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writes: hello agony auntsthis question goes to all the girls/women who are agony aunt, men feel free to answer if u wntwhat are the features that girls look for in a boy/man that makes him sexy or peng??i need help as some girls on msn say im good looking while other in school say im not.major help needed
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (7 March 2007):
I find that sense of humour, respect, sensitity and intelligence is very atractive in a man.
Physically, I like the eyes more than anything. Hands next but we are all different.
You cannot appeal to everyone, just be happy for what you have already.
Angel of Love
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (7 March 2007):
What an exellent question,
Your on the right track, wanting to know in the first place.
Personally, I look for someone who can hold a conversation and be good company, without it being awkward. Someone that can make me laugh, when i feel low is really good. Its nice if a guy dosnt boast about his past,no matter what the topic is, that would just bore me. He needs to have his own interest's and hobbies, but also be willing to try some of mine, as i would his. Looks arn't really important, but i dont like bad habits or manners. Someone who can tell the truth, no matter what is really good. I am not keen on facial hair but it's not a big deal, unless its growing out of his nose or ears.
Basically he has to be my best friend, but with a willy.
Oh! and he needs to wear nice shoes.
Not much to ask for is it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): hi babes. a girl wants a man/boy who she can trust more than anything and is with her because he wants to have a relationship with her not just sex. she needs to feel loved and wanted. i have found a great guy that is all of that and we have been together for 2 years now. i love him to bits. good luck babes xx
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reader, Kody +, writes (7 March 2007):
To you
I am a guy I know a little about what a girl wants
Some want a nice polite and funny somelike differnt It depends on the girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): nice shoes, nice pants, nice hair, and a great personality to along with it. respect a woman and her feelings and her beliefs, and be some what charming. and confidence works wonders over cockiness
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reader, AskEve +, writes (7 March 2007):
Looks are only superficial and as the other aunts said different girls have different qualities/looks that they go for. Common sense and a bit of cerebral always goes down a treat with me. Now if you REALLY want to appeal to a woman then go further than just the looks...
You need a lot of charm and charisma and you always put your date first. Pull out her chair for her, buy her drinks, take her to dinner, pay for everything of course, buy her a single red rose, send her flowers and small gifts. Ask her about herself and be a good listener. Always be one step ahead and surprise her when she least expects it.
Look after yourself physically, wear the best clothes you can afford, be well groomed in every respect and of course wear an alluring aftershave. Women like nothing better than to see a man who looks good and smells sexy.
And that's it basically! Always be punctual and always see her home and ALWAYS be a gentleman! If you follow these basic steps then you can't go wrong. ;o)
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (7 March 2007):
You know what? Every girl is different and looks for different things in a guy. Personally I like tall guys with strong noses and a little bit of stubble but if you asked my roomate she would tell you no stubble, not too tall and no big noses so that just shows that everyone, even best friends have very individual tastes when it comes to boys. The general rule of thumb is that if a guy takes a genuine interest and has a nice personality that he will go far!
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2007): Everyone has perferences, likes of what is sexy to them. For example, a lot of girls like the "back side" of a man, their personalities, etc.
All I can say is be yourself. If they don't like, someone else does.
Keep your head up high.
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (7 March 2007):
Peng? Never heard that one before lol. Well all women/girls are different so I can only say what I look for. And also if one girl says you look good another girl might disagree but thats with everything really. No one ever agrees with everything that other people think. Everyone has their own opinion.
Anyway, I like facial hair. A bit of stuble is good for me. Not a full on beard though. Not particularly tall as long as he's taller than me, Long hair, short hair I don't mind as long as it suits you. Good dress sense. Jeans and a T-shirt is fine (just no hoodies and tracksuits lol). Body: big, kind of muscular (I don't mind a bit of fat, I know I'm weird lol)I shouldn't be able to feel rib bones lets just say. lol That's personally what I look for (appearance wise)and I know a lot of females will disagree with me and have their own preferences.
But if a guy has a great personality and confidence it will enhance his looks and he'll appear to be more attractive and desireable. So if you've got a great personality you're half way there.
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