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writes:Me and my ex boyfriend of 10 months left off on bad terms, and now lately I have been having dreams that something bad is going to happen,like he is going to be killed and I just want to call him up and make peace because I would hate for the next time I see him. it be his funeral or mines...thing about it though I don't want to call him though because my pride is gettin in the way, plus I feel like he could pick up the phone just as easy as I can so If I called he would have the upper hand on me.. I don't know what to do ...I still love him also, I can't even date other guys because of my feelings for him, I know me and him can't be together, but I miss him.
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reader, d-gurl704 +, writes (20 March 2007):
d-gurl704 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanx 2 your reply's...I didn't actually call my ex...I called his best friend and drilled him with a few questions to see how my ex was doing...and then just the other day my ex called me and gave me his new cell number. so again thanx for your answers it helped alot.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (7 March 2007):
 Try and let go of the dreams. They're just your subconscious getting rid of some issues surrounding this guy. Dreams so rarely come true. What it sounds like to me is that you have regrets about how things ended with your boyfriend and that you want to talk to him but know you can't and that's why it's manifesting in your dreams as a reason you can't talk to him, because one of you is dead.
Pride can be a dangerous thing. It's great to have principles and if he hurt you then maybe you're right not to get in touch with him but it's so bad for you to hang onto hate for anyone whoever they are. Do you want to make peace with him? Yes he could pick up the phone and call you but if you make the first move you're showing that you're the bigger person. And calling him up isn't saying you want to get back with him, more likely it will just give you closure to work out where you go from here. Your feelings will pass in time. Just trust in yourself and all will be okay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2007): You are going to have to put your pride on the side. If you feel you should call your ex, go for it. Tell him about your dreams/nightmares.
If you love him, tell him.
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