Married at 22, been trying to fall pregnant for 8 years now, please advise
Q. i need advise urgently.i got married when i was 22 ive been trying to fall pregnant for 8 years!is it possible that i may not have kids i am cying day and night i dont know what to do pls help me...
A. 4 March 2011: Hello - go to a doctor to have fertility tests to determine the cause. Both you and your partner - it may not be you.... (read in full...)
Do I assume that he is cheating on me or what?
Q. I am so insecure when it comes to my boyfriend. I want to trust him, but I have been hurt in my past. Anyway, I figured out his password to his cell phone, and I check it often. Once I heard a girl leave her name and told him to call her back. I ...
A. 4 March 2011: Without trust your relationship is doomed. Follow your gut feeling - I dont think any man is worth this type of anxiety - let him go - move forward - there is always another bus. ... (read in full...)
I am torn between my bf and my parents!
Q. Hi.i have recently told my parents my 4 year relationship with my boyfriend and asked for their permission to marry. i am really attached to my family and him also. At no point of time in my life have they made some mistake in my upbringing. They ...
A. 3 March 2011: Choose your family.... (read in full...)
Are we in an emotional relationship or a physical relationship? I am confused. And she is upset with me.
Q. Let me give you a little background. I started dating this girl around 3 months back and I'm of Indian ethnicity and she is also of Indian ethnicity. We both hold some traditional views about sex before marriage -- that it shouldn't be done before ...
A. 3 March 2011: People have sex everyday to satisfy urges whether it be of physical attraction - or an expression of love. People have sexual intimacy because it is an expression of love...both of you are right in what your saying. Ultimately it comes down to... (read in full...)
I'm not interested in relationships. What affect will that have on me in future?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm 15 years old, I haven't had a boyfriend, I've been asked a couple of times but I'm not interested. Every boy I know behaves in unacceptable ways. They're cocky, or not sensitive, too sarcastic. Don't get me wrong, I can tak...
A. 19 February 2011: Stick to you principles. Dont allow peer pressure to rope you into doing something your not ready nor want to do. I admire you for staying true to yourself. What's the hurry anyway? Try not to worry so much about what others think, it's what you ... (read in full...)
I told him I'm pregnant today. He became abusive and aggressive with me. Where do I go from here?
Q. hi everyone, im 22 and this guy is 20. i need some good advice here. today i found out that i'm pregnant this is my first time being pregnant and the guy im pregnant for he's a player. its been nearly 3half weeks i havent heard from him. he's been...
A. 19 February 2011: It's appears he only wanted the pleasure of your company, not the responibility of a relationship let alone a child. Do you want this child? Think carefully about your future being a single mother. I would suggest you urgently see your doctor/c... (read in full...)
No intimacy in marriage for nearly 5 months!
Q. My DH and I have now been married for 6 1/2 yrs but together for 9. For the past 4 1/2 months there has been zero intimacy and I'm going crazy. He won't talk to me about it. He just keeps saying that he misses me in that way and loves me so ...
A. 16 February 2011: Go with your gut feeling - dont waste time holding on to maybes - what ifs - It really is time to hit this on the head and sort it out. Its not fair on you. ... (read in full...)
After all the ups and downs and all that we've invested in the relationship, he wants to call it quits...
Q. Let me just start by saying this is going to be very complicated but I would really appreciate responses. I was with my boyfriend for almost 7yrs. We have a daughter n I am currently pregnant. Recently he told me he doesn't want to be with me anymo...
A. 14 February 2011: I feel for you both - but I think your relationship has run its course. It appears you both have tried so hard to make things work - but without success. In my experience when that feeling of being in love has gone its almost impossible for it to ... (read in full...)
3 guys...who do I choose?
Q. I'm having troubles with three guys. I think my friend likes me. He's been one of my closest friends for about 2 years and I always thought of him as a brother. But recently he's been texting me he loves me. I thought he was just kidding, bu...
A. 14 February 2011: Perhaps the third guy thinks your unavailable because of all the attention from the other boys. He might not think he stands a chance with you.
If he makes your heart race then he is the one you should give your attention to --- be brave and ask ... (read in full...)
After 10 years of devotion, why would a spouse suddenly cheat?
Q. So why would someone be completely obsessed with their spouse for 10 years and not interested in anyone else on the planet, then all of the sudden start finding others sexually attractive and cheat on them a few times? What would make a person just ...
A. 12 February 2011: I dont believe it was all of a sudden.
Perhaps your seeing for the first time that your husband has always ben a cheater ? or perhaps he is looking for excitment sexually...who knows really with out all the facts. Sometimes relationships run thie... (read in full...)
How do I know if my boss likes me?
Q. My boss and I flirt on a day to day basis. Sometimes, the flirting is just fun, but other times, it is what I would consider more than flirting because of the gestures and body language he uses. He will cup my shoulders when walking past me, fidget ...
