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It looked like the condom split, and now I'm panicking!

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Question - (15 November 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *handy88 writes:

Hi Everyone!

Right, i'm just looking for peace of mind really.... me and my BF of 4 years had sex this morning, with a condom... but when he pulled out it really looked as if it had split as there was a lot of excess liquid on it.. ordinarily this wouldnt be a problem as i have always been on the pill, but i had run out and only got some more on Thursday so i am currently not on it..i was a bit panicky, ive never had a condom split on me! disgusting i know, i filled it with water to see if it had a whole in it... nothing came out so i'm pretty sure its ok, but i still cant help trying to supress this nagging feeling i've got that tells me everything isnt ok? I am really not ready to have a baby, i need to live my life first! if you could just give me your honest opinions then it would mean the world to me and hopefully set my mind to rest.

Thanks in advance

x.x.x.

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A female reader, shandy88 United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2008):

shandy88 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you so much for all of your advice guys! I think i will play it safe and go to the chemist first thing in the morning. thanks again for being so kind and taking the time to answer me.x.x.x

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A female reader, blackroses2989 United States +, writes (15 November 2008):

blackroses2989 agony auntHi honey! If there was no water coming out, then the condom probably did not break. If you are nervous you can go get a "morning after pill." Otherwise known as "plan B" keep in mind it does make you start your period. Its good to be cautious but dont panic, if there was no liquid coming out when you filled it with water, it probably didnt split. Good luck to you!

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2008):

You can go to any duty chemist and buy the morning after pill if you want to be extra safe.

Find out which one is the late night weekend chemist in your town and head down there.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008):

Exactly what moongoddess said - it's highly unlikely if there was no water coming out. It could have been lubricant or maybe girl cum...? Whereabouts are you in your cycle? You could take the morning after pill before it's too late - but do it first thing in the morning because the sooner you take it, the more effective it is =]

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A male reader, agonyunclechris United Kingdom +, writes (15 November 2008):

agonyunclechris agony aunthi, well if you did the water test on the condom then dont worry, if water cant get out then , semen definately can not its too thick. if you are concerned still maybe you should see a pharmacist and they can give you the morning after pill, if you have sex then there is a chance you will get pregnant if you make one error because sex is ment to be to get pregnant, so in future try to be more carefull, take care, good luck, chris

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