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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: i have been freinds with jess for a long time but i asked her out but got rejected and didnt know how to deal with it so any way i havent seen or talked to her in 2-3 YEARS but i dont want to seem a jerk or like im taking it bad but i want to see her as a freind again how do i apoligise how do i do this?? help me PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEclaude Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, cd206 +, writes (7 March 2007):
I think you're just honest. At first get back in touch with her via email which will give you a chance to explain everything without interruptions and confusion. I would go along the lines of teling her all your news first of all and then saying something at the end about how much you regret cutting yourself out of her life but at the time it was the only thing you could do to stop hurting but tha now you're over your feelings you'd be grateful if she'd give you another chance to be her friend.
However be very very careful that you don't still want to be with her because in that case you're just setting yourself up for lots more hurt.
CD
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