He is always busy and I don't feel he prioritizes seeing me.
Q. I have been seeing my fella for a year now and it's going ok, but we both have very busy jobs and he lives in another town from me,anyway I wanted to see more of him so I suggested seeing him on a Friday night but he couldn't because he had ...
A. 13 September 2014: I would try to answer these questions: Is he giving me what I need in a relationship? Would I be happier with or without him? Can I expect nothing from him? I think you should be much more fun than golf...... (read in full...)
I don't get wet before sex and I don't know if I've had an orgasm
Q. I'm 24 and I've been with a few different guys. The other day my boyfriend asked me if I've ever had a orgasim with him and I honestly couldn't answer. I've had times during sex with him where my legs will shake and it feels downright amazing but ...
A. 13 July 2014: I would say, try masturbating a bunch to see what gets you wet. YOU need to figure out what works for you. Watch some porn, read some stories, fantasize. And then communicate this to your future partners. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I'm not truly happy, should I break up with him and wait for someone I know I will truly be happy with?
Q. ive been with my bf for almost 4 years and things are ok...we argue from time to time but nothing major. i cant say im happy, more like content. hes a nice guy but i cant help feeling like im missing out on something. we dont really have a lo...
A. 23 April 2014: Have you talked to him about this?... (read in full...)
Boy friend says I have nothing to worry about. Is this something I should be worried about?
Q. Last weekend my boyfriend met a girl when he went to hang out as his cousin's house. Basically she's a good friend of his cousin and his other friends. My boyfriend didn't even know she was going to be there because it's usually just an all guy ...
A. 10 March 2014: Ya man. You should be flattered that your boyfriend is getting attention, and more so that he's choosing to share it all with you. He probably accepted her friend request because he didn't want it to seem like a big deal. I don't think it's ... (read in full...)
Missing absent Bf. Have feelings for unavailable new guy who I work with. What to do?
Q. Hello Aunts, I am so sad tonight. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. There were some problems with our relationship but overall it was a good one, a beautiful one. I never once doubted his love for me, and even our "fights" we...
A. 9 March 2014: Hello All,
Just an update. I broke up with my boyfriend because it was feeling like he wasn't my boyfriend, what with the nearly-zero contact. As a result this has put me in such a sad mood that I am not in the mood to flirt with this other gu... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has said "I'm a keeper" multiple times out of no where?
Q. So this past week my bf has said I was a keeper multiple times. Last night he tells me his boss wanted to meet me because he was telling her about me, he said "she's a keeper". Within the past 2 days he's said it 3 times. what does that really mean ...
A. 27 February 2014: Of course it means you're so great that he needs to keep you, as opposed to lose you.
Not to ruin this bubbly thread or hurt your feelings, but the fact that he's said this thrice in such proximity might mean that he's trying to convince himself ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about kissing a guy when I was 22?
Q. I have been married for a little less than a year to a man I love. I could never imagine betraying our marriage ever- I am completely and happily devoted to him. Before we got married, we dated for about 10 years since I was 18- long distance. ...
A. 27 February 2014: Yes I think there's no need. We have our little secrets and if it's not a habit, don't make a big deal out of it. ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date a separated person?
Q. I'm divorced and met a woman through friends who's married but living separated lives with her husband for financial reasons. Long story short, she invited me out for a date. Is it wrong to date a separated woman who's husband is already out there ...
A. 27 February 2014: I think it's up to her to decide. If you want to, go for it. The arrangement that she's got with her husband is their own business, you don't want have to worry about helping her cheat, if that's your concern.
But this situation sounds like it ... (read in full...)
How can I help my colleague and friend? Afraid she's having a crisis and may lose her job.
Q. Hi, I have a frienship question. I work with a woman who has, over the years, become a friend. Though we don't really socialise outside work, we do confide in one another when we go for lunch etc. I am fond of her. Her home life has spirall...
A. 27 February 2014: Hey, Yes, your friend indeed does have problems. SO DOES EVERYBODY. She doesn't sound like she's making an effort, or even pretending to. I get to work late too but when I do, I stay late. You think her reasons are legitimate, I've heard... (read in full...)
Missing absent Bf. Have feelings for unavailable new guy who I work with. What to do?
Q. Hello Aunts, I am so sad tonight. My boyfriend and I were together for two years. There were some problems with our relationship but overall it was a good one, a beautiful one. I never once doubted his love for me, and even our "fights" we...
A. 22 February 2014: TaylorSwiftFan,
I would rather buy him a plane ticket because I'd rather have all of him for a short while than have him in a half-assed way. I prefer quality over quantity. I don't know how old you are but there's no substitute for seeing s... (read in full...)
