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Am I too young to be broody??
Q. Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...
A. 7 April 2007: There's no rush! You have twenty years of childbearing in you AT LEAST! If your mum is affecting your decision now then wait just a bit longer. Eventually you'll get to a stage where you don't care what your mum thinks and then you'll be ready. ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be broody??
Q. Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...
A. 4 March 2007: Don't let your parents get you down petal! They're just pushing the point home and quite likely theyre right in that you don't know quite how much hard work babies are but that's not to say you won't be able to cope. You said it yourself. You have a ... (read in full...)
I'm not feeling any movement in this pregnancy...is this normal?
Q. Hi there i am 18 weeks pregnant, this is my second child but third pregancey. i am not feeling my baby move yet, is this normal? ...
A. 3 March 2007: Well what I would say is you sound worried about not feeling movement. Being worried isn't good for the baby so contact your midwife in between. She won't turn around and be angry. It's her job to look after you and your baby and if you're not happy ... (read in full...)
I need a man desperately!! Help!
Q. Helppppppppppppppppppppppppppp.... im 35 and be 36 this coming december. i have my 2 kids from the past and i taking care of them alone, and i need a boy friend to be my fiancee to be married with and to be my husband not only for the time ...
A. 3 March 2007: Okay. I'm sitting at the other end of the computer screen thousands of miles away and I can smell the desperation. I'm guessing every guy you stand within six feet of is smelling it too. Men don't like desperate women. Tone it down a bit and realise ... (read in full...)
My parents disapprove of my older gf! How can she and I quit seeing each other secretly and tell my folks?
Q. I am a 19 year old guy who's fallen in love with a 30 year old woman who's divorced with a one year old son. My parents have met her once and doesn't agree for me to have a relationship with her. Recently she told me that she loves me back and now ...
A. 3 March 2007: I'm guessing your parents are disapproving because she has a son rather than because they don't like her. They want you to be happy and not feel tied down at 19 looking after a single mother with a kid. I think they're doing the wrong thing for all ... (read in full...)
I'm not feeling any movement in this pregnancy...is this normal?
Q. Hi there i am 18 weeks pregnant, this is my second child but third pregancey. i am not feeling my baby move yet, is this normal? ...
A. 3 March 2007: It very much depends on the individual. Had you felt your other baby move by this stage? Have you been ill/losing weight during the pregnancy? It might be best just to talk it over with your midwife to be sure. It's probably fine. Some ... (read in full...)
Is there any chance that I am pregnant?
Q. My menstrual cycle is irregular however i had sex with my bf 2 months ago. I had my menstrual cycle after intercourse as the sex was fully protected, but after that cycle, I did not have my periods for 2 months. This is disturbing me. Is there any ...
A. 3 March 2007: It doesn't stop, it usually becomes thicker and just different. I've never been pregnant so I'm relying on what my mother said when I asked her.
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I turned him down 2 years ago. Can he still like me in that way as I like him now!
Q. i am thirteen and i realy like this boy in my year he stares and flirts with me a lot and diffrent to other girls two years ago a friend tried to set us up he said yes to me but i tured him down could he still like me in that way can old flames last ...
A. 2 March 2007: Relationships are so transient at your age. In the same way you've now decided you like him after two years he might have decided he doesn't like you. Ask him out. It's the only way to find out.
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I love sex with my boyfriend but when I straddle him my hips hurt. Any advice would be appreciated.
Q. I finally got to a point where I enjoyed sex "on top". But now whenever I straddle my boyfriend, even when it's not for sex, my hips hurt if I stay there too long. Is there a stretch or something I can do to solve this? I'm only 23. I would ...
A. 2 March 2007: I'm guessing you're of quite a narrow build and he's quite wide set? I'm not particularly narrow but I once had this problem with a guy too. Squatting and holding for a count of ten repeatedly helps but you will feel it the day after for the first ... (read in full...)
This boy says he loves me but he's ugly, I would get slagged off my mates if I went out with him, what do I do?
Q. Hiyah well theres this boy and he told my mate that he said he loves me. The only thing iz .. he's ugly and i know that sounds so bad and shallow but i would get sooo slagged for going out with him what do i do?? Please Reply, Babyemm xx...