A. 12 February 2011: I suspect you like him very much and he would sense this.
The flirting will continue until you stop it. Maybe you dont want to? the attention is very exciting isnt it? and he is attracted to you but remember this.....the other staff are watc... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend always saying I'm trying to get into his head?
Q. What is the deal with my boyfriend always saying I want to get inside his head and analyze him? I have been trying to understand him and issues that have totally damaged our relationship. is this a man thing? or is he avoiding dealing with his own ...
A. 11 February 2011: He wants to be excepted for the way he is or perhaps he feels guilty or ashamed.
I think that when you meet someone there will always be quirky things that will annoy you however if you want to try and change a persons peronality triats, always find... (read in full...)
What is going on here? Booty call?
Q. I have been dating a guy for a little over a month now..problem is I haven't seen him in 3 weeks (partly due to me being away and him becoming very busy with school). We talk and text and the last time I heard from him was Monday night (its now ...
A. 11 February 2011: Is this a no strings relationship?
Never settle for less than you deserve. If this person is not treating you right then move on. I to would be disappointed if someone forgot our date. I often read, see, hear people letting thier family / frie... (read in full...)
In love with a girl while in rehab...but her chequered past and questionable actions have launched me into a terrible dilemma...
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 34 years old male. I was in a rehab for 5 months recently. I had been through a terrible heart break about 3 years back when the girl that I have loved since I was 14 married another guy. It's complicated, she married another ...
A. 11 February 2011: Hi, I do apologise I had misread your post. I do sincerely wish you every personal sucess because you deserve all the happiness life has to offer.
... (read in full...)
In love with a girl while in rehab...but her chequered past and questionable actions have launched me into a terrible dilemma...
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 34 years old male. I was in a rehab for 5 months recently. I had been through a terrible heart break about 3 years back when the girl that I have loved since I was 14 married another guy. It's complicated, she married another ...
A. 10 February 2011: It appears you didnt relly want our opinions because your not listening. Go be with her, ruin everything you have strived to be this past 5 months, you dont need us to tell you whats right for you you seem to already know. Good luck and I would ... (read in full...)
In love with a girl while in rehab...but her chequered past and questionable actions have launched me into a terrible dilemma...
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 34 years old male. I was in a rehab for 5 months recently. I had been through a terrible heart break about 3 years back when the girl that I have loved since I was 14 married another guy. It's complicated, she married another ...
A. 9 February 2011: Sometimes it's easier to help others than to deal with your own issues - do you have the qualifications to help this woman really?
Often people in re-habs feel a deep connection because of the shared experiences and empathy they feel for each othe... (read in full...)
Emotional numbing advice plz?
Q. i haven't been able to feel much lately since a recent incident with an ex. Idk how to over come it..i just don't feel anything anymore......
A. 8 February 2011: I believe you maybe in a state of shock. I recall a time when I felt numb..its the mind trying to cope or block out a traumatic event. I would suggest you see a doctor or go talk with someone whom you trust 100 % to tell your story to so the ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if I did the right thing going back to my ex
Q. I find myself in a very difficult situation. A few months ago I broke up with my boyfriend because we had a lot of issues and he did not treat me right. We've been together for 10 years and it was a hard decidion. I went to leave with my parents. A ...
A. 6 February 2011: Just remember this...you are toying around with real people here whom have real feelings.
Inside of you is the truth, only you have the answers.
I think its time to let go of them both...try being single for awhile..go have some fun so you can ... (read in full...)
I found out she's a loose easy fluzzie.She's not wife material.
Q. Evening everyone. I'm in need of suggestions on how to break it off with a woman I've been seeing since this past August. I want to do in a way that won't insult her or cause her self esteem to go down. For the most part we've got on pretty well and ...
A. 6 February 2011: Wow! being a little judgemental?
I can understand how hearing about her sexual appetite from the past maybe dissapointing especially when you have such high moral standards !!!... but I wonder if she had of been more explicit about her sexu... (read in full...)
I'm so in love with my friend it hurts
Q. i am so in love with my friend it hurts. i dont know how he feels about me.when we first became friends there was some flirting going on-more on m part because i fancied him and still do rotten. he says he enjoys my company and we get on very well. ...
A. 6 February 2011: kiss him ... (read in full...)
I'm not happy with the constant break ups
Q. My boyfriend and I have been in a serious relationship off an on for the most part of 4 years. We are 22 and 23. He was in a bad car accident which has left him with am arm the dose not completely straighten. I was not with him during the accident ...
A. 5 February 2011: I think he is wanting to end the relationhip but he does not want to hurt you. When he sees you so upset he feels guilty because of everything you have done for him through his rehabilitation, but a relationship based on guilt is not a good reason ... (read in full...)
