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writes: I've been in love with the same guy for about a year a half. At one point in time he liked me, and a lot, but he also liked another girl. He chose her over me, and I still don't know why to this day. But they broke up after six months, and I honestly couldn't be happier about that, but I feel bad because she broke up with him because it was kind of about me. She has the feeling that he still likes me, and that we have a bigger connection than she and he ever did. My friend and I have been best friends for a long time, and I knew I loved him and that he was my soul mate from the first time we talked. When I think about him I start to cry because he ISN'T mine. Apparently he doesn't think of me that way? But why? We're always doing little harmless flirting with one another, but I make sure we never went too far for the sake of his ex girlfriend. I just want to be his and for him to hold me and tell me he loves me and that he will always be there for me. I want him to be my Edward(no matter how cheesy that may sound) in my mind I think of him as MY Edward, and maybe I can be his Bella? But what do I do? I can't stop thinking of him, wanting him, caring about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): Get over him sweetie!!
Sorry to say it that way but the guys does not have as much interest with you as you do with him. Try to see someone else and it will open your eyes.
If he thinks about you that deeply, he would not have chosen the other girl.
If he still care about you, he will try to get back in touch with you and tell you all that you want to hear, but be careful, maybe because you have not gotten another experience makes you think that way.
You got to show him that you are ready to move on and that you won't just sit waiting for him to come back in order to get his attention and to realize how much he care for you, if he did. If he did not, that will help you move on with your own feelings.
Get busy, go out, change your mind. You won't be able to erase all those great memories of the two of you, but the longer you stay waiting the mroe depressed you will be.
Is he waiting for you as you are waiting for him?...
As some people say, you are young, and can still love. It hurts but it's the truth. It is not the end of time. Move on.
Love goes both way...
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reader, agonyunclechris  +, writes (11 November 2008):
 well . it seems to me you love him alot, the only way to find out if this is unrequitted love is to ask him out, maybe he was only doing little flirts because they were only little messing about flirts meaning nothing. but the only way you will know is to get off here and ask him out girl! take care
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reader, DearCupid +, writes (11 November 2008):
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