What's happened to my long-distance friendship?
Q. hey I met a guy online and ever since that we have been friends for 5 years recently I went to his country to see him. through our friendship he has always told me he has feelings for me and he loves and respects me saying if you were here with me ...
A. 3 February 2014: At the risk of sounding like an old fuddy-duddy: I think in this current age of technology, people have forgotten how to interact face-to-face. Take phones for example. People are caught off-guard, almost frightened, if I (God forbid) call the... (read in full...)
No contact from boyfriend for 8 days...
Q. I haven't heard from my boyfriend, of 3 years, since the 9th (8 days). No text, call, message, absolutely nothing. The last time I heard from him he told me he loved me and I'm pretty sure his phone ran out of time the next day which makes it a ...
A. 18 January 2014: If there's no activity on his Facebook, and if he isn't the type to randomly drop contact, I would be worried. I would call him just to see if he's alive, or send him a quick message, and if those things don't get response go to his house. And if it ... (read in full...)
I want to satisfy all his needs but not with a threesome!
Q. Ok so i know this is a probably a typical silly question to ask but i want to know your opinions on having a threesome based in a relationship!! Small bit of background Im with my partner just over 6 months now we are both similar people and even ...
A. 14 January 2014: Let's reverse roles. If you always wanted to stick a dildo into someone's ass, if it was just your full-time daydream, and then you meet someone who doesn't want to do it, would it be fair to make him guilty for not doing it for you? How can i... (read in full...)
Did my poem scare him away?
Q. I wrote a poem for a guy I really like. We have had some good conversations but since it was his birthday I decided to write a poem on how great a person he is. The problem is its been about a week and a half and he has yet to respond. The poem said ...
A. 11 January 2014: Whether he returns your feelings or not, he should have the decency to at least say "Thank You," for a very thoughtful gift. What a prick.... (read in full...)
I think he likes me but why doesn't he make a move?
Q. This guy doesn't make a move! I like him very much. I feel warm and comfortable around him, and every time I see him I have sex dreams and wake up in a good mood. I saw him yesterday again at friends house. He wouldn't leave my side, looks and...
A. 5 January 2014: Maybe he just wants you to be one of his many women. Maybe he's building up the courtship.
Why don't you ask him out? Or just invite him over for sex?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend of four years drinks, smokes, and gambles but won't admit he has a problem
Q. Hi everybody, I could so do with some sound and serious advice, I feel as if I am going around in a circle about this. I've been with my boyfriend for going on 4 years now. It's long-distance but we see each other as often as possible, at l...
A. 5 January 2014: If you need some encouragement for breaking up with him, I'm giving it to you. He sounds like he's more of a headache than pleasure, especially in the future when you want to move in and have kids. At this point, is he even being a good friend, t... (read in full...)
I don't want to seem boring during dinner conversation with my boyfriend and his friends!
Q. hello all, tonight i'm out for a meal with my boyfriend, his friend and his friends wife - i really am worried about conversation i'm not a natterer, a huge talker, i prefer to listen. i envy girls who get a bottle of wine a talk none stop for ages...
A. 5 January 2014: I prefer quiet listeners. I wouldn't try to change anything about yourself.... (read in full...)
I've just had a baby and I am stressed, stressed, stressed!
Q. Where to begin! Just gave birth to my baby who I am very protective of due to losing a baby in the past. My in laws can't seem to understand why I will only leave my baby with my mum if/ when I go out. When I go their to visit with my partner his ...
A. 3 January 2014: Oh, you could also get your husband to talk to his brother about going easy on the baby and giving her space.... (read in full...)
I've just had a baby and I am stressed, stressed, stressed!
Q. Where to begin! Just gave birth to my baby who I am very protective of due to losing a baby in the past. My in laws can't seem to understand why I will only leave my baby with my mum if/ when I go out. When I go their to visit with my partner his ...
A. 3 January 2014: If your daughter-in-law or son-in-law were keeping your grandchild away from you, would you like it? I can also imagine how your lack of trust is insulting for them.
I'm not a huge fan of FB but all they want to do is show off their niece, I... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will not take down sports illustrated calendar that his mom bought him!
Q. This question is really weighing me down. This Christmas, my boyfriend of about a years mother bought him a sports illustrated swimsuit calendar. Now, before you roll your eyes and dub me insecure, know that my irritation and issue with this has ...
A. 1 January 2014: Sorry, I just realized a typo in my comment. I meant to say, " I bought my boyfriend a BOOK of nude paintings..." not " a 'picture' of..."... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will not take down sports illustrated calendar that his mom bought him!