A. 2 March 2007: How do you fel about him? If your friends weren't an issue would you want to be with him? That's your answer right there.
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Is there any chance that I am pregnant?
Q. My menstrual cycle is irregular however i had sex with my bf 2 months ago. I had my menstrual cycle after intercourse as the sex was fully protected, but after that cycle, I did not have my periods for 2 months. This is disturbing me. Is there any ...
A. 2 March 2007: Discharge tends to change during pregnancy. Because you said your periods are ireegular but didnt say whether it was normal for you to go two months before a period I can't tell whether you're pregnant or not so my advice would be to take a test and ... (read in full...)
Erm... I hoovered up my sister's hamster by mistake!!!! Do I get her another one without saying or do I come clean?
Q. ok now this may sound funny to some people (my friends have found it hilarious!!) but i feel so guilty! My sister turned 11 the other day and for her birthday my parents bought her a little hamster which she called Splodge (dont ask me why). ...
A. 1 March 2007: I reckon you just buy her a new one and don't say anything. Being honest will only help your own conscience and she's 11. I think her innocence has to be your priority. Don't beat yourself up about it though. It was an honest mistake!
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Boyfriend's Erectile Dysfunction
Q. Boyfriend's Erectile Disfunction My bf (37) and I have been dating for 7 months - it is a long distance relationship and we generally see each other for a 3 weeks stretch and then have a few weeks apart. For most of the relationship we have...
A. 1 March 2007: Your boyfriend would be best off seeing the doctor. There can be so many reasons for ED and you haven't said anything specific enough for me to narrow it down so it'd be best for him to have a quick chat with the doctor. I know I'm not a man but I'm ... (read in full...)
How can I last longer than 30 seconds before I orgasm?
Q. is there any way to make you last longer before an orgasm? cause when my guy goes down on me and i last like 30 seconds, its a little embarrassing ya know, any advice would be great!...
A. 1 March 2007: So many girls would be so happy to be in your position. The only thing I can suggest which also works for guys who come prematurely is to focus on something completely unsexy when you feel yourself reaching the plateau like your granny with no ... (read in full...)
How do I lose some weight and get rid of the 'man tits?'
Q. I need to lose some weight around the general body area legs, stomach also want to lose the man tits. I am 5'6 and am 155 lbs I don't have that much fat on me but enough that it is annoying. I do work out but don't seem to be able to loose any ...
A. 1 March 2007: To tone up your chest combine aerobic exercise (about 30 minutes three times a week) with certain stretches. The one I use (as a woman but would probably work for you too) is to stand facing forwards and make a fist, then punch the air in the ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be broody??
Q. Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...
A. 1 March 2007: My first question would be have you spoken to your partner about the way you feel? I don't think you're too young to be broody at all but guys tend to be ready a little later than us ladies. If you both want to have a baby now maybe talk to your ... (read in full...)
She told her husband she had IVF but the kid is mine!!
Q. Last year I was seeing a married woman who I very deeply fell in love with. At the time she was planning to leave her husband and had taken an apartment. We were deeply in love and all was going well and then I got her pregnant. Her husband ...
A. 1 March 2007: It sounds like she so badly wanted the child to be her husband's because she wants to stay with him. It's your right to spend time with your child if you want to, although carefully consider whether you want to see the child or want to rekindle your ... (read in full...)
Can I still love my first love?
Q. I am married to a wonderful man whom I learned to love deeply. I was contacted by my first boyfriend (of 30 years ago)recently and saw him. I still love him. Can that be true?...
A. 1 March 2007: I think we always hold a candle for our first love. After all nobody can make you feel quite that way again however hard they try! However, getting back with them in later life is never the same. He and you have changed so much and in all reality ... (read in full...)
I get a nasty rash everytime I shave my pubic area! Help!
Q. Everytime I shave my pubic area I come out in a rash that looks really horrible. I don't want to wax, I want to shave but is there anything I can do that will stop me coming out in a rash? Such as a cream or a certain razor? Only whenever I go on ...
A. 1 March 2007: Yes I've got two. First try to use a shaving cream rather than soap and try to use one for sensitive skin. Secondly, more importantly, always moisturise the area fully with a dry skin moisturiser like nivea after shaving. It stops the hairs from ... (read in full...)
