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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I've had a rocky time, is this choice gonna make things better or worse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - 2009-2010 was not a good year for me. There was bullying and a lot of other stuff going on. At the end of it I was pretty much broken and suicidal. In August I hit rock bottom. Then I started to heal. Now, I've started to enjoy life again. I've...

Am I puritan for staying a virgin at 18?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am an 18 year old girl who is a virgin. All of my friends have had sexual relations prior to turning 18. They say I am a puritan and should be having sex at my age. I think I am right in that I want to wait until I am married. Am I wrong ?...

22 year old virgin who thinks she can do better...advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - SO im a 22 year old female virgin. and i also never had a boyfriend. lame i know. anywayz there is one guy that is interested in me but i feel like i can do better than him. messed up right? hes nice when hes sober, but when hes drunk hes annoying, ...

I know he's no good for me, I need to get over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - So it's been like 3 years since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me. I've been so hurt that I've been doing things that I'm not supposed to do. We've only been together for 6 months but he is my first love, on the last 3 months of our relationship we ...

I am a virgin, is moving in with my fiancé a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Im a virgin moving in with my fiancée, is that a good idea? We have been been dating for 2 years, and have been engaged for 4 months. Our wedding is in a month. We have recently bought a house (it has three bedrooms). My fiancee wants us to move in ...

If I told girls I was a virgin would it help or hinder me with girls?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Im 22 years old without a girlfriend atm and I'm wondering if girls would see me differently if I told them I was a virgin....

Twenty-five year old virgin, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I know a lot of guys have problems getting laid, but I’m having a crisis. I’m 25 years old and considered a virgin by everyone. In reality, I did lose my virginity, but not in a way that is something I would brag about. Nothing illegal or immoral, ...

His mixed actions and signals make no sense to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5009 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - A boy told me likes me, then a few weeks later we kissed..no contact from him at all. Then I seen him again a week ago and he told me again that he really likes me but its complicated cos he's kind of with another girl, but if he had to chose ...

Is it too soon to perform oral sex on the guy I'm dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - Hi. I've been dating this guy for a month now (have known him for almost 4 months) and so far things have gone rly well. He got me a heartshaped cookie and took me out to dinner on Valentines Day, he constantly tells me how beautiful I am and how ...

What is my next step with this woman...???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

24 February 2011 (M) - I'm not sure if I am confused or not. I have no experience at all with women, I am 26, the lady I am interested in is 32. She has had 2 relationships, 1 lasted 11 years, the other she says less than 1 year. We do have a very open friendship, we d...

22 years old and still virgin. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - I dont know what to do anymore. I feel like I dont fit anymwhere. I just turned 22, and I've never, I mean never had sex or having a girlfriend, what am I doing wrong? It wasn't so important to me before, when I was in highschool. I was a good stu...

Will the pain lessen in time, when having sex with my boyfriend???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

23 February 2011 (?) - A few days I slept with my boyfriend for the first time. We had sex five times throughout the evening and morning. I am not a virgin, but have not had sex in just over a year. (He was a virgin.) My first lover was rather small. But when I lost my ...

Why doesn't sex mean anything anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

23 February 2011 (M) - Nobody seems to believe in waiting for that one special person anymore. As a society we have come to expect sex all the time, and people don't care if it's with someone they truly care about or not, all they really want is thrills and excitement. ...

Questions about sex......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for just over four months and we've just lost our virginity to each other. It was awesome and totally unlike how I was expecting, but I have two questions about it. Firstly, after each time we've had sex I've been re...

Sex has never happened for me and I'm worried I will end up an old maid!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Looking for some advice; I'm a 23 year old female, and I've never had sex. It's not a question or beliefs, or prudishness- it's just not something that ever happened. In highschool and university I hung out mainly with other girls, and I never ...

I want to wait for the right one, afterwards, will there be any changes in my body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

22 February 2011 (M) - I am a 19 year virgin boy . I am University student .I believe that I should lose my virginity to the girl who I will LOVE . IS it right . I have not find my love girl yet . Also tell me if there are any body changes in boys after first time having ...

