My boyfriend has had sex with 100 girls. Am I just the next one in line?
Q. My boyfriend confessed to having nearly 100 past sexual partners. I'm still a virgin, which makes it a shocker for me. He told me that before he turned 21 (his bday is next month) he wanted to go above 100, but said he would stop at me. He wanted me ...
A. 9 October 2012: He has had 100 partners, and he will not stop with you. He's wasting your time and you need to walk away from this guy.... (read in full...)
How do I get my prude girlfriend to do sexual things with me?!
Q. How do I get my prude girlfriend to do shit with me?! We have been dating for a few weeks and we have only made out. I try to feel her up and she just stops me. how can i seduce/persuade her to let me finger her or give me dome!? ...
A. 9 October 2012: Break up with her. She deserves someone better than you. If all you want is sex, go hire a prostitute. Don't disrespect girls by dating them and pretending to care about them, then calling them "prude" behind their back and trying to find ways to ... (read in full...)
Fingering was not pleasant for me!
Q. So I let my boyfriend finger me for the first time, and it wasn't pleasurable at all. It was sore sort of and was like friction. I was wet. But I don't know whether it was his being dry or me being tight. Help! It's really putting me off doing it ...
A. 8 October 2012: Lots of women dislike being fingered. Lots of men aren't very good at it. If you don't like it, don't do it.... (read in full...)
Does watching lesbian pornography make me gay?
Q. Hi, I'm straight and have always been with men. However, i just realized that i like to watch lesbian porn and i like to look at pictures of naked women on the internet. I just find women beautiful. I wouldnt never be interested in looking at naked ...
A. 5 June 2012: having sex with other ladies makes you a lesbian. everything else is a grey area.
Don't worry too much about your fantasies- they're just that.
If you feel like experimenting to find out if you're actually interested in women, maybe you... (read in full...)
I hate my stepfather he hates me!
Q. Basically my mum married my step dad when i was about 7 or 8 but when he proposed to her she would ask me if i was ok with it first, and i stupidly said yes because i liked him at the time he was nice to me back then, but then my mum had his son (my ...
A. 20 February 2012: i agree with keeping track of what happens ina journal at home, but i would say make a second copy on looseleaf paper and take the looseleaf sheets to school and keep them in your locker, or find some other safe place for them, so that they are ... (read in full...)
My b/f says I will tempt him to cheat because I won't have sex before marriage
Q. hello, i have aboyfriend i intend to get married to,am 25 years and want to settle.we slated adate in actober this year to get married.he wants to have sex with me but i want to have sex after legalised marriage.whenever we go out i came back lat...
A. 20 February 2012: if he is threatening you with cheating on you, he's a total jerk. If he's trying to pressure you into having sex when you don't want to, he isn't worth your time. It's time to dump this clown. What else doesn't he respect your wishes on? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has suddenly gone crazy over my male friend being at the party with me and now he is ignoring me! What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 2 and half years. And I love him more than words can say. He has the potential to be an amazing partner, friend, lover, etc. But, he has put me through a lot in a short amount of time. Everything from ...
A. 20 February 2012: break up with him and stay broken up, he's obviously a waste of your time.... (read in full...)
After being raped, are women ever able to enjoy sex?
Q. Nearly three years ago I was raped, so I have never had sex other than that one time. I have started a relationship with someone and I like him and he respects me, but I don't want to have sex. Do other women actually want sex after rape or do ...
A. 20 February 2012: I'm sorry that happened to you! Hugs! My own experience has been that, for some women, they want LOTS of sex after, like they're trying to wipe out the memory with lots of new sex. Some women will (subconciously) deliberately put themselv... (read in full...)
If my gf is pregnant, she says she does not want to keep the baby but is afraid of the guilt of an abortion. What can we do?
Q. I've got a real dilemma here. Me and my girlfriend have been together for less than 2 months. About 3 weeks into our relationship we started having sex. We used protection each time. Anyway, her period was supposed to begin at one point during the...
A. 20 February 2012: which is worse- raising an unwanted child, who will know that they are unwanted, (yes, the child will know, they can sense their parents resentment and unpreparedness to have kids), and probably have a shitty life, especially because its mother ... (read in full...)
He will not admit when he is wrong. He shouts. My self esteem has been affected. What can I do?.
Q. Hi guys, my husband never apologizes to me, even if its clear he is wrong and he is always blaming me for everything that goes wrong in the relationship. He always finds a way to make me feel i am to blame. I do apologize to him whenever i am at...
