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*parkle133
writes:I've been dating this guy for a month now... we're on date 7 lol! My problem is I'm not sure if he is just really shy or not into me that much. Now I am quite a shy person when it comes to guys and don't like to make the first move when we are together but i have been trying. There has been kissing, hand holding and cuddling but it always takes us until the end of the date to get here or sometimes there is nothing until we kiss goodbye. Things did heat up the other night, we were making out and fooling around and then I ended up staying the night but then i saw him again a few days later and it was back to how it was, nothing until I was leaving and we kissed. I guess my question is how can I tell if he likes me but is just shy? Should I be more confident and make the first move all the time? I don't want to scare him off!! Maybe I'm just too used to guys who try it on all the time.
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reader, sparkle133 +, writes (12 November 2008):
sparkle133 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses!! You've given me the confidence to make the first move and take control when I next see him. I'll see what happens. I guess if he backs away its not to be, if he doesn't then he is shy but likes me :D
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reader, agonyunclechris +, writes (11 November 2008):
 hey.
my guess is he is shy, he is not the sort to make the move, and he wants you to take control of the relationship. he probably doesnt know when to kiss, or when is the right moment for what. Teach him how to love, because its obvious he isnt the master of it. take care
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