For 3 years I have lied to him about my age and surname! Should I tell him the truth?
Q. can someone help me? Not only have i lied about my age, i lied about my name.. i'm so ashamed of this... so can someone please help me!? Well i met my boyfriend 3 years ago when i was 17 turning 18, he asked me how old i was and i told him that ...
A. 1 March 2007: The age thing you can perhaps bluff. Don't say anything about it but then next time he gives you something with your age on it/discusses your 21st tell him that you're your real age and that he's got it wrong. You don't need to say you lied. If he ... (read in full...)
I haven't had a period since January 2006 - does this mean I'm pregnant?
Q. I was suppose to get my period during February, but its the end of the month and i still don't have it. I mostly get it every other month. My last menstrual period was last January of 2006. Does this mean i'm pregnant? ...
A. 1 March 2007: Not necessarily. Periods can be late or absent for any reason, such as if you have gained or lost a lot of weight recently or whether you are totally stressed out. I'd say take a test because the earlier you know for sure if you are, the more ... (read in full...)
He's my best friends step brother and I have only met him on my space, what should happen next!?
Q. Well, heres the thing, I like this guy...alot. He's 17, im 14, he plays bass, and guitar, is a vegan, has only ever had long term relationships, and has the most amazing personality. But theres 2 things that go against him, he's my best friends step ...
A. 28 February 2007: First of all you need to think hard about whether you can deal with the age gap. Guys on 17 want very different things from a relationship than a girl of 14 and you need to be self aware enough not to get yourself into a situation where you end up ... (read in full...)
I need to get rid of my double chin. Any tips?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know is their any way to get rid of double chin or to lose that chubness you have on the face. i am not able to take a picture and the last one i took, i asked people and they said i look chubby. plzzz can someone help...
A. 28 February 2007: To lose weight on your stomach you need to combine cardio exercise (at least 30 minutes three times a week) with stretches such as sit ups. As for the double chin there are two exercises I use whenever my chin starts to look a little heavy. In the ... (read in full...)
I bought her some Valentines gifts but things didn't work out between us and now I don't know what to do with all these gifts. Any suggestions?
Q. I bought some gifts for my valentine. on the day we disagreed and I have given up on her love because it looks like she will never express her love to me. the question is what do I do with the presents. I cannot return them as the store wont accept ...
A. 28 February 2007: Depends. I once had a similar(ish) situation in which I bought my grandpa a christmas present and then he died suddenly and I didn't know what to do with the present. I was too sad to give it to someone else so I ended up giving it to charity and it ... (read in full...)
I really like him, trouble is...he has a girlfriend. Do you think he'll leave her for me?
Q. I had a crush on this boy when I was 16 and he was 17. We kissed a few times and then he graduated and moved away. I graduated the next year and moved away to go to college. In college I met a great man and we dated for 3 1/2 years. We moved ...
A. 28 February 2007: First off well done for leaving when he said his girlfriend wasn't the one. That was a blatant manipulation to try and make sure you slept with him. You're very strong for not letting that happen! Second of all you're not a horrible person for ... (read in full...)
Hey everyone! What sort of compliments do women like to get? I need to know so I can charm the ladies in conversation.
Q. hi! i wanted to know what knid of compliments women like and can anyone give me some ideas of stuff to come up with in conversation with this girl i like?...
A. 28 February 2007: The best kind of compliments are the true ones. Girls are insecure beasts! You need to pick up on something that is really obvious because then she will trust you that it's true, just something small like you have such pretty eyes or wow, your ... (read in full...)
Hes seperated from his wife, but often stays at the marital home, am I right to refuse to see him until this is sorted ?
Q. Hello readers, I have fallen in love with a man who is married, but separated from his wife. He lives with a mate who he doesn't really get along with. He and his wife own a lovely city apartment together and as he works different hours to her, he ...
A. 27 February 2007: You're being very sensible about this situation.
Although I think it's unreasonable to expect him to no longer speak to his ex or maintain any kind of relationship with her, staying overnight, whether platonically or sexually is not on if he's ser... (read in full...)
Is my fiancee behaving inappropriately towards these teenage girls ??
