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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I really fancy her, and she said she'd want to lose her 'V' to me, but now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - hi, added this girl on FB a while ago and after a lot of chatting and stuff i managed to get her number (she is 16, i am 19) so we have been texting and flirting hinting to each other that we should meet up and stuff, i went away for the weekend to ...

When does intercourse become less painful for women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Hi! So, I'm getting married soon and I been reading a lot about sex preparing somewhat for it. My fiancé has told me that she has had 1 sexual partner and they only did it twice the same day she lost her virginity. One worry that she has is our f...

It feels like he's rushing things -- is he a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hi everyone,i am a bit nervous these days and i thought of asking for any advice,there is a guy wich i like and i have known him for three years now,we have been in high school together,we started dating and only after three weeks he wanted to have ...

Afraid that losing my virginity will hurt ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Ok so I'm terrified of losing my viginity. I'm in a relationship he's asked me to marry him but i know it won't last anyway i like this guy in school and i think he likes me back and i want to lose it to him. But im terrified of penetration. How bad ...

How do I tell him that I'm still a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - So I'm dating a guy that I really like for 2 months , he's kind , nice and respect me , he never forced anything and never asked or said straight that he wants to sleep with me ... He is 26 and I am 27 , he used to be married , I'm still virgin...

Maybe I shouldn't have broken up with him over his post?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I had this boyfriend(S),we were together for about 7 months and everything was going fine. i really liked him and (S) was one of the few people i've been with that was good to me. about 4 months into the relationship we had sex. it was the first ...

Guys, would you have reacted in the same way as my boyfriend to the fact that I am a virgin at 20?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - So this guy i'm seeing we were getting really close and things were intense, I wanted to go the whole way but I stopped him and said I can't i'm still a virgin, but told him I want to, just not yet. I'm ready, i'm just not sure yet if I want to...

Who can I show my boyfriend in a special way that I'm ready to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I have a very important query for you all. I'm 17, and have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. I have a feeling I will be with him for a great deal more. He was 18 yesterday, and I am 18 on Wednesday next week. When we first got together...

How do I overcome my problems for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

20 September 2012 (F) - So I'm planning on having sex for the first time with my boyfriend. I'm on birth control and me and my boyfriend are 20. He isn't a virgin and I am. So I am asking if you have any advice on overcoming my self consciousness of being naked with him...

Can you break your hymen during masturbation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - Im a 19year old virgin girl who has become quite addicted to porn and mustarbation..thing is i want o wait till marriage so if anyone can answer me truthfully if its possible to push back or break the hymen after mustarbating by opening my legs high ...

Do you think my wife has forgotten what losing her virginity felt like?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

18 September 2012 (M) - My wife lost her virginity to one man (had sex just once before me) and I have been fucking her three times a week for over twenty years. Has she forgotten about that first experience by now or will she always remember how it felt the first ti...

Sex issues with my virgin girlfriend, any help would be much obliged!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

17 September 2012 (M) - Hi all again. So me and my gal have been going together over a year now and she has gotten much more comfortable with me fooling around with her. She still is really shy when it comes to reciprocating. I have two questions, one that pertains to ...

A virgin who wants to know how to talk to women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

16 September 2012 (M) - Hello everyone. I have a question that a lot of people probalby ask, and i've never posted on here before but some advice would be greatly appreciated :). Basically, I wanna know how to talk to women. I am a virgin, never been kissed etc. so i...

What can I do so that he wont know I am not a virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - Hi, m 21yr old indian girl..had been in a relationship wid a guy approx for 1yr,bt he ditched nd left me,as i trusted on him...i was in physical relationship wid him...but before 1 nd a half year... Nd now m going to marry wid anothr guy......

Should I ignore my initiative and go with the flow?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - So I'm 19 and a virgin with a boyfriend who is 20 and not a virgin. At the beginning of the relationship he said he would wait till I was ready, now 6 months later I think he's getting impatient. It's not that I don't want to it's just I care to ...

I'm a 20 year old virgin and would really like to know.... What does it feel like to be completely in love with someone, flaws and all?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

15 September 2012 (M) - This probably sounds like a stupid question, but what does it feel like to be in love? I'm a 20 year old guy, never had a girlfriend or even any interest from a woman, still a virgin, never been kissed etc. So I really don't know what its like. I'm ...