I think he's getting bored
Q. ok, so i've been with my boyfriend for not too long, like a month or so, and its been going well...ish. we're both a little messed up[family issues and all] but we help eachother out. anyway, its almost Valentines day, and he seems to be getting...i ...
A. 5 February 2011: Sometimes boredom is confused with not being compatiable.
Perhaps it's you thats bored with him because he is not filfulling your needs. You cannot force things to happen.
Are you sure you really like this boy for the right reasons?
It sounds... (read in full...)
Why isnt he replying to my texts or calls, has he done a dissapearing act?
Q. i met a guy about 2 months ago, a single dad of 1 (a 2 an a hlaf year old girl) we got on really really well an he wanted to take things further, we since been in a relationship an hes met my family an friends and has agreed to come out for my ...
A. 5 February 2011: It's difficult to say. Men often pull away or go into thier caves when they need time to think about issues.
There's not alot you can do..If I was you I would stop trying to get him to talk to you, he knows your there.
Try to keep yourself... (read in full...)
My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more
Q. Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he p...
A. 3 February 2011: I have tears of joy for you because you found the courage to walk away. Well done !... (read in full...)
First sexual encounter : Is there anything you wish you knew / did your first time?
Q. Im 19 and I am still a virgin - I'm not too particularly worried because I will probably lose it this summer as this boy and I are getting more serious. The thing is, he is almost 22 and not a virgin. We havent gone very far and now we are in LDR. ...
A. 31 January 2011: I wish I knew that he wanted to make love to me because he loved me not because we felt pressured to have sex because everyone around us was having sex. I would have wanted to know that if I fell pregnant would he stand by me and the child. ... (read in full...)
Is he interested in getting to know me? or not?
Q. My aunt introduced me to this guy that she works with, she thinks we'd be a perfect match. When i say introduced..i guess i dont really mean introduced. she told him to add me on facebook. we chatted for a while the first few days and exchanged ...
A. 31 January 2011: Maybe he is unsure that you like him, or feeling unsure or under pressure because your aunt started this. I would stop texting and just phone him. Ask him straight out, for example - would you like to go out on Saturday for a coffee at Joe,s pl... (read in full...)
How can I bridge this terrible predicament?
Q. I am a middle-aged man, I have a daughter who was born when I was in my teens. Her mother and I were High school sweet hearts and I loved her very much. My daughters mother was unfaithful to me many times, I tried to make it work but I could no ...
A. 30 January 2011: I dislike people whom use thier own children as tools to avenge the other parent.
I would write a letter, make a copy, reegister it and send it to your daughter. Tell the truth nothing but the truth but no mallice towards the mother.
So much tim... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to try and not love him?
Q. I've been having issues with my husband of 2years. I've been sleeping in another room for the last 3 nights. The maid had to work early today so i moved back into the bedroom i played on the computer for a bit being tired i went into our bed he just ...
A. 29 January 2011: Avoiding issues wont make them go away. It might seem easier but sooner or later the issues re-surface with more avengance. Communciation is the only way people can move forward. It's imperative to sit somewhere non threatning with your husban... (read in full...)
Married 5 years, still virgins, help!
Q. This year I will celebrate my 5 year wedding anniversary. Unfortunately, my wife and I are still virgins. I love her with all of my heart. People that know us think we have the most wonderful, romantic relationship. Love letters every morning before ...
A. 29 January 2011: I find this amazing. in the eyes of the law your not married because it has not been consimated. Something is dreadfully wrong its like you are flatmates. You both need to see a councillor if you are unable to communciate to each other about sh... (read in full...)
Parents are struggling financially. Should I let them move with me if I buy a new home?
Q. I need advice... well I moved in with my parents when my husband and I separated. My dad quit or got fired from his job, we really don't know the truth. I thought it would be a good idea that I pay them instead of staying on my own. Well I've been ...
A. 29 January 2011: This is a tough situation however at the end of the day
it is not your responsibility to take on board your parents financial issues. Your parents have a responsibilty to you to ensure you have a filfulling life, not to burden or make you feel guil... (read in full...)
I really like this girl and need some good ideas!
Q. ok i like this girl in high school and we talk in class i have three periods with her she doesnt know i "Like" her like her but we talk and laugh! but i want to talk to her more! but she sleeps through all of her classes with me she talks to me but ...
A. 26 January 2011: I wonder why she sleeps in class? odd! If you like her simply ask her if she would like to go to a movie sometime or hangout together after school. As far as the Valentines day go - buy her a card and flowers or chocolates, it doesnt have to b... (read in full...)
How do you know if a girl is really enjoying having sex with you?
Q. Hello, my question is mostly for the girls but i dont mind having different points of views, that would be greatly appreciated, i just want to know how to tell that the girl is actually enjoying having sex with you? i mean during intercourse how do ...
