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Am I too young to be broody??
Q. Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...
A. 7 April 2007: There's no rush! You have twenty years of childbearing in you AT LEAST! If your mum is affecting your decision now then wait just a bit longer. Eventually you'll get to a stage where you don't care what your mum thinks and then you'll be ready. ... (read in full...)
How can I relax more while making love?
Q. Ok so this problem is very embarrasing for me. I was 19 and a virgin, My girlfriend was 17 and wasn't. When we finnally decided to have sex, this may sound daft but I put all my concentration into not cumming straight away because I wanted her to ...
A. 7 March 2007: Learning to let go is such a hard thing to do and the root to stopping is to work out what makes you hold back during sex. Most guys have something they think about during sex to stop them coming, maybe their naked granny or something? I don't know ... (read in full...)
I asked her out, she said no, 2-3 years later I want to be her friend, how do I go about this?
Q. i have been freinds with jess for a long time but i asked her out but got rejected and didnt know how to deal with it so any way i havent seen or talked to her in 2-3 YEARS but i dont want to seem a jerk or like im taking it bad but i want to se...
A. 7 March 2007: I think you're just honest. At first get back in touch with her via email which will give you a chance to explain everything without interruptions and confusion. I would go along the lines of teling her all your news first of all and then saying ... (read in full...)
She's hedging on our relationship and I want to win her back! Any suggestions?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for three and a half years now, and like any couple we have had our ups and downs. It is a long distance relationship, we are both from the same hometown, but go to different universities (4 hours apart). I visit her ...
A. 7 March 2007: You can't win back someone who doesn't want to be won. All you can do is make a heartfelt plea for her to reconsider. Tell her how much you've missed her and want to be with her but if she sticks by her decision try to respect her because if you ... (read in full...)
Been feeling that our relationship is dying, I feel like he is taking me away from friends and family! Any advice?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, for the past two months i have been feeling that the relationship is dying, I feel like he is taking me away from friends and family, and I do not know what to do. To make it worse I have ...
A. 7 March 2007: You're being an absolute star by not giving into your feelings and cheating on your boyfriend. To be honest though, I think if you read your question again it will become apparent what you should do. Quote- i have been feeling that the relationship ... (read in full...)
Afraid that she may cheat! What can I do to cope with my personal fear and get rid of that?
Q. Hey, I have been in a relationship with my angel for 10 Months now, and I love her to death, she is my beautiful angel. Sometime in our early relationship, probably about 3 months in, while I was away to school in Florida (she lives in NJ), she was ...
A. 7 March 2007: I feel that this girl's big mistake was in telling you what happened. Although honesty is the most important thing in a relationship I'm totally aware that sometimes you can get a little carried away, especially if you only see your partner ... (read in full...)
His friends hate me and my friends hate him but ...we love each other! What can we do?
Q. ok.. now i really love my boyfriend. like really really. and i would never consider leaving him.. but his friends hate me and my friends hate him.. if we ever see each other with our friends in public we have to act like we dont know each other.. he ...
A. 7 March 2007: I guess it depends on why your respective friends hate you and him. Normally my advice would be to go with the advice of your friends because theyre outside the situation and can see things in a clearer light. HOWEVER.... sounds to me like there's ... (read in full...)
Do you think that his Mother doesnt approve of me or like me? Any advice?
Q. hi i was recently over at my boyfriends who's 26 house and his mother who had been out that night came home a bit drunk and decided to have a chat with me when my boyfriend left the room... she told me that she didnt think that we were well suited ...
A. 7 March 2007: She was also very drunk when she came out with all this stuff. Sometimes when we're drunk we're the most honest we've ever been. Other times we say seriously stupid things and really regret them the next day. The only thing that's important in this ... (read in full...)
What are the features that girls look for in a boy/man that makes him sexy?
Q. hello agony aunts this question goes to all the girls/women who are agony aunt, men feel free to answer if u wnt what are the features that girls look for in a boy/man that makes him sexy or peng?? i need help as some girls on msn say im g...
A. 7 March 2007: You know what? Every girl is different and looks for different things in a guy. Personally I like tall guys with strong noses and a little bit of stubble but if you asked my roomate she would tell you no stubble, not too tall and no big noses so ... (read in full...)