Should I stay at his house?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

15 September 2012 (?) - Dear cupids, I am faced with a challenge. I made up my mind to spend my school holiday this december with my boyfriend in his house in another state and tell my parents the school requested us to stay because of out fast approaching exams so as to ...

Don't know when or if I should tell this guy I'm a virgin.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

15 September 2012 (F) - I've been reading a few questions people have asked on here about telling a guy their with that they are a virgin, well thing is i'm stuck on whether I should or even when. Because IF some guys see it as a conquest, then how do I know that he isn't ...

Is it true that a girl forgets her first love or the one she gave virginty to? Does my Gf miss him?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

15 September 2012 (M) - Is it true that a girl forgets her first love or the one she gave virginty to ....???? I'm in relation wid her from one year ago She loves me to bits. Sometimes I feel bad that she had an awful former boyfriend who took my girl friend's virgin...

Should I tell him I'm a virgin? I want the first time to be special.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

11 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone I am 23 years old and I am a virgin..I have never really had any serious real relationship,I have just french kissed 2 men that's it..I was just waiting for the right man..now i'm finally in a real relationship but my boyfriend doesn't ...

This hot guy might be a player who thinks I'm easy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I met this guy recently at hard rock cafe. In fact, i met this bunch of guys. Let me start from the beginning. My friend and i went to HRC on the weekend...we were just having some fun and chilling. My friend got a bit tipsy and i ...

Why am I so scared to have sex with my beloved?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

8 September 2012 (M) - I’m a young guy, I’m gay and I’ve a boyfriend. We have pretty big age difference - while I’m 18, he’ s 30, but this has never been a problem for us. He’ s a wonderful person and I’m so in love with him. I have kind of a sexual problem. My boyf...

I was a virgin and she was not. Now I feel cheated. To me this is a Big Deal. Am I making too much of this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

8 September 2012 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 8 months and we had sex recently, but she told me she had sex when she was 14 and lost her virginity with her ex. I am 17 and she is 16. I feel like I gave her everything (my first kiss and virginity), and I go...

Guys, is Virginity really important to you? I'm scared to lose my virginity. But wish I had.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

7 September 2012 (?) - I am not a person who goes with the crowd but most of the time, I am scared of losing my virginity before marriage. Now I probably regret not having sex when I was younger, because I had always wanted to have sex. What's the difference even ...

I can't get over this male model but he doesn't like me in that way. Should I lose my virginity to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

7 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I am a lost person at the moment. I had a thing with a male model we romanced three times with one almost leading to sex but I refused because I knew he did not like me. I still like this guy, even when I forgot him I dream about him and that ...

I cant get over the fact that my girlfriend wasn't a virgin when we got together and that she lost her virginity to her ugly ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

5 September 2012 (M) - Hi.. My problem is that when i start my realation with my gf i wasnt vey serious and she told me that she isnt a virgin... I minded that but i thought iys ok.. But now am getting so close to her and atracted but i feel bad that she is not a ...

I feel like people show me that being a virgin at my age is like being cursed and it's seriously getting on my nerves.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

3 September 2012 (F) - Hey. I'm going to turn 20 in two weeks and I'm still a female virgin. Most of my friends had already sex which make me feel a little bit left out. Besides, some of them are really annoying about it. Generally, people don't know about it and They are ...

How to ask for sex lessions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

2 September 2012 (F) - I date an older, more experienced guy, whom I recently lost my virginity to. I'm not sure if this happens to everyone, but having sex made me realize it's pretty awesome and made me well.. want way more. Nevertheless, I'm really shy and have qui...

My second Bf ever. He's older. Do I tell him I'm a virgin? Will that discourage him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

2 September 2012 (F) - I'm in high school and my boyfriend has been out of high school for a few years. I'm still virgin but he doesn't know it. We have only been dating for about a month. We have talked about our past and he has had more experience with other girls ...

Before we do go ahead, and that is NOT yet: what should we consider before we have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

1 September 2012 (F) - I'll give a bit of background info first.. Basically My boyfriend and I have been going out almost two and a half years and the sex topic has come up quite a lot recently, we both agreed we aren't ready yet and that we're happy to wait for each oth...