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*abyemm
writes:Hiyah well theres this boy and he told my mate that he said he loves me. The only thing iz .. he's ugly and i know that sounds so bad and shallow but i would get sooo slagged for going out with him what do i do??Please Reply,Babyemm xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): Well, physical compatibility has as much to do with internal compatibility. There are most likely other guys out there who fit your ideal of physical yumminess as well as internal refinement. If you don't want to be laughed at and such, and since this is a strong influencial thing for you, then don't go out with him. No one is forcing you to. However, if you are a strong person who goes for the things she desires, despite how others feel, then fantastic, go for the goal.
Everyone here has said pretty much the exact same thing. So what's the problem?
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reader, TakeItOrLeaveIt  +, writes (6 March 2007):
 You havent mentioned how u feel about him. It doesnt matter if he is ugly, if u like him then give him a chance. It wouldnt be right if your fiends end your friendship or judge you because of that. Yes they may say things but if their opinions make you worry so much then you should question your friendships! if you decide to give this poor guy a chance and they say unnecessary things.. i rate you let them kno how you feel!!
good luck!
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gab
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (3 March 2007):
 If you lost your friends over him, I doubt you'd be happy especially since at this age, you tend to change boyfriends pretty often. Besides, if you think he's ugly, what's the problem? Just say you wont date him. And seriously, forget all the advice everyone's giving you about 'follow your heart', teenagers have different rules in dating than adults (anyone who thinks otherwise needs to wake up)
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (2 March 2007):
 Well if you don't like him don't go out with him. Tell him you don't fancy him because...you're not looking for a relationship right now. He'll understand.
If you do like him, and if you like him a lot then stuff what your friends think and do what makes you happy.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (2 March 2007):
 How do you fel about him? If your friends weren't an issue would you want to be with him? That's your answer right there.
CD
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