I am having dreams that something bad is going to happen to my ex bf! Should I call him up?
Q. Me and my ex boyfriend of 10 months left off on bad terms, and now lately I have been having dreams that something bad is going to happen,like he is going to be killed and I just want to call him up and make peace because I would hate for the next ...
A. 7 March 2007: Try and let go of the dreams. They're just your subconscious getting rid of some issues surrounding this guy. Dreams so rarely come true. What it sounds like to me is that you have regrets about how things ended with your boyfriend and that you want ... (read in full...)
He wants to take a job which will mean I'll be on my own for 2 weeks at a time! I didn't get into a relationship with him to be alone!!!!
Q. I need some honest advice about if I am being selfish and unfair to allow my man to accept a job where he will be traveling 8 to 10 at a time? After a almost 30 terrible years of being married, I finally got to courage to leave and find a bette...
A. 6 March 2007: You know what then? Tell him that but maybe not quite in those words.... something along the lines of
"You taking this new job makes me feel uneasy about our relationship. I totally understand your reasons for taking it because it really is a qui... (read in full...)
He wants to take a job which will mean I'll be on my own for 2 weeks at a time! I didn't get into a relationship with him to be alone!!!!
Q. I need some honest advice about if I am being selfish and unfair to allow my man to accept a job where he will be traveling 8 to 10 at a time? After a almost 30 terrible years of being married, I finally got to courage to leave and find a bette...
A. 6 March 2007: You know what then? Tell him that but maybe not quite in those words.... something along the lines of
"You taking this new job makes me feel uneasy about our relationship. I totally understand your reasons for taking it because it really is a qui... (read in full...)
He wants to take a job which will mean I'll be on my own for 2 weeks at a time! I didn't get into a relationship with him to be alone!!!!
Q. I need some honest advice about if I am being selfish and unfair to allow my man to accept a job where he will be traveling 8 to 10 at a time? After a almost 30 terrible years of being married, I finally got to courage to leave and find a bette...
A. 6 March 2007: You know what then? Tell him that but maybe not quite in those words.... something along the lines of
"You taking this new job makes me feel uneasy about our relationship. I totally understand your reasons for taking it because it really is a qui... (read in full...)
Will losing weight cause me to have noticeably excess skin? What do you all think?
Q. I'm 15 and i'm not particularly fat or anything i just have got a little bit tubbier this year like i've got abit of a belly hangin out and chubby thighs at the moment so i've decided to just try and tone up for the summer, nothing drastic i'm just ...
A. 6 March 2007: No you'll be fine. The way excess skin comes about is generally through losing weight without exercising. That's why pregnant women often get loose skin on their tummy because they lose the weight without doing any exercise. Keep up the treadmill ... (read in full...)
He wants to take a job which will mean I'll be on my own for 2 weeks at a time! I didn't get into a relationship with him to be alone!!!!
Q. I need some honest advice about if I am being selfish and unfair to allow my man to accept a job where he will be traveling 8 to 10 at a time? After a almost 30 terrible years of being married, I finally got to courage to leave and find a bette...
A. 6 March 2007: First off I'm a little concerned by your use of allowing him to take the job. Ultimately it will be his decision to make and you can't allow him or tell him to take this job. I would be more inclined to take it from the point of view of telling him ... (read in full...)
I am 14 and never had a boyfriend but my friends have one, please give me advice on what to do?
Q. Hi, im 14 and i've never had a boyfriend. I dont feel as if i'm ready to have one right now as i'm shy, but i feel pressurised to as my two best friends have one. I dont think i will ever get a boyfriend as i am too shy and not really pretty. Please ...
A. 6 March 2007: Never feel pressurised to do something just because your friends are doing it. You're 14, not 40. There's plenty of time to get into the world of boys and everything that involves. You will get a boyfriend but not until you're ready for one. The ... (read in full...)
I met this guy online, he said sex is necessary in a relationship and if we don't have sex first time then he has no choice but to give up! Does he just want me for sex?
Q. I am a 20-yead-old girl in Asia and I met this 25-year-old guy from Europe on the internet in the end of 2005. After some talks on MSN and phone he asked me to be his gf and I agreed. I know it sounds stupid since we haven't met but my feeling is ...
