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writes:i met a guy about 2 months ago, a single dad of 1 (a 2 an a hlaf year old girl) we got on really really well an he wanted to take things further, we since been in a relationship an hes met my family an friends and has agreed to come out for my birthday at the end of this month, so everything seems really good! right? ... well 3 days ago he stayed at mine for the first time an met my family for the first time. everything seemed really good an we had a fantastic time, but since i dropped him back at the station he hasnt spoken to me, his phone has been switched off he hasnt replied to any messages or texts an when i went to his to drop some of his things off he was no where to be seen. i dont know what is goin on, or what i should do... has any body got any ideas as to what i should say or do, or what he is up to????
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (5 February 2011):
Well, my experience is that guys are usually not stuck to their mobiles as much as we girls are. (Though they're probably catching up as I speak).
Anyway, don't fuss, take a breath and don't attempt to contact him again. You have left him texts, calls and everything so when he switches on his phone he knows who to call.
I don't think there's anything to worry about, not yet. However, if he doesn't get back to you after a week, I'd cut my losses and move on. If he's smart, he won't let it get to that.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (5 February 2011):
 Hmmmm......The first thing that comes to mind is maybe he had to go out of town suddenly. This may well have nothing whatsoever to do with you or meeting your family. If you got the impression that he enjoyed staying with you, then the odds are he most likely did.
Not having heard from him since - the reason could be something you haven't even thought of. At the moment, I think your best bet is to sit tight and see whether he gets in touch in the next few days to a week. If not, you might try again to phone him.......good luck!
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (5 February 2011):
 It's difficult to say. Men often pull away or go into thier caves when they need time to think about issues.
There's not alot you can do..If I was you I would stop trying to get him to talk to you, he knows your there.
Try to keep yourself busy by visiting friends going to a movie, getting your hair done anything to keep yourself busy.
Give him some space..he will return when he is ready.
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