Q. This question is really weighing me down. This Christmas, my boyfriend of about a years mother bought him a sports illustrated swimsuit calendar. Now, before you roll your eyes and dub me insecure, know that my irritation and issue with this has ...
A. 1 January 2014: "YouWish" is the only person who got this right over here. I needn't repeat everything that she said. I have no problem believing that a mother would be possessive of her son. And for all you who gasped, "oh you watch PORN together but a swimsuit ... (read in full...)
Does he deserve somebody who will love him as he is?
Q. Hello everyone, I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on my situation. I have been with my partner for about a year and a half. It has been amazing. He is the most genuine caring person and i love him to bits. My problem is, I...
A. 30 December 2013: What bothers you more? His weight or his lack of will-power?
I'd say move on with the break-up. The worst thing you can do, for him and yourself, is to stay with him out of pity.
I'm sick of this double-standard. If the roles were reversed, h... (read in full...)
I wasnt a priority his life, so I broke up with him, did I do right?
Q. Hi everyone! I hope someone can help me out and maybe guide me on a decision I made. I broke up with my boyfriend of about 4 months today and I guess I just need to see if people think I did the right thing as I know what I am like, I will do ...
A. 27 December 2013: It's fine that you broke up with him, but you shouldn't have done it over text.
Also, it was his birthday, I wouldn't like it if my boyfriend wanted me all to himself on MY birthday. Birthdays are a special day, where you get a say in how you ... (read in full...)
What do women in particular think of a guy who's 30 and never had a girlfriend?
Q. Anyway, I want to hear some opinions. Guys are welcome to comment, but I think that girls may be able to offer me some valuable insight as to what exactly my problem is, and whether or not anything can be done about it. I've always been rath...
A. 18 December 2013: I must admit, but wiseowl is not entirely wrong. Humans can smell insecurity from a mile away, and this goes for men as well as women. As for your conversation with the girl above, it would have actually been more attractive to answer, "No." th... (read in full...)
Broke up with bf... do men actually have feelings?
Q. Okay, I broke up with my boyfriend, of 3 years, a few days ago. I changed all numbers and blocked/deleted him from everything and went NC to the best of my ability. We broke up like this 10 months ago and after 3 weeks he found a way back in and we ...
A. 10 December 2013: What do you mean view a profile of his? If he has facebook, doesn't it mean it's open to the public? So it's not "wrong" to look at it, just unhealthy. Also, just because he doesn't express his sorrow on social media, doesn't mean he isn't gr... (read in full...)
My boyfriend died 2 years ago and I don't know how to move on
Q. He was my childhood bestfriend and we started dating when i was 14 and half years old. I am 19 now. He was my first boyfriend, first kiss, and basically he was my first at everything. We were very naive. We actually started talking about where we...
A. 5 December 2013: I am very sorry for your loss. I am also sorry that your birthday is tainted. Have you considered seeing a grief counsellor? Or spending mroe time with other people whom you love? I think the latter is very important. Don't take them for granted. ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but doesn't trust me to carry out his wishes!
Q. My son's father has been dating me now for 15 years. We have seen turbulent times. He left me after the birth of our son and started seeing a coworker of his. This relationship lasted about 4 years. He denied it was anything more than a casual ...
A. 5 December 2013: Does he have a child with his co-worker? Well then I can see why he would think she is less biased than you.
Overall this entire relationship sounds unstable and unhealthy. I'd say it's best to move on than to try to untangle this drama.
Also... (read in full...)
My ex overstepped the mark!
Q. Hi, my ex (we broke up 4 years ago and are now 'friends', albeit distant) came to visit me, to give me a present for my birthday. He said his last train was at 22:30. Then we got something to eat. He was taking forever finishing his glass of wine ...
A. 5 December 2013: Why do you feel obligated to send him a "thank you" note? Didn't you already say thank you to him in person? Is it rude in America if you don't write a thank you note for every single present?
Yes, I agree with both Honeypie and the other one. My ... (read in full...)
I feel sad that my friends only want to see me when I make the effort.
Q. It's my birthday coming up, I arranged a party and invited all my friends. More than half simply ignored the invitation. Most of the others, those I consider really close friends, one by one are pulling out. They said initially they would 'try' and ...
A. 2 December 2013: OK, I am going to be straight up with you too and it may sound harsh, but I hope it helps in the long run. This is the point of view I am coming from: My friend Jill has a friend named Anna. Anna has been getting on Jill's nerves lately: She's in... (read in full...)
Boyfriend had a secret porn blog and we barely have sex anymore. Should I leave him?
Q. Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months. We've been fighting a lot lately. I found out he had a porn blog on tumblr and i got upset I made him chose me or delete it. He deleted it but he's been such an ass. Hes had an attitude...