A. 25 January 2011: People can enjoy sex but not feel any love....
You can have sex but making love has a passion, kinda like your the only 2 people in the world the ultimate escape in lusty passionate lovemaking only felt by 2 people in love with each other.
I thi... (read in full...)
I feel like my mom's death was my fault......
Q. my life is crazy, no-one seems to understand me either, my boyfriend thinks im a liar and my family wont see things in my point of view. i lost my mom 4 years ago and cant seem to let go. is that normal? id like to say nothing is wrong with me and ...
A. 25 January 2011: hello, It's time to forgive yourself though I dont believe for a second it was your fault, it was your mums time. People react differently in times of tragedy and you were only 11 at the time, I feel your being way to hard on yourself. Its di... (read in full...)
My partner is posessive and doesn't allow me to have friends
Q. my partner is very possesive and wont allow me any friends. i dont work and am basically a recluse as im not allowed out. please could someone advice me on how i can make friends on line without my partner knowing. i feel i need company a...
A. 25 January 2011: Stop giving him permission to control you. This is abuse in its higest form. What will he do should you have a mind of your own, for goodness sake stand up for yourself. ... (read in full...)
My wife contributes very little to our relationship
Q. My wife and I have been married for two years and I'm worried about our future because she contributes very little to our relationship. I bring in 100% of the money (I'm putting her through college), but in return she doesn't clean, cook, take ...
A. 23 January 2011: Hi, I am wondering if she is mentally exhausted feeling burnt out, this can cause a physical break down.
Like the other aunt said perhaps take her out for dinner or go for a walk in a park anywhere where it is non threatning and ask her how she ... (read in full...)
My girl seems to be playing games with me. Why text me when she was with another guy? What should I do?
Q. I saw my girl with another guy. She saw me and said, ''hi'' to me. I ignored her. After that she sent me a text saying,''You seem cold today. Why are you so down, or is it me?'' What was the purpose of this sms? She knows I saw she was with ano...
A. 22 January 2011: Assumption is the root of insecurity.
I think is was rude of you to ignore your friend just becuse she was talking to anther man, unless thier is factual evidence she is cheating.?
I think she is owed an apology. Do you stop talking to all females ... (read in full...)
Should I hang around and support him or is it time for me to move on?
Q. So I have gotten myself into a real mess and I do realise it. I have been dating a guy that lives in a different country, for several months. He has made several references to getting married, as well as asked directly. The problem is he has ...
A. 21 January 2011: Long distant relationships are diffcult.
Perhaps frustration is setting in. It truly is your decision wether to end this online distant relationship or move forward perhaps with someone whom lives closer.
I know its difficult letting go b... (read in full...)
Should I hang around and support him or is it time for me to move on?
Q. So I have gotten myself into a real mess and I do realise it. I have been dating a guy that lives in a different country, for several months. He has made several references to getting married, as well as asked directly. The problem is he has ...
A. 20 January 2011: We all go through difficult times but this should not be an excuse to treat the people we love badly or ignore them.
It appears this is a 1 sided relationship - something has changed. I would call him and tell him how your feeling...ask him if h... (read in full...)
Should I take a leap of faith or face reality?
Q. I am currently struggling with a huge decision in both my career and love life. I currently live in Panama with the love of my life. We are young (19, 20) but we are both extremely happy with each other, have been together 3 years and we live ...
A. 20 January 2011: Go with your instinct - If it was me I would go back to the US. If your relationship is strong it will survive, it wont be easy stepping away but nothing good comes easy. You have a whole future ahead of you. There are no gaurantees with love but ... (read in full...)
Do guys call a girl hot just to sleep with them?
Q. Would a guy call a girl "hot" to her face just to sleep with her or get something out of it, or does he really think she's hot? Or do you think he's just trying to give her a false ego boost for whatever reason?...
A. 20 January 2011: It is a physical compliment. ... (read in full...)
No intimacy in marriage for nearly 5 months!
Q. My DH and I have now been married for 6 1/2 yrs but together for 9. For the past 4 1/2 months there has been zero intimacy and I'm going crazy. He won't talk to me about it. He just keeps saying that he misses me in that way and loves me so ...
A. 8 January 2011: I wonder if he feels guilty about something he has done? Sometimes guilt can make a person withdraw,or perhaps he has a medical condition? ( depression for example )
I agree with the aunt honesty post, there is not alot you can do until he acce... (read in full...)
My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more
Q. Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he p...
A. 6 January 2011: It's a positive sign he is attending anger management - however it will take more than attending a couple of classes. Proof will be in the pudding.
I do hope things turn out well for you - but promise me that should another episode deveope get the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more
Q. Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he p...
A. 5 January 2011: Run Forest run!
Perhaps you find it flattering for now to have a man fight to show his feeling of love !!!! however the longer the relationship goes on the more volitile he will become.
One day he will turn on you, he has already shown signs - ... (read in full...)
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