A. 6 March 2007: I get a very bad feeling from reading what he said. You should never feel forced into sex and he is trying to force you. Obviously your relationship has to be different because it's long distance, which means when you meet there is more pressure to ... (read in full...)
The stress is becoming unbearable... what do I do here?
Q. I am in a bit of a mess and could really use some advice here. Basically i live in a house with 2 girls and 2 other guys, one of the girls lets call her N happens to be my ex girlfriend whom i split up with about 3-4 years ago. Regardless of this, ...
A. 6 March 2007: It's none of N's business. You've been broken up for years and years. May I suggest that you and K either move out or, if you're on a contract tell N you will be together and she can like it or lump it. This may sound harsh but why the hell should ... (read in full...)
Can you get an STI if you've never had intercourse?
Q. Very silly question. Can you get a Sexually Transmitted Infection if you havent had sexual intercourse? I have smelly discharge and a few have said i may have a SDI, but all i have even done is been fingered. I have not been muffed and have never ...
A. 6 March 2007: Yes it is possible to get some STIs without having full sex. For example if you received oral or fingering from someone with a cold sore you could catch herpes that way. However, smelly discharge doesn't come along with those viruses. It sounds to ... (read in full...)
Has anyone got tips or exercises for firming up my flabby arms?
Q. Right guys, I am not fat I am a healthy size 12/14 but I hate my arms they just seem so fat at the top. Has anyone got any tips on how to lose weight on top of my arms? xx ...
A. 6 March 2007: Have you tried a punchbag at the gym? I find that keeps my arms fairly well toned and is a lot of fun. In fact you don't even really need the punchbag (although it makes it more enjoyable) Stand sideways with your feet slightly apart and do little ... (read in full...)
What is the best advice I can give to my friend?
Q. hiya my pal has been with her bf for 1 year know and she said she is ready to take the next step but there is only one thing her bf says he is not wearing a condom and she has come to me for help can u help me ...
A. 6 March 2007: Yes. First off (and this is advice for you and your friend) never sleep with a guy who's not willing to wear a condom. Yes some guys don't like them but that's not a good enough reason to put a girl at risk of diseases and pregnancy. She needs to ... (read in full...)
Am I always horny??
Q. ok i got a little bit of a dumb embarassing problem now. Why am i always so horny?? Its terrible! Well i am a 15 year old chick and i always find i'm wet after a day at school. Surely i'm not horny!!! but then why so much discharge? I even wanna we...
A. 6 March 2007: Okay, first the horny issue. The reason you're constantly horny is just because you're 15. We've all been there. The hormones drive us all crazy. You say the discharge smells. Does it smell odd or bad because to all of us our discharge smells odd, ... (read in full...)
He says he's going through a phase just now and wants a break, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3years and have now been living together for 10months as I was always away in university. Recently he told me he thinks he wants a break.. but he was quite honest in telling me that he kinda just wants to ...
A. 6 March 2007: For what it's worth it sounds like he just wants to get out there and have a final fling before committing to you for good. The real question is if you're willing to let him go if it means he'll come back to you or whether you take the riskier ... (read in full...)
What is the best way to win your lover back?
Q. The other day i cheated on my boyfriend who i love so much! Hes given me another chance to make things straight but ive got a lot to make up for. what is the best way to win your lover back?...
A. 5 March 2007: Trust is such a fragile thing. Sometimes when it breaks it's broken forever. His trust for you is broken right now. You can try your hardest to build this up again but there are never any guarantees. My advice is to apologise and make him aware that ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my relatives I'm gay???
Q. Im 17 years old and up until now i have never really dated a girl. Since i was about 11 or 12 i had tryed things with girls but never thought i could do it myself. My bestfriend now moved to my school and he was gay... i talked to him about my...
A. 5 March 2007: What do your parents think? I don't think there's necessarily any merit in rocking the boat with your relatives. After all you'll still be gay whether you tell them or not and if it will really upset them that much then maybe it's best to keep it to ... (read in full...)
What do I do if he says I am a rubbish kisser?
Q. I'm having a bit of trouble! I have not had a boyfriend since primary and I'm now in Year 3! I have never kissed and when me and my friends are having a gossip they ask me how many boys I've kissed so I lie and say i have kissed. I am afraid that if ...
