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reader, Mimi1990 +, writes (12 July 2008):
 If you have already had sex and liked it , then have sex but make sure you use contriception , and give him a limit of how much he can have a day/week/month . If you havnt had sex and dont want to yet and your boyfriend doesnt no that then just tell him you want to wait , and make it really special when you do have sex !!
If there is anything else let me know
Mimi
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (22 April 2008):
 To previasc, for you information I lost my virginity at 18, and having sex at this young lady's age is far too young in my book. She is not emotionally mature enough to handle a sexual relationship, neither is she physically mature enough. So please do reseach on underage sex and you might learn something.
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reader, previasc96  +, writes (22 April 2008):
half the people in here will probably tell you you're too young, but the reality is when they were your age they were humping too! If you don't want to have sex, tell him no. IF he cannot except that, then dump him! There is nothing wrong with you wanting to save yourself, if he doesn't agree, i am sure there are plenty other girls your age who are putting out.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (21 April 2008):
One- You are underage and he is breaking the law if he does have sex with you.
Two- Do not get pressured into having sex, if that is all he is interested in.
Three- Having sex at such an early age can lead to cervical cancer later on in life, as you are still at a pubescant stage.
Four- If you do eventually have sex please make him wear a condom, so that he does not pass any STD or make you pregnant. Take care Hun and remember its your body so do not let any guy take advantage. Dusky xxx.
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reader, love-him +, writes (18 April 2008):
 HEY!!
You need to tell him you dont want to.. if anything, make an excuse up, say you are too tired.. Dont let him pressure you into anything!!
GOOD LUCK!! Feel free to mail me about anything x x x
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (18 April 2008):
 just tell him no and you need to respect my decision if he doesn't obviously the relationship is just lust
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Not being able to say "no" to sex is the surest possible sign that you're not ready for it yet.
If you think you "have to do it" because he's older and he's used to getting it from other girls . . . well, that is exactly why dating much older or more experienced guys usually isn't a good idea at your age.
The problem is not YOU in this situation. The problem is him pushing for sex. Having sex at your age is not a good idea. And no matter what other people are saying right now or how many of them are already doing it, the truth is that most girls who have sex so young eventually end up wishing they had waited longer looking back on it.
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reader, tick-tick-boom +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Okay, tell your boyfriend you are not comfortable with him pressurising you to have sex. You need to be very assertive when you say this because it's likley he will just ignore you.
Good Luck! X
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reader, Gothic Wolf +, writes (17 April 2008):
 well if you don't want to have sex all the time just talk to him....if he really loves you he will understand....and he would want you to be happy...
I hope my advice helps alittle bit
and good luck XXxxXX
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Depends if you want sex all the time aswell. If not tell him you dont and i doesnt mean you dont likes him as much just you would perfer to cool a bit with all the sex. It sounds to me like he has a very high sex drive, just talk to him.
Good luck.
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reader, MissKin +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Okay, there's not really enough information here. Have you had sex before? Or is he trying to have sex for the first time and being persistent?
Obviously this is a problem for you - so tell him. Just be outright with him and tell him you don't want sex, or aren't ready for it, or want less of it - whichever the case may be. Make sure you tell him. it can't go on with you being unhappy and with him being persistently wanting sex. Just tell him and if he won't stop, then he's obviously only interested in sex and you should tell him u think so. see where things go from there.
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