How the relationship takes you. If ... (read in full...)
Sent my FWB some pictures of me, should I ask him to delete them? Or should I trust that he wont show anyone?
Q. okay i don't really know where to begin, but i met this guy 3 months ago, and after talking for a few months, we decided to be Fwb( this was mid Feb) we have seen each other once since we agreed to be fwb although we have not actually had any sexual ...
A. 2 April 2012: most people dont share private photos if your fwb let him enjoy them and relax. All is ok. :-) ... (read in full...)
Guys: opinions on nose piercings?
Q. What do guys think of girls who have nose piercings? Ones that are small, like the nose rings that are really subtle? Are they a turn off, or do you not mind them?...
A. 1 April 2012: if its small, and subtle it makes no difference to How i see the person. You judge someone by How they are in your company not How many piercings they have. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend thinks of me as a breeding factory, if I can't have kids, he'd leave me!
Q. I've been in a relationship for about 2.5 years with someone who is wonderful, caring, supportive, etc. We have been through a lot, and I sincerely saw him as the one. He already considered us married but it doesn't work that way for me. ...
A. 30 March 2012: for a lot of people one partner not wanting kids is a deal breaker. However stipulating that if your for some reason cant have kids he would leave is just wrong! ... (read in full...)
Do men like to be chased first?
Q. Do men liked to be chased? When they're not calling and texting you is it because they do want to or they waiting for you to do it?...
A. 30 March 2012: personally. I love being chased.... (read in full...)
Why would she ask me my sexual orientation?
Q. Please comment despite the length pls. So I'm not out to everyone that I'm lesbian so at work maybe two people may know. Anyways there's this female that I noticed last month or so who has very beautiful hazel eyes with a nice creamy skin ...
A. 28 March 2012: does she have to make it more obvious? From what you have said she is interested but cant say it so she is dropping hints. Be her friend suggest meeting out of work and see if your relationship progresses beyond friendship.... (read in full...)
Do I tell my brother in law that his wife wasn't a virgin when they married?
Q. I just found out something and I'm not sure if I should keep to myself. My wife is the youngest of 3 daughters. Her next oldest sister just filed for divorce and is already dating and sleeping with men even though her divorce isn't final. My ...
A. 27 March 2012: its none of your business. You tell him nothing unless you want to possibly ruin there relationship. You must learn a persons past means nothing, its who they are when they are with you that counts.... (read in full...)
Why aren't men more loyal "til death do us part"?
Q. I know that Shakespeare writes that man always has "one foot on shore and one on sea," although he says it more poetically, and he continues that women must say, "Hey nonny, nonny!" and try to accept man's nature. However, not to disagree with the ...
A. 27 March 2012: as a man who is totally loyal in a relationship and has been cheated by a woman i feel your argument rather wrong. Both sexes cheat. Women are however just as bad as men. If not worse in my experience!... (read in full...)
I'm ready to throw in the towel girlfriend never shows me any affection
Q. I have been with my girlfriend now for 7 months.She says she really enjoys been with me and is really happy.I love her so much i tell her often how i feel that i think she i beautiful and she means the world to me.But im starting to lose interest in ...
A. 27 March 2012: it sounds like she does not love you. Your more of a convenience to her.
'never allow someone to be ur priority while allowing urself to be their option'
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Is there a good way to remove pubic hair?
Q. quick question, is there a best way to remove pubic hair? if i shave it i get wired spots there ...
A. 24 March 2012: personally if i want to get Rid of it all i wax. :-) though mostly i only trim to keep it neat. :-)... (read in full...)
Guys: would you date a girl if you knew she had done nude modelling?
Q. I have been modeling for an online lingerie site. I was approached by a porn site for nude modeling... The money they offered was amazing! I told them I would NEVER do photos with a man or another woman... Guys: Would you date a girl if you knew...
A. 23 March 2012: i did not bother me years ago so i would not worry about it if i was you.... (read in full...)
Can you strictly take care of physical needs and not harm the friendship?
Q. hey,, i have a friend,, but she's just a friend , we are both singles, and we do not love /crush each other. is it right for us to have sex, just for our physical needs, will it hamper our relationship, if we dont get mentally involved. plzzzz rply...
A. 21 March 2012: i managed it with a female friend for years until she got a bf so yes it can be done as long as you both set the boundaries before you start anything.... (read in full...)
Do men stop using porn when they have a girlfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, us women need hope is there any men here who stop using porn/looking at it when they have a girlfriend? ...