I want to talk to my mother about going on birth control pills. How do I ask her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I'll be turning 17 in just over a month, and I've stayed a virgin for the fact that I'm waiting for the right guy. The older I get, the more difficult I find it to keep my virginity. So, I'd much rather be safe than sorry if anything were to end up ...

Decided to have sex with a friend, but kinda want to wait for the other guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - Me and my best guy friend decided to have sex. He's been kind of hinting at it for a while, and for a while I thought he was starting to like me. I've liked someone else for 3 years and still like him, so I wasn't interested. but 2 nights ago we ...

If my hymen is already broken, does that guarantee my 'first time' will not hurt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - if my hymen is already broken, will sex hurt for the first time? i used to horse ride when i was younger, i have been using tampons for 2 years and my boyfriend has fingered me a few times so i am pretty sure it's broken. does this mean sex won't b...

Am I just being silly about her past sex life or should I be upset?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - Ok so this may sound pathetic, but it is a rather big deal, TO ME! I'm 18 and my girlfriend,(16) of 6 months are in a relationship where intimate touching and oral is involved, no penetrative sex, (yet). I recently found out that she lost her vir...

Ladies, honestly, would you rather have a virgin man or an experienced man to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5006 days ago

20 February 2011 (M) - I just want some honest opinions from women on this issue. If experience, how much is preferred and if virginity, how much of a gift is that to her? Is taking your partner's virginity as pleasurable for a women as it is for a man? ...

Having bad luck in the relationship dept so I'm thinking of losing my virginity to a prostitute. Thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

19 February 2011 (M) - Its terrible when a guy just has zero luck with women and has no break through what so ever. At what point is it time to decide enough is enough do you continue dealing with the pain and suffering or can one seek a sexual encounter to get it over ...

How can I hide from my husband that I'm not a virgin

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1504 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - im not virgin and im going to married in 1 year and so how can i hide from my husband...

Virgin would like to feel more confident in the bedroom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - I'm a 19 year old virgin and know that in the next few months me and my boyfriend, who is also a virgin, are going to have sex. Although I am ALMOST mentally ready, and more physically ready than I thought, I'm still anxious about it, the whole ...

I'm not interested in relationships. What affect will that have on me in future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm 15 years old, I haven't had a boyfriend, I've been asked a couple of times but I'm not interested. Every boy I know behaves in unacceptable ways. They're cocky, or not sensitive, too sarcastic. Don't get me wrong, I can tak...

I want to understand this. Could a guy get a girl pregnant even if he never put his penis inside her vagina?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - if a boy masturbates himself and gets his seminal fluid (cum) on his fingers and immediately afterwards performs cunnilingus on a girl, and puts his wet fingers in her vagina while he fingers her, could that pass on diseases or cause pregnancy? ...

Should I do whatever she wants since I get to keep her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - Hello i'm 19 and still a virgin. I got my first gf a few months ago but weve only met 5 times casue we live a little ways away. I'm nervous about sex being a virgin and all but she wants sex with me as soon as possilbe and threating to break up with ...

27 year old guy thinking of getting a Hooker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5016 days ago

18 February 2011 (M) - So yeah im a 27 year old guy, soon turning 28, never had a gf, and yes i'm also a virgin. Recently i've been thinking of just losing that V-card to a prostitute to get it out of the way, i know some will probably tell me to wait for that special ...

This guy is a jerk and I am scared. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - I've been dating a 11th grader since yesterday, and now he's been telling people he's going to have sex with me, like I'm a sex trophy to him. I never even had my first kiss and I'm a virgin the most i've ever done with a guy was hug, until he came...

I want to stay around him until he is interested. Is this a good strategy while we remain FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

18 February 2011 (F) - Ok...I need some advice. I have worked with this guy for about 3 years but we didn't really talk outside of work, because we were both been in a relationship at the time (him for 3 years and me for 4) until November. In November I gave him ...

Ashamed at being a 20 year old virgin...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - I am 20 years old and a virgin. I have never had a long term relationship and the people i have been with have cheated and treated me very badly. Im not the type to have a one night stand and the fact i was still a virgin never use to bother me as i ...