A. 20 February 2012: he has no right to shout at you, ever, unless you are too far aaway to talk to or are in danger. i can't tell you how to deal with your particular husband re. whether to talk to him about it or how to approach the subject, but i can tell you that ... (read in full...)
What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards everyone?
Q. What kind of upbringing would make someone uncaring cold and callous towards their partners,children,family even friends as i know of a person just like this and i am finding it hard to understand how anyone can be like this towards anyone who has ...
A. 20 February 2012: who cares what kind of upbringing would make a person like that? if someone is treating you badly, get them out of your life. you are not their therapist, its not your job to fix them or figure them out. if they dont want to change, you cant change ... (read in full...)
Sex! Why, so far, has it all been so unsatisfying?
Q. hey ive been sexually active for about a year.. ive just been wondering.. I don't know if im sexually frustrated or not but i think i am. I've had sex about a good fifteen times in the year or so since i lost my virginity and it just doesnt f...
A. 20 February 2012: oh, and i forgot to say that if you have ever been sexually traumatised, it may be really hard for you to enjoy sex, and you might need a therapist... (read in full...)
Sex! Why, so far, has it all been so unsatisfying?
Q. hey ive been sexually active for about a year.. ive just been wondering.. I don't know if im sexually frustrated or not but i think i am. I've had sex about a good fifteen times in the year or so since i lost my virginity and it just doesnt f...
A. 20 February 2012: totally normal. it can take a long time and a lot of practice to a) figure out what you like from someone else; b)figure out how to communicate what it is that you need to your partner, c)find a partner that you have good sexual chemistry with, who ... (read in full...)
I want to finish breaking up with him but it is so difficult!
Q. I find my boyfriend quite controlling and am trying to break up with him. Last weekend I went out with a girl friend and he was texting all night saying he missed me and then at 2:30 he phoned me when I was asleep, saying I should be with him and ...
A. 8 January 2012: this sucks. It's really hard because guys are good at pushing your emotional buttons to get what they want. And even if you don't want to be with him, that doesn't mean that you hate his guts enough to want to inflict the pain of a breakup on him.
... (read in full...)
Is this guy's behavior strange?
Q. I hope this is not confusing. David, Diana, Melane, and several other people work together. David attitude towards Diana is very bad after several years of knowing her. Recently, he has been forming friendships with all her close friends, especial...
A. 8 January 2012: confusng. office politics are confusing. Who knows what's going on with this guy? It could be some pecking order thing where he's conciously or subconciously trying to knock her down a couple rungs by taking over her friends. It could be that he ... (read in full...)
Told my married man who was deciding between me and his wife that I wasn't playing second fiddle, not sure I did the right thing!
Q. i have been working with this married man for 4 years everyone at work including him has told me that he really liked me, i asked hes best friend to tell him to leave me alone,as i knew he was married as the years went on we became really good ...
A. 8 January 2012: you did the right thing... (read in full...)
Any suggestions to help find a job, desperation setting in?
Q. Hello everyone, im going to try not to long. I am an event management graduate and I have been unemployed since last year July. I use to live with my boyfriend since I started university but once I finished university I had to move back to my ...
A. 8 January 2012: why not find a crappy job while you look for something in your field? There's no shame in working at McDonalds if you need to temporarily, even though it sucks because you probably thought your burger-slinging days were over... (read in full...)
Why do most girls prefer to let hell freeze before speaking up and telling a guy they like them? Rejection isn't a good enough excuse.
Q. Hello! My name is Scott and I have a question about women. "Why is it that most women would let hell freeze before they tell a guy they like them?" I'm pretty sick and tired of asking girls this and the only thing they can think of is not w...
A. 8 January 2012: Hey Scott-
I'm a pman and I don't know the answer to your question. I can tell you, though, that when I really like a guy, not only can I not tell him that I'm interested in him, but I am so terrified that I almost totally ignore him! I can't lo... (read in full...)
Does my friend have an abusice dad? Would I be abandoning her if I went to take my A levels at a new school or is that the best option?
Q. I love my best friend, she's like my sister when we hang out but her parents are so controlling, I feel like she trapped. when we were little my friend discovered she had cancer, we were only about 5 at the time but i remember it very clearly,...
A. 31 October 2011: that's a really tough situation. at the end of the day, though, you have to do what's right for you- you can't sacrifice your whole future. But you can show your freind taht you care about her and are concerned, and try to help her. You could... (read in full...)
I've met a man I like-now, how do I catch him?! What will attract him to me?
