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writes:hey! me and my bf are both 16 and have been togther for 2 months yesterday :)all we have done so far is hug ALL THE TIME! and about a month ago we kissed but we havent kissed since :( but i really want to! he is too tall for me to reach up and kiss him tho so i cant make the first move.and i really really want him to make the first move cos its just more romantic like tht lol!when we hug i look up at him and just look into his eyes and he just smiles. i even try and reach up and put my face near his and just look into his eyes and he still doesnt get the hint!am i making it clear tht i want to kiss him? Reply to this Question
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reader, AngelofLove +, writes (4 March 2007):
 Ask him to sit down, then kiss him.
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (4 March 2007):
 Sorry I didn't finish my answer before it clicked as complete! I think that if one you doesn't make a move soon than your relationship will burn out through simple frustartion.
So what have you got to loose!?
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (4 March 2007):
I think that you should just make the move... I know you want the romance of him sweeping you away... but I think he is too nervous for that... maybe he is thinking exactly the same thing but feels pressured to get it all right.... Maybe he is scared of other stepping the line by making a move on you.. Guys are under constant pressure to treat girls right and not make them do anything they don't want to.
Either way one of you needs to open up this boundarie and make kissing the next step in this relationship. I think that person should be you seeing as he may scared to over step the mark. Do it when you guys are sitting down... In the cinema or watching a film or something... Just cuddle up to him and raise your head to his and give him a kiss.
It will make you nervous but a good nervous..... and once that line has been crossed then he will start going to kiss you as well.. I think he is scared and needs soem encouragement... I
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reader, cd206 +, writes (4 March 2007):
 Maybe or maybe he's just a silly boy! There are ways round this. I'm 5" and at your age was dating a 6"5 guy. What happens when you're sitting down? Another way of making it obvious you want to kiss him is by touching his lips or by just saying... I want to kiss you so badly right now.
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reader, endlesssong  +, writes (4 March 2007):
 Just go for it and be the one to kiss him. I can understand where you want him to kiss you, but he want the same thing and is afraid. That and sometimes a guy likes it when a girl takes charge :3 (I was the one to make the first move on my boyfriend and kissed him first, even though its usually out of character for me to do such a thing and he loved it)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007): u said hes taller? when u hug, u could put ur hand on the back of his neck/bottom of his head and gently pull his head down so u can reach to kiss him (thats what i do with my boyfriend!!). Maybe after u do this, he will start to make the first move as he maybe scared or worried ur not ready.good luck hun and have fun!!xxx
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reader, geqo  +, writes (4 March 2007):
 Maybe you should look for (other) signs that maybe he isn't ready to be kissing yet. It's possible that he doesn't really want to start with that yet. Or maybe he thinks that you are being pressured to kiss. If this isn't the case however, there are other things you could try. Try to be as flirtatious as you can be, giving strong hints to what you want to do. Looking him in the eyes could mean a lot of different things to him! If he sits down, walk up to him and kiss him yourself. Or take out a romantic movie and watch it together. Sooner or later he will get the message, and the harder you try, the sooner it will be!
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reader, baby blue fairy +, writes (4 March 2007):
wel why dnt you just tell him how ya feel he might feel the same way you neva no unless ya try gud luck soz tiz is short n sweet
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