A. 21 March 2012: when i am in a relationship i stop looking at porn. So for me yes.... (read in full...)
Do you always have to sleep on the same side of the bed?
Q. This is gonna seem a real dumb question but recently I've noticed that depending on if I'm single or in a relationship I sleep on different sides of my bed. I thought it was quite amusing but wondered if it was normal or if there was any reason for ...
A. 20 March 2012: personally i always like to sleep on the same side of the bed if possible. :-)... (read in full...)
At what age do you think should people think of getting married and having children?
Q. What age do you think is people should start having a family? I have a 25 year old daughter, who is very accomplished, smart, beatifull, full of life....and doesn't want even to think of getting married and have children just yet. She is still s...
A. 20 March 2012: Im 26 and would love nothing more than to start a family. But everyone is different. Give her time she will get to it when she is ready.... (read in full...)
Dumping a guy over pornography use?
Q. Has anyone here ever dumped anyone over pornography use? How bad was it? I want to find a man who doesn't use it so I can feel special for once....
A. 20 March 2012: For me personally I only look at porn if im single after all when you are in a relationship you dont need porn as you have someone you share a connection with, to cuddle up to and make love to. When ever im in a relationship all porn is forgotten i ... (read in full...)
I know leaving him is a good idea but the thought of being alone scares me
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a total of three years. He has cheated, I only know of about 6 girls but I don't know how many times or who else, one of which was one of my closest friends so I cannot trust him around my friends. He has ...
A. 18 March 2012: my dear come on. I have been cheated on and i know How much it hurts but you really need to give up on this guy and move on with your life. All the time he is in your life your just going to be stuck in what sounds like a really unhappy existence. ... (read in full...)
Insecurity issues -- she cheated and said he was her best ever
Q. Hello everyone Now I have a big insecurity issue to deal with and it usually end up with me feeling unwanted by my fiancé Long story short We got into a fight we broke up I tried getting back then found out that a guy that used to ONLY give h...
A. 18 March 2012: for yourself. For your happyness. Leave her and find someone who will love you and who you can trust. I know How you feel, i have been there, i know its hard when you love someone. But this wont go away. Leave her and find someone to make you happy.... (read in full...)
Why am I the only one without love?
Q. So have been in three relationships. I am 17 right now. I would say that the last relationship was true love. I know this sounds stupid saying I am so young and I already experienced true love. I never felt anything like that with him. Anyway he ...
A. 18 March 2012: it happens to us all. I know How you feel. More than anything i would love to find someone i can love and will love me. But however we are both still young and im sure we will find someone when the time is right. Be positive it might take a while ... (read in full...)
I make him a priority when we make plans to do things, but I feel like he thinks of me as an option
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and lately I'm starting to get frustrated with where his priorities seem to be. If I want to do something with him that requires him taking even a day off work he takes forever to get back to me a...
A. 16 March 2012: here is a quote a good friend text to me when i was having a similar issue.
"never allow someone to be your priority while allowing urself to be their option"
think about it. if he is treating you like this do you really want to stay in a rel... (read in full...)
Do natural contraception monitors work?
Q. Hi This isnt a relationship question as such... more of a sex and practical question. I do not get on well with hormonal contraceptives. They do horrid things to me, and I stopped taking them. My boyfriend uses condoms, but it would be nice to...
A. 15 March 2012: my ex used this method and we never had a problem.... (read in full...)
How long do guys wait in a relationship before they expect sex?
Q. Do guys expect sex so soon in a relationship? All the boys talk about it, and everyone i know whose had a relationship have done IT relatively quickly. I've always been scared and holding myself back from relationships because i supposed you could ...
A. 8 March 2012: you sound like a beautiful woman. My advice to you would be dont feel pressured to do anything you dont want to do. Some relationships i have been in we have had sex quite early on but one person i dated we did not have sex for the first 6 months of ... (read in full...)
For the men who do not suffer from retroactive jealousy, do you simply not think about girlfriend's or wife's past, or does it have no effect on you when you do?
Q. I'm a guy who suffers from retroactive jealousy. I'm trying to figure how to get over this so I'm trying to figure out what is different about me compared to guys who don't have this problem. For the men who do not have RJ, do you simply not think...
A. 5 March 2012: personally for me anything that happened before i met the person is no issue. Everyone has a past and some of my exes have had very interesting pasts. For me what matters is when your with the person and who they are with you. Thats what is ... (read in full...)
