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writes:ok so when i like people i like to keep it 2 myself or tell a few of my friends. but strangely enough i am starting to get some courage. so should i act on the courage and start letting the guys know that i like them or should i keep it to myself and my friends? Reply to this Question
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reader, agonyunclechris  +, writes (11 December 2008):
 well maybe see if they have something for you first. flirt abit? do the eye contact business ect. and if you think he may like you then you should tell him... why?
well if you asked him the only possible outcome is yes or no. if you get a no then fine it wont be any different. if you get a yes then obviously you have gained something. but if you dont ask you can never get a yes can you?
well just think about it.. its wise to ask him out. believe me i love the relief of the girl asking me out because i am not the sort to ask girls out but would jump at the chance if i was asked out. that is if i didnt feel underpressure. so make sure if you ask that its in a comfortable situation.
take care and good luck for your future love life
chris
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): thats up to you. If you like someone, i assume you want to know if they like you. Sadly these days people tend to be more rude if they think they are better then you. If you can rack up the strength to tell this person you like him. and taking into consideration what the answers or outcome might be. Then i say go ahead do it. Or else you will regret stuff like that. And eventually get more scared to tell people how you feel.
GL
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