Q. I want to know if my fiance is being inappropriate. My fiance is 33 and I am 24, but I never really thought the age difference was a problem. However, he talks to girls on myspace (that are his friend's younger sisters) and they are 15. I think it ...
A. 27 February 2007: You know what? Maybe he is being normal but what do your instincts say? Do they say he is a stable, good guy or do they tell you that possibly some day down the line he might do wrong. I think you have a feeling one way or another and our instincts ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend took his sister's side over mine and it really hurt me.
Q. Hi, I hope someone can help. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and over the time had a few probs with his sister. They are very close. Anyway every time she gets drunk she becomes all needy, turns her back to me, and makes comments that make ...
A. 27 February 2007: First of all try not to make this mistake again. Until you're married your boyfriend's family will always take precedence over you because theyre the stable force in his life who will always be there. If his sister has any flaws it's for him to ... (read in full...)
Because of money problems..I may end up losing my bf! What can I do?
Q. I'm afraid I'll lose my boyfriend forever because of not making enough money. We are actually pretty much on a par in terms of earnings, but he makes a little more, but also has many more expenses. He doesn't want to care for me that way, though he ...
A. 27 February 2007: I'm not 100% sure I understand this problem. Money isn't connected to love so I'm not sure why a lack of money should be affecting you. If you mean with regards to not being able to pay on dates etc there are plenty of ways to date cheaply or on a ... (read in full...)
He says 'he doesn't want to marry' due to being hurt in the past. How do I deal with this?
Q. I'm in a serious relationship with my bf of 1 1/2 yrs. I'm 23 and he is 25. I love him very much and I know he loves me very much too. We are now planning to move-in in the next few months. My bf had a divorce 3 years ago because his wife cheated on ...
A. 27 February 2007: Well you're young and I think it's so sensible that you say you're willing to wait for a few years but you do deserve to know if waiting will be worth it at the end of the day. Society tells us that marriage is the right thing to do but it is ... (read in full...)
I made a big mistake! How do I build the trust with her again?
Q. can someone help me, i really need it... me and my girl (shes not my girlfriend anymore) are in a bit of a pickle right now. i screwed up big time, i accidentally read her myspace messages and saw that she was talking to another guy. it was her ...
A. 27 February 2007: Trust can't be repaired in a day but what is great about your post is that you recognise how wrong what you did was. There are so many people who wouldn't take responsibility for invading someone elses' privacy, saying something drove them to it. ... (read in full...)
What type of special gift can I get my new little sister?
Q. I no this isnt the type of question on here but im stuck. im 22 and want 2 no what i can get my new baby sister as a special present that she can keep 4 the rest of her life? And e help would be great coz i want it 2 b special but not mind-blowingly ...
A. 27 February 2007: Why not get her a little silver locket which you can get quite cheaply at jewellery stores like H Samuel. Obviously it's not something she can use for a few years but to be frank, if you want it to last longer than a few years that's a good thing!
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Who is best for me..the new guy or the old friend (who hurt me) but I feel is my soulmate?
Q. I went to a party in the weekend and discovered that it was the home of a guy I was friends with for 7 years, but who I lost touch with over the last two years. During our friendship I was totally in love with him and he kept dating other women. ...
A. 27 February 2007: The idea of a soulmate is great. It's absolutely amazing to have a dream of finding someone who is so perfect for you that there is nobody better. The problems start emerging when, as you've experienced, the dream doesn't live up to the reality. ... (read in full...)
How can I suggest to my boyfriend he needs to take care of his personal hygiene better?
Q. How can I suggest to my boyfriend he needs to take care of his personal hygiene better? I mean, he showers and brush his hair and stuff. But how can I make him to shower every night and wash his clothes when it gets dirty and brush his teeth twice a ...
A. 27 February 2007: Why not get him more into the showers etc by offering to take one with him? The things you're asking him to do are basic hygiene requirements whether you come from the city of the country or planet Mars. If he doesn't brush his teeth refuse to kiss ... (read in full...)
I'm very self conscious about my body so whenever a guy starts to chat me up I always back away because I'm scared he will be turned off . Any advice?