Am I jealous? Or do I have something to actually be woried about regarding my Gf's actions????
Q. I have been dating my girl for a year and a half and love her so much we are planning to get married net year. But one thing i need to know is if she is cheating on me , she has a male friend which she goes out to dinner with once a fortnight and ...
A. 3 March 2012: say to her you want to Go with them next time. If they are only friends they have nothing to hide so there is no reason Why she should object.... (read in full...)
Do age gaps really matter when it comes to good sex?
Q. Does the age gap really matter when it comes to good sex and relationships? Do you think its wrong for a 53year old women to have sex daily? why would her boyfriend of 41 tell her that love doesnt get measured by the amount of sex sessions??...
A. 2 March 2012: age gap does not matter at all. Some of the best sex i have ever had has been with older women. ... (read in full...)
Do men like females who are very experimental sexually?
Q. Do men like females who are very experimental sexually? For example, my boyfriend and I went shopping and bought a huge jar of pickles. I said that he should f*** me with one of them. (I'm not always quite so strange, I was 1/2 joking, 1/2 serious, ...
A. 27 February 2012: my ex was like this at the start of our relationship. I loved it. There is nothing wrong at all live life to the full. :-)... (read in full...)
I've never had an orgasm. I'm afraid I'll have to pee if I have one!
Q. I have never had an orgasm, I am sure of that. But from what I've read, I've been close many times. I always either stop myself (if masturbating) or my partner when I start feeling like I need to urinate because the feeling is too intense- it's not ...
A. 24 February 2012: strangely enough as a bloke i had the same issue at first. Next time you masturbate no matter How strange it feels rush yourself and keep going. Once you have had an orgasm you will know what to expect and never look back :-)... (read in full...)
There is a sex tape of me out there and not just any sex tape a freaking party, public tape!!
Q. A few weeks ago I was at a party and drank alittle to much. There was this girl who was also a little drunk and shamelessly flirting with me and we ended up in one of the bedrooms and she was giving me head when some guy walked in. He laughed called ...
A. 24 February 2012: dont worry about it. Your not the only one that this has ever happened to. People will soon forget. ... (read in full...)
I don't understand this girl! If I am an important part of her life, then why am I being treated like this?
Q. Hi, I would really appreciate your advice on this, but first some background: I am 30 and my girlfriend is 28. We started dating 3 years ago, we went out for two months then she left me for her ex. I subsequently found out that they had never split ...
A. 24 February 2012: after seeing your update she is just like my ex. Be careful dont jump in and get married. If you stay with her Get all problems solved and doubts gone before you even think of proposing and give her a year or so to prove it.... (read in full...)
Is an emotional affair like texts, emails not cheating and more like porn?
Q. I am right now very numb... Two days ago I woke up and was going to paint getting ready for my long term bf to finally move in. He had slept over and left his iPad. I was looking at the furniture that we had been looking at the night before on it ...
A. 24 February 2012: in my opinion you did the right thing.... (read in full...)
I don't understand this girl! If I am an important part of her life, then why am I being treated like this?
Q. Hi, I would really appreciate your advice on this, but first some background: I am 30 and my girlfriend is 28. We started dating 3 years ago, we went out for two months then she left me for her ex. I subsequently found out that they had never split ...
A. 24 February 2012: my advise. Dont get married to this woman. It sounds like she is not serious you.... (read in full...)
I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?
Q. Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...
A. 22 February 2012: anal sex is nothing special. Be glad of the love your wife is giving you and respect her boundaries.
NEVER cheat on your wife! When you married you make a commitment to be loyal so stop acting like a baby and honor and love her like you prom... (read in full...)
Men and fidelity.....
Q. do men always secretly want to have sex with other women when they are in a relationship/married...to be specific when they are in love with their partner. are the faithful men faithful because they are obliged to? is it that men have to control ...
A. 22 February 2012: as a "faithful man" i believe it is a choice. You either decide to be loyal or you dont.
I believe if you want to see someone else you end your current relationship before starting a new one. Sadly my ex did not think as i do. Its not just men that... (read in full...)
If cheated on will the man suddenly find the woman sexually unattractive?
Q. If you made a mistake and was found out for cheating, can it make a man go from finding you very sexually attractive, into not finding you attractive any more? Can men change just like that? How do you pull them back? Any one ever been through this?...
A. 22 February 2012: yes when someone cheats on you the idea of being intimate with them becomes a lot less attractive. ... (read in full...)
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