A. 5 March 2007: Okay first of all the secret to any good kiss is feeling relaxed so deep breath! No guy will be able to tell whether you have kissed before. Just take it easy and remember the guy is just as nervous as you. The best kissing tips I can give you are ... (read in full...)
Could a couple of 'slips' make my gf pregnant??
Q. okay, I've been freaking out for the past 2 days now. Me and my girlfriend spent the weekend togather on holiday and we were fooling around when we went to bed and then she went on top of me and and we started to have sex but it was literall...
A. 5 March 2007: There is a chance the girl is pregnant from this encounter. What were you thinking? If you're going to be putting yourself in these situations you both need to sit down and have a serious chat about contraception. I recommend using condoms and the ... (read in full...)
He lied about his age...now I am pregnant but still am having problems trusting him!!
Q. I'm 17 and my boyfriend is 34. When I met him he told me he was 26. 7 months in to our relationship I found out the truth, we stayed together and now have been together for 15 months. I'm 23 weeks pregnant, we plan on getting married. But I d...
A. 5 March 2007: I would ask him what his reasons for lying to you were. I'd put money on the fact that he thought you'd reject him if he revealed his true age. Perhaps if he tells you his reason you won't feel so cheated by his lies because it'll help you ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for Urine to pass at the point of ejaculation ??
Q. IS it normal if urine follows the semen after ejaculation? Not just a small proportion, but something equal to when we go to piss? ...
A. 5 March 2007: It's very unlikely that this would happen because once you're sexually aroused the urine pipe closes off but after you come if you're no longer hard then this could happen. Check with your GP to be sure... (read in full...)
I'm going on holiday next week and will have my period! How can I still go swimming while on my period?
Q. heya well im 13 and im going on holiday next week but ive realised that i will be on my period that week and im worried that its going to ruin the holiday!! As i love going swimming in the pools and on the beaches but does anyone no how i can stil...
A. 5 March 2007: One word- tampons!... (read in full...)
I think I might be gay! How can you tell if you're gay? Realm????
Q. ok.I'm confussed. I might be gay, but I'm not sure. I like always hug boys.......like all the time.....and i had feelings for one once. any ideas?...
A. 5 March 2007: I just asked my best friend and he said he always knew and that it sounds like perhaps because of your age, you're confused. That's certainly true of my own experience growing up when I thought I might be a lesbian. Don't try and pigeonhole yourself ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know of any safe but effective slimmming pills?
Q. does anyone know of any safe but effective slimmming pills? I exercise and am on a diet but nothings really happening and ive seen television adverts but im not to sure which ones to trust. thanks!!...
A. 4 March 2007: All slimming pills are effective if theyre authentic. However the majority are bought via the internet or tv shopping and could be anything. Plus theyre unsafe for people who take certain medications or have medical conditions so the best person to ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be broody??
Q. Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...
A. 4 March 2007: Don't let your parents get you down petal! They're just pushing the point home and quite likely theyre right in that you don't know quite how much hard work babies are but that's not to say you won't be able to cope. You said it yourself. You have a ... (read in full...)
How can I make it clearer to him that I want him to kiss me!?
Q. hey! me and my bf are both 16 and have been togther for 2 months yesterday :) all we have done so far is hug ALL THE TIME! and about a month ago we kissed but we havent kissed since :( but i really want to! he is too tall for me to reach up and ...
A. 4 March 2007: Maybe or maybe he's just a silly boy! There are ways round this. I'm 5" and at your age was dating a 6"5 guy. What happens when you're sitting down? Another way of making it obvious you want to kiss him is by touching his lips or by just saying... I ... (read in full...)
Could there really something going on with her and the ex ? afterall I am the one supporting her financially!
Q. I have been seeing this girl since July last year and i really think the world of her, when i met her she was pregnant with her EX's child who she had split from. in January this year she lost the baby and since then the EX has been back on the ...
A. 4 March 2007: I think it would make sense that she finds it easier to talk to her ex than you because he lost a baby too so they're going through it together. Plus if your relationship is relatively new she probably just feels more comfortable being vulnerable ... (read in full...)
Im 40 he is 21, is it selfish of me to stay with him ?
