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writes:I like this girl, she first showed an interest in me and now that I'm trying to spend time with her it feels like she's avoiding me. Did I do something wrong or is she playing a game with me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): She could be playing a game or just not sure she wants to take things any further. You could try, gently, talking to her about it. Don't get too heavy though, or she could run a mile.
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reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Either shes playing hard to get or shes sending you mixed signals and her feelings are not clear.
Talk to her if you can ask her why shes being like this and if she feels the same or she isnt interested.
Good luck.
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reader, ajob +, writes (18 April 2008):
the girl might be unsure about how she feels so it would be best for u to tell her how u feel and invite her to tell u how she feels then there are no mixed signals. maybe she does like you but not quite sure how to show. there could be many reasons dont assume she doesnt like u it is not always the case/ talk to her and se how it goes.
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reader, muffy +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Well love,just tell her what you think.She could be playing hard to get.If she wasn't interested in you in the first place,then move on to a different girl.Hope everything works out well.
love always,
Muffy
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (18 April 2008):
 let her be if she wants you she will come back females love the chase but when u don't go running after them they will wonder then they will call if she doesn't call back whatever. But dont' sit around waiting for her call that makes you seem needy upon her and if you put your need on her calling it is very unattractive and she will just not bother with you show her you are the man and it doesn't bother you let it be talk to other girls and hang out with your boys dont' just sit there and dread for her phone call been there done that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Well, I seem to be having a similar problem myself. It could be that she wasn't that interested in you to be begin with. Or maybe she's the kind of girl that just wants a guy to like her and when he finally does, she moves on. If that is the case, then you don't want to be with her anyway. She could also be trying to play hard to get or something like that. Maybe you should just express to her how you feel and see what she says. That's one of the best ways to solve the problem. Hope that helps and good luck!
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