Is being a 24 virgin male that bad?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

17 February 2011 (M) - I am a 24 yr old virgin male i try to live by the bible standards am nt perfect thats why i say try, some girls find it strange that a handsome guy at my age is still a virgin. Am waiting for marriage my girlfriend is a virgin and we both want to ...

Should I just calm down and not expect too much from it but see him anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - So I texted this guy and asked if he wanted to get together sometime. He apologized for not getting to me sooner and we met. After the date I texted to thank him and he answered back 2 days later??? Not good! Since then he texted me every weekend to ...

I'm a virgin but want to masturbate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - So I'm a virgin and have begun to masturbate. Since yesterday i have only used my hands and a bullet for clitoral stimulation which is fine, but then I brought a larger bullet (one to penetrate) so I could gain experience before i have sex for the ...

Do I ask her too many questions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5005 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - I'm currently becoming very close and developing feelings for a lady older and more experienced than me. She is 32, me 26, I am a virgin, she has had 2 long relationships, I have never had one, she is the first girl i have ever had deep feelings ...

Promiscuous wife

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - What would you do if the wife you thought the world of is a liar and deciever, born in a religous family i kept to my bible truth. I kept my virginity till marriage, my wife lied to me that she was a virgin before we got married we lived with the ...

For male : what do you think about a virgin girl..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - For male : what do you think about a girl 23 years old and still virgin?? Well, that is me. This May i will 23 years old. And i am still virgin because i want to give my virginity to my husband in our first night.. Is that weird..? If you can choos...

Should I wait for that speacial Lady in my Life or just go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - I am a guy in his early 20's who is still a virgin and it is getting more difficult every day not to have sex. Should I still wait for that one exceptional woman any and if I do would it mean something to her and enough to be worth it?...

What do guys think about virgins?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I'm turning 18 and finishing up my senior year of high school. I am a virgin and do not want to have sex until I am sure I'm with the right person. My mother had sex at 14, needed an abortion and lived a pretty messed up life for a while after that. ...

Tips on the first night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

15 February 2011 (M) - hi this is salman ! i m gonna get married in 5 days so i wounder if any one can give me any tips that how to handle the first night with the bride about sex and every thing and it should be according to ISLAM. thank u...

Are my standards too high to get a girlfriend?`

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - Hello all, I'm a seventeen (Virgin) year old boy. I do want a girlfriend but I'm worried that my standards are too high. I don't believe in ANY sexual contact whatsoever, I wouldn't date a female if she had voluntarily given her virginity away o...

How to tell a girl you're dating that you're a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a 27 years old guy and I have never had sex in my life. It's an bothering fact especially when you live among people for whom it's no big deal to have sex from younger ages. The reason i haven't had sex so far may sound stupid but it's alw...

Should I tell him I've slept with his brother long before we got together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I just started seeing someone, I've known him for years and kept bumping into each other sporadically. Two years ago he was in a relationship of five years, around that time I was going through some stuff and I ended up sleeping with his brother. ...

The only thing I know is that I've liked him since we first met!

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13 February 2011 (F) - i have known this guy for 5 months, and from the first time i met him there was something about him, i cant really pin point what it is but yeh. hes in the year above me at school, and we used to talk all the time. i had made out with him a few ...

I am afraid to receive oral sex.... Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - It might sound a little strange but I'm afraid to receive oral. My boyfriend and I will be having sex for the first time very soon (we're both virgins) and I told him that I was afraid of receiving oral, he giggled at it... It's not that I'm afr...

My girlfriend and I are starting to take our physical relationship to a new level for the both of us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

11 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I are starting to take our physical relationship to a new level for the both of us. I am 19 and she is 18. The last couple times we have made out it has come pretty close to stripping and skin on skin feeling. She says that sh...

I know nothing about sex but want to have it with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months I know People say it is not long but we are in love I love him and wouldn't trade him for the world I really want to have sex with him I'm a virgin he is not I don't know how to tell if he ...

Will our different religious beliefs clash too much? And would he compromise his beliefs about sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

8 February 2011 (F) - Hello there, agony aunts. (: I have had a relatively close male friend who I have known for several years. We went to high school together and have always gotten on great. Almost the whole time I knew him, I had been with my ex boyfriend (who I...

My girlfriend is scared to have sex! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - I asked my girlfriend to have sex with