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writes: Hey guys, this is kind of personal but i need to know some opinions as i have got loads of different accounts about this of the internet.Ok so monday night i had intercourse for the first time and i bled quite a bit and just finished today.i no longer feel sore either. I am planning on having intercourse again at the weekend, will i be healed enough down there to allow this?I am sorry if this is graphic but i would like your advice. Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for all your help, im sorry madflash this wasn't intended to be a bragging question, i wanted to make sure there isn't a reason i should hold back. Thank you for you kind words confusedinkent they are much appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Just take it easy and make sure your partner is being careful.
but dont worry, im sure you would have been healed enough to have sex the next day if you wanted to.
Its just a shock to see blood when you have sex for the first time. Your gonna be fine just take your time and make sure you are well lubricated before allowing your partner to enter you.
your gonna be fine hun, its completely normal.
Have fun and good luck!
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reader, madflash  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 It's made for that, and plenty of women all the way back to the stone age have had a lot more sex after their first experience in a lot less time than what you're planning. (You think cavemen were conscientious?) Plus, with modern medicine there's an ointment for everything if it were to get worse, which I doubt.
So if that's what you want then go for it. You'll be fine.
And this seems like a silly question, so stop bragging on the internet about all the sex you're finally having.
Have fun but be safe...
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reader, binhquangdao +, writes (18 April 2008):
 yes it show be better dont' worry about it but be safe k
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Every young woman is different and the hymen that is typically breached during first intercourse may take just a few days, up to more than two weeks to completely heal. As "birdynumnums" mentioned, it is usually a fairly small membrane, but it depends on so many things that nobody can possibly estimate your healing time online. It is definitely better to allow the healing because, like any small wound, additional irritation naturally aggravates the process, like picking or scratching any kind of skin sore. Otherwise, it simply continues to spot or bleed each time for awhile.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 It's a relatively small membrane that breaks, so I would think that you should be out of any discomfort by then, however, I wouldn't rule out a bit more spotting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): The first time everyone bleeds and thats normal.However if it was several days you may want to see a doctor but if it stoped your probly fine. I hope you are informed on std's now that your sexually active you should know and take a trip to the Gyno or clinic if you can.I also hope that this guy your sleeping with loves you and you love him and that you don't regret sleeping with him later. I regreted my first time it should be speacial.Don't be someones booty call make sure they respect you. You also have to think about the possibility of pregnancy.Would this guy stick around and help with a baby if you got pregnant? You and him should sit down and talk about this. Be safe whatever you do and good luck.
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