Q. Ok guys. What can I do to help me catch the man of my dreams. I know he likes me. He has told me he likes me. I also know its not going to be easy getting him into a real relationship, beucase he has been hurt in the past. But what im a...
A. 23 September 2011: Who cares what men want? Do what you want. He'll either be into it or not. If you're doing stuff to try and please him, it'll show and he'll realise that you're a fake eventually, so why bother?... (read in full...)
I cheated on him, now he wants me to pay
Q. Hey! So, cheated on my bf and I know it was bad and all. So, please, please, please, no judgment. Trying to win him back. He says he loves me, but his trust is gone. Then he came over to my place tonite and tried real hard to have sex.I refused cos ...
A. 23 September 2011: This guy is a douche bag. He's not interested in getting back together with you, he just wants to get laid. ... (read in full...)
How do I bring up the "are we in a relationship" question?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for nearlly 2 months but it has gotten to the point where i think we are in a relationship however we havent actually defined the realtionship so not quite sure what we are at the moment how do I go about bringing up that ...
A. 23 September 2011: don't be weird and awkward... don't make it a big deal... just ask him "so, what are we" or "how serious is this?", smile, and don't think too much about it or you'll come off all pressured and weird.... (read in full...)
How do I bring up the "are we in a relationship" question?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for nearlly 2 months but it has gotten to the point where i think we are in a relationship however we havent actually defined the realtionship so not quite sure what we are at the moment how do I go about bringing up that ...
A. 23 September 2011: don't be weird and awkward... don't make it a big deal... just ask him "so, what are we" or "how serious is this?", smile, and don't think too much about it or you'll come off all pressured and weird.... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying about ending up alone for the rest of my life??
Q. when i split with my boyfriend 4 months ago i found it so hard, we was only together for a year but i love him so much. when i found out he cheated it broke my heart, i cryed for 2 months and wouldnt go nowere but mop round. i am much better now ...
A. 30 July 2011: I don't have any advice for you because I feel the same way sometimes. Except- the more you focus on things, the more likely they are to take shape in your life. That's why you need to focus on good things that you want and spend no time thinking ... (read in full...)
My ex invited me to an event but I turned him down....should I have gone?
Q. I ran in to my ex boyfriend a couple of days ago. I completely ruined our relationship, and he's a good guy and nice enough to me in spite of the embarassing and stupid things I did when we were dating. I'm still in love with him and I miss him a ...
A. 5 June 2011: to clarify, what i meant is that if he has another partner (who could be male or female, he's bi), then i wouldn't want to watch them canoodling. I don't actually know what his situation is.... (read in full...)
I'm great in bed if I'm not into the girl, but when it comes to a girl I like I'm terrible!
Q. hELLO Everyone.. i have a quite weird problem..its a sex related problem..the thing is when i have sex with a girl that im basically not really attracted to or like a one night stand..my sex performance is just amazing..i last so long and i feel soo...
A. 3 June 2011: it's because you're nervous and want to impress the girl that you like. Guys especially need to be relaxed and confident in order to enjoy/perform well, or even be aroused at all. With the girl that you don't care about, you're not worried about ... (read in full...)
Am I the only straight woman with a High Sex Drive?
Q. Hey. I'm just wondering i'm the only straight woman with a high sex drive. I want to have sex with men and only men. I find most woman who want sex like crazy tend to be bisexual, i'm wondering if i'm a unicorn?...
A. 3 June 2011: you're not alone. I have phases of having a really high sex drive and know lots of other women who do. Actually, I believe that women are more sexual than men generally- just men's sex drive may be more powerful when they have it.
Also though, chec... (read in full...)
Am I the only straight woman with a High Sex Drive?
Q. Hey. I'm just wondering i'm the only straight woman with a high sex drive. I want to have sex with men and only men. I find most woman who want sex like crazy tend to be bisexual, i'm wondering if i'm a unicorn?...
A. 3 June 2011: you're not alone. I have phases of having a really high sex drive and know lots of other women who do. Actually, I believe that women are more sexual than men generally- just men's sex drive may be more powerful when they have it.
Also though, chec... (read in full...)
Confused about our relationship status
Q. I've been seeing this guy for a number of years and he says we're "just seeing each other" and "it means nothing..." When is it going to "mean something" and go further then just "seeing each other"? I dont even know what seeing someone means.... S...
A. 5 February 2011: are you sleping with him? he's using you for sex. stay away. it 's never going to "become official". ... (read in full...)
Not his sunshine anymore and that's killing me
Q. So I've been dating this guy for almost 11 months, our relationship is good or it's not but it's not bad either. He's my best friend, the person I trust the most and the person i love the most also. But lately he's been acting distant, cold an...
