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reader, lovelyeyes  +, writes (5 March 2011):
Make sure u go to a fertility doctor to check your tubes make sure its clear. Also check your horomone level. It took my sister 7 yrs to finaly get pregnant and have a baby. It turned out her horomone level was to high. The more u stress the less chance u become fertile. So I know its hard but u have to stop stressing about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): Have you not seen a doctor or received medical attention for eight years? How would you provide medical care for a baby if you did get pregnant? Maybe its a good thing you are not pregnant yet.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (5 March 2011):
 Go to the doctor. It could be you or it could be your husband's low sperm count. It doesn't have to be a sad situation. I imagine if I am barren I would be happy to adopt. Rather than wallowing my body's dysfunction, I would choose to accept that's what God wants for me. Maybe a life without kids mean more freedom for a couple to do more romantic things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011): DC is NOT what you need, it's a medical professional. You need to see your doctor, to look further in to the reasons why you may not becoming pregnant. To be honest all you will get on DC is a sympathetic ear, a shoulder. People will try to quash your fears, and this is NO real answer. So make an appointment with your doctor.
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reader, funkymonkey123  +, writes (4 March 2011):
maybe thers something wrong with his sperm count or something on your side, i suggest going to see a proffessional about it and see why there is a reason why you can. also try not to get stressed and put yourselves under too much pressure as that may have an affect on your ability
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011): you need to consult a doctor and find out the problem also you need to relax and stay calm record your peaks in fertility and get info on everything. seriously just relax but definitely do to the dr and have things checked out so you can find what a possible cause is it might be him not you you never know
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (4 March 2011):
 Hello - go to a doctor to have fertility tests to determine the cause. Both you and your partner - it may not be you.
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