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writes:Well there is this girl that I've had a crush on since about 7th grade... and I'm now a Senior in high school. The reason I haven't made any advances with her is because I never really came out and became more outgoing until about a year ago, along with me hardly ever seeing her. Now I've been seeing her a lot more recently like after the tutorial period at school, during it, and just random times. I'm not sure if she stills remember me at all, but I think I've noticed her looking over at me a few times. Not sure if she is interested in me or what... And I really don't know how to approach her and what small talk I can make without being creepy or something. Any advice at all, even just a tiny thing, would be awesome.
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (18 April 2008):
 taht is nice go and approach her be charming but honest look at her eyes when you talk to her and just say Hi what's your day like be honest dont' try to hit on her and dont' think about hooking up with her females sense when a guy is genuine so be honest and she will come around but remember you cannot make a girl feelings change towards you she has to have feelings for you you can't do anything to change her mind about you so let it be but don't center your vision upon her look around there's others too you might not notice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Awww! first off I think that is so cute!!! :D
She probably remembers you if not make her remember you .
Please whatever you do DO NOT USE CORNY PICK UP LINES!!! she will laugh at you . Not with you ok . lol now that , thats outta the way lets get down to business.
1st: where somthing nice . I don't mean a suit and a tie but ya know what I mean! Take a shower . clean yourself ff and look fresh. Also another hint SMELL GOOD! thats always hott! Make the scent noticable but not overpowering.
2nd: ask her if she remembers you . go up to her and say "Hey do ya remember me?" if no then tell her that you remember her and you are sorry you lost touch with her.If she does tell her things like well you've gotten prettier every year! or if your a bit shy then I suggest you maybe recall some things that happened in the past that you both were there for or have talked a little about before. Like say stuff like " Do you remember a couple years ago when......happened???" stuff like that ... if you can rember that far back ....lol Or talk about something thats happening in school right now ... or ANYTHING !!!
3rd: ask her out on a date maybe ....if things go well with the conversation goes well
Ask her if shes seen a certain movie that you want to go to and if not ask her if she'd like to go with you to see it
and this is just some general advice. If she doesn't like you then you don't need her. There's always more fish in the sea. I do hope that everything works out for you and this girl :)
GOOD LUCK
I hope this has helped you in some way !!!
Feel free to message me anytime
I wish you the very best !
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reader, geebaybeh +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Well if you have any close friend that happens to be close with her try talking to them to introduce you as friends that is. and you can always just say hi here and there it may be hard but if you really think of her that way then you gotta make the first move.
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