Q. im stuck in a complete rut and dont know how to get out of it!!!! ok im very self conscious about my body so whenever a guy starts to chat me up (which isnt very often) i always back away cz im scared he will be turned off of me when we get inti...
A. 27 February 2007: Why are you even thinking about getting intimate when you're 12 years old at the oldest? You're far too young to be sexualising yourself in this way and I think the root of it is your low self confidence. You need to get help and you need to get it ... (read in full...)
I left my ex bf for him..now he's too busy for a gf! Should let this go and give up?
Q. i like this guy for 2 years now. we're friends he knows i like him when i had a boyfriend he wasn't too happy about that so i told him i would leave him 4 u any time so i did and he knows....now he tellin me he 2 busy 4 a girl...should i stop tal...
A. 27 February 2007: I don't think he was that keen. It seems he was using the boyfriend thing as an excuse and didn't expect you to ever leave him. However, if you weren't 100% invested in the other relationship you did totally the right thing by ending it. You'll find ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on how to stop my mobile addiction and to help get rid of some of the pressure off him?
Q. My fiance has just started up his new business from scratch, but it's a lot of presure on him, but its cauisng us to argue, he shouts and it scares me hes never ever hurt me. I just wonderd what i could do to help take the presure off a little. I ...
A. 26 February 2007: When someone is stressed the absolute best thing you can do for them are the little things like cooking him a nice meal, running him a relaxing bath or giving him a sexy massage.
As for your phone addiction I'm just like you. When I go abroad I wond... (read in full...)
Shes Fakeing A Period The Day before i met her what does it mean
Q. Shes Fakeing A Period The Day before i met her what does it mean? i'm meeting my new girlfriend tomoz (27th) first time shes staying over shes 16 shes had sex she told. she put of comein over for a whilie and tomoz seems to be day shes willin 2 st...
A. 26 February 2007: I'm with India. Girls can have cycles anything between 20 and 40 days. She's just one of the unlucky ones.
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I'm 13 and really like this boy. Should I make the first move?
Q. please help me i am 13 i realy like this boy in my class my friends say he likes me should i make the first move...
A. 26 February 2007: When you say first move what are you thinking? Don't rush into anything at your age. It's important to take it slow. If you don't want to lay it all on the line ask him if he wants to go to watch a film or come to your place to hang out or ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I feel my friends get just too much for me....
Q. i know this is going to sound like the most selfish problem in the world but its really getting me down. I love all my friends to bits and would do anything for them but im constantly the one they all turn to when they have a problems. I am ...
A. 26 February 2007: I don't think you're selfish, I'm much the same with my friends too. It's strange because you get tremendous power out of being the one they all come to talk to, but at the same time it gets kind of overwhelming.
I really hope this doesn't soun... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't opening up to me, I'm telling HIM everything about me and he keeps quiet about himself. How can I get him to open up more?
Q. My boyfriend of two years is having a hard time opening up to me. I feel like I'm telling him to much about my personal life and he's not telling me much of anything just things that he fells comfortable discussing with me. With that being said ...
A. 26 February 2007: Boys are terrible at opening up. It's nothing personal, it's just the way they are. You get the occasional sensitive type who's willing to tell you everything about his life but it usually too self obsessed to care about yours or you get the guy who ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't lie.... but does he?
Q. i have been goin out with this guy for 5-6 months now and he tells me the truth about everything and doesnt lie to me.BUT DOES HE? thats what i cant get out of my head because ive been hurt before its hard to trust but it just feels like that he ...
A. 26 February 2007: Relax! Probably your boyfriend isn't honest with you all the time but you need to trust him that when it's important that he's honest that he will be. For instance maybe you've been sick through your pregnancy and told him you think you look a mess, ... (read in full...)
Just wondering if anyone have a different definition of "fiance" other than those who got engaged.
Q. This past weekend, I spend my weekend at my boyfriend's. I had dinner with his family (parents, siblings, cousins). My bf's parents start introducing me to others as my bf's fiance. Me and my boyfriend is really close and we are seriously looking ...
A. 26 February 2007: There is no different definition. What it sounds like to me is that perhaps your boyfriend comes from quite a conservative or religious family and his mother introduced you like this to show that it was okay for you to be physically ... (read in full...)
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