A. 1 December 2013: He's a giant baby and you should break up with him.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend tells his best female friend that she is pretty and they talk about graphic sex
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for around six months now and we are very happy. He has a female best friend that he is very close to and says how much he loves her. He openly admits they talk about sex quite grafically and tell eachother when they ...
A. 25 November 2013: How can I answer your question, when you don't talk about how he treats YOU? Is he nicer to her than he is to you? I wouldn't be as quick as CaringGuy to stay that "he wants her, not you." But how often do you feel this way? It's not the healthie... (read in full...)
Is it sexual frustration or overwhelming chemistry? Should I go for it?
Q. Hey everyone!!!! I have been single for a couple of months now. Me and my ex broke up mutually (i wanted to break up for a while before we actually did). Since we broke up though i made the decision to stay single for a while (i have had 3...
A. 25 November 2013: Hey, I think it would be a great experience for you to have untethered sex. I don't think every type of relationship has to be the same. So, my first instinct would be to say: go have fun. Just be careful and responsible, and you might even learn... (read in full...)
Am I a total pervert for being turned on by the idea of a cute boy masturbating to a picture of me?
Q. Not long ago I had an embarrassing moment at my school where I was wearing a thin black spaghetti strap top with just a thin camisole underneath but no bra when someone conveniently decided to snap a picture and thanks to the flash you could totally ...
A. 29 October 2013: Of course your friend would find it disgusting, because it's HER sibling. But you, go ahead and be turned on :)... (read in full...)
I have a crush on best friend's hot roommate!
Q. My buddy recently got a new roommate, who just happens to be a really sexy, intelligent, funny girl, who does awesome shit like make pancakes and watches all my favorite movies. It's very hard not to be attracted to her. He went out and left us ...
A. 22 October 2013: Life is too short to always do the appropriate thing. I say go for it!... (read in full...)
I have some doubts about him as a longterm partner!
Q. My boyfriend asked me to marry him, and now I am torn. Idontknowif anyone else went through the same analyzing stage before getting married, but this is what I am doing right now, and question myself if this is real love and if few qualities that ...
A. 21 October 2013: I am sure your boyfriend is a very nice, sweet man. BUt all the things that you've mentioned are pretty much my biggest pet peeves! I would want someone on the same wavelength as me, as I'm sure so do you. Your boyfriend sounds naive. As you said, I ... (read in full...)
I'm at a breaking point because of his rejections!
Q. I know this question gets asked alot but I'm still confused about my situation. I'm head over heels in love with my boyfriend of over a year so was delighted when he asked me to move in with him recently. He's so caring and sweet to me he's the o...
A. 21 October 2013: I think it's very rude of your boyfriend to call you a broken record player. What he should have done instead is thought, "Clearly, my girlfriend is consistently unsatisfied with something. Maybe I should talk to her about it and try to resolve it ... (read in full...)
Would it be ok to date her because of our ages?
Q. I graduated from high school last year, and there was a girl I liked who was a freshman. She had a boyfriend for all of last year, so I didn't really get the chance to be with her. I'm in college now, and I found out that she and her boyfriend broke ...
A. 16 October 2013: How can we properly help you if you don't even mention what your ages are? ... (read in full...)
Why does my fiancée get irritated with me about small things?
Q. Hello everyone I am about to be married in a month. My fiance is a very loving and caring girl who is very dedicated in love. That being said, I am noticing a sense of irritation in her in certain situations, irritation that has taken me a lot b...
A. 16 October 2013: Your fiancee reminds me a little bit of my old self. I used to think an ex-boyfriend was irritating because he took ages to get out of the house, and that would cause in wasting a nice day. Finally, I learned that I cannot change his behaviour, only ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that my boyfriend doesn't want or need sex every night?
Q. My problem is that my boyfriend and I just recently. Intimate. He loves to kiss and cuddle with me and he loves so much to do oral on me.. but that's as far as it goes. He says he's just a guy who doesn't need to have sex every night that pleasing ...
A. 15 October 2013: I don't think you should be worried at all! I myself don't like to have sex every night either, so if I met a guy who wanted the same thing I would, that would be great. It doesn't mean that he's not attracted to you, especially since he's willing ... (read in full...)
Why do people let facebook ruin their relationship?
Q. I have a question about Facebook, and that is why do so many people let it run their relationships? I'm not just talking about significant others, either. They let it affect their relationships with family as well. I know my family has, at least. A ...
A. 15 October 2013: Hello,
I'm sorry to hear that your aunt and cousin stopped talking to you, that's really disappointing. But there's really nothing you can do if people decide to be petty. I personally believe that even if you did something wrong, you deserve ... (read in full...)
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