Q. I am a fourty year old lady dating a twenty two year old guy we have been together for thirteen months we live together and have done since day one almost. Do you think its selfish or not of me staying with him? There are so many reasons for staying ...
A. 4 March 2007: I think he's being honest. Do you remember when you were in your 20s how guys were then? When guys get freaked out that things are going too fast then they run. If he's sticking around he's showing that he's mature and that he loves you. As long as ... (read in full...)
My boobs feel heavy and hurt, im two weeks past due and havent had sex, but did in Nov, had 2 periods since, what do you think ?
Q. i know many people may ask this question but my boobs feel realy heavy and they hurt my period was due a few weeks ago i have not had sex although i was forced to in november and that is being delt with. i have had two periods since then and i was ...
A. 4 March 2007: Well you're 13-15 which means they're still growing and that can hurt quite a bit. Also it's really normal for your boobs to feel heavy and hurt a lot just before and during your period because of hormonal changes. It's probably nothing but if ... (read in full...)
He has totally gone off sex! I've tried lingerie and everything but no results! What should I do now?!
Q. hello. i have been with my partner for 7 months. i have two boys from previous relationship. we have been living together for 4 months. after the first month he totally went off sex. we do it about once a month and its over in seconds. he is not ...
A. 4 March 2007: Weed and alcohol are known depressants which can affect your sex drive but it does usually return to normal within time unless you're talking extremely heavy usage! I think he's told you it's stress and that's probably true when you think about the ... (read in full...)
Am I obsessive??
Q. My friends think I have a mild form of Obsessive Compulisive Disorder (OCD) but i dont think i do so i thought i would see what you guys think. when i leave my house, i will constantly check that i have got everything i need (phone, keys, makeup e...
A. 4 March 2007: No, I think this sounds normal. However I once read we all have an element of OCD in us! I think you only need to worry when something is so overpowering that it's taking over your life and you can't do anything else because you become so obsessed ... (read in full...)
How can I show my friend I havent changed??
Q. My male friend, who hates change, doesn't like my boyfriend. He has been always like this not liking if someone walks with my friend, him and I. It was always the three of us for about a year and then suddenly my boyfriend came and he hates it. ca...
A. 4 March 2007: The fact is that if you have a boyfriend you have changed, be it willingly or not. You're considering your boyfriend above what your slightly obsessive sounding friend wants and that shows a marked change in how you were before. I
'm slightly worr... (read in full...)
I'm not feeling any movement in this pregnancy...is this normal?
Q. Hi there i am 18 weeks pregnant, this is my second child but third pregancey. i am not feeling my baby move yet, is this normal? ...
A. 3 March 2007: Well what I would say is you sound worried about not feeling movement. Being worried isn't good for the baby so contact your midwife in between. She won't turn around and be angry. It's her job to look after you and your baby and if you're not happy ... (read in full...)
I need a man desperately!! Help!
Q. Helppppppppppppppppppppppppppp.... im 35 and be 36 this coming december. i have my 2 kids from the past and i taking care of them alone, and i need a boy friend to be my fiancee to be married with and to be my husband not only for the time ...
A. 3 March 2007: Okay. I'm sitting at the other end of the computer screen thousands of miles away and I can smell the desperation. I'm guessing every guy you stand within six feet of is smelling it too. Men don't like desperate women. Tone it down a bit and realise ... (read in full...)
I'm not feeling any movement in this pregnancy...is this normal?
Q. Hi there i am 18 weeks pregnant, this is my second child but third pregancey. i am not feeling my baby move yet, is this normal? ...
A. 3 March 2007: It very much depends on the individual. Had you felt your other baby move by this stage? Have you been ill/losing weight during the pregnancy? It might be best just to talk it over with your midwife to be sure. It's probably fine. Some ... (read in full...)
Am I too young to be broody??
Q. Hi, im almost 21 and i have been with my fiance who is 22 for nearly six years now. We are both very happy, and have just got a mortgage together, but their is one problem........IM BROODY!!! We both work and i have a really good job, but their are ...
A. 1 March 2007: My first question would be have you spoken to your partner about the way you feel? I don't think you're too young to be broody at all but guys tend to be ready a little later than us ladies. If you both want to have a baby now maybe talk to your ... (read in full...)
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