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What can I do to speed things up to the next step?

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Question - (11 November 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 November 2008)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *ejuven8 writes:

Hi, I need a bit of help! I'm 27 And my boyfriend is 24. We've been together for more then 2 years now. I'm getting a bit depressed, cause he doesn't want to take the relationship to the next level! He says he's too young for that and I should have thought about that before I started dating him. We don't even live together yet. What can I do to speed things up, or am I just unfair towards him?

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A male reader, agonyunclechris United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2008):

agonyunclechris agony aunthi, you cant speed things up, if you push somebody they will rebel, and in a relationship that means leaving you. you need to accept he is not ready for the next step and if you really love him, then wait till he is ready. take care

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