A. 5 February 2011: i wish i knew what to tell you. i'm having a similar situation. good luck.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my married lover's relationship with his wife won't end
Q. Help! I met this guy online last summer and fell completely in love with him. The problem is he confessed to me that he was married and his wife was pregnant. To make matters worse he is in the military and recently got transferred to another city ...
A. 5 February 2011: you're better off without him. remember: if he would do it to her with you, he would do it to you with someone else... (read in full...)
I didn't realize my true love until I emotionally abused her away....
Q. I made a many bluders but the biggest blunder of all has costed me my health, sanity and job. I ended up homeless and dependent on vodka to wash away the pain. I've recovered in all with the exception of love. Is there a chance that the swan wh...
A. 2 February 2011: If you really love her, live a better life and leave her alone. The last thing she needs is her ex who treated her badly coming around and complicating her life. Let her heal. ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling very upset by the way my boyfriend is treating me!
Q. My boy friend ignore me from last few day. we have 1.5 years. Now last 7th month he was in kolkata, and i live in siliguri. some time he talk to me like a baby, immature he is i thought. but in night when he talk to me, i am just sex toy for him. i ...
A. 2 February 2011: I don't quite understand. you can't leave without him? why not? becasue you should leave him. ... (read in full...)
He works so much I feel like a single parent
Q. The roads are treacherous and icy today, the kids are home from school. My husband, although having the option (from his boss) to work from home, got up before the crack of dawn and spent over two hours to get to his office in a commute that ...
A. 2 February 2011: I think that you need to ask yourself what is wrong with your relationship that he always wants to avoid being together. ... (read in full...)
Help should I go back to my ex??????
Q. Okay I have a situation in my hand. A couple of months agomy ex of five years ended our relationship of five years. It has been what some say emotionally abusive"him calling me fat,i need to wear makeup, this that" basically to make a long story ...
A. 2 February 2011: You're starting to get over your ex so you're starting to sincerely fantasize about other guys. You feel guilty becasue you loved your ex and because you have probably gotten into the habit of feeling guilty when you don't gove him what he wants. ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from him since!!! Help!
Q. Well I tried to have a good weekend with my boyfriend, and we did yesterday I took him down to philly for the auto show and then took him out for dinner and paid for everything and made a good effort and then last night he decided to open up - and ...
A. 2 February 2011: Forget him and move on. be better and get beter becasue you deserve better. pack up his clothes and if hes not back for them in a month, max. donate them to charity. ... (read in full...)
Should I break things off?
Q. Here is the thing. I met a girl who was interested in me before. She broke up with an a**hole who treats her like ****, but got her pregnant. Everything was great at first; I told her how I felt about her, she said she was in love with me too. I ...
A. 2 February 2011: You sound like a good man. She's probably upset and confused. Give her space. Back out of the relationship. Be her friend- she probalby neds that more than anything. Thank you for reaffirming that there are good men out there. ... (read in full...)
How to tell my boyfriend that I want to keep my baby?
Q. I am not really seeking advice, just wanted to get things off my chest. Any comments however will be taken into consideration and welcomed. I am very much in love with a man, well at this point I am not sure what it is anymore. I wish I could jus...
A. 2 February 2011: Leave him. He's an ass and a waste of your time. You don't need to put up with that garbage. You deserve better. And don't pay attention to all of the lovely things that he "says" when you're about to leave. Some gus know what suckers women are for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hasn't tried to reach me in 2 days! How long should I wait before contacting him?
Q. Hi my bf of 1.5 years is acting out weird lately. Always finding excuses not to call me or hang out with me. He is acting like real jerk, heavely fliting with other girls and stuff. I started to think he lost interest in me, so i stopped cal...
A. 2 February 2011: DO NOT CALL HIM AT ALL. If you do, you'll be tempted to start asking him about what's wrong, about the relationship, does he still love you, etc. The question is: does he still want you. whether he calls you or not, you have your answer. If you ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend was off sequence with her birth control, please help!
Q. My girlfriend takes Otho tri-cyclen lo and this month while taking the pill everyday she notice the week before her period she was a day behind on the order she was taking her pills. For example she was taking Thursday's pill on Friday, how in the ...
A. 26 October 2008: usually it's ok to miss one day if you doub;e up the dose the next day, but you're not meant to tdouble up more often than that. she could be late from stress or from the way the hormones in the pill regulate her cycle. your best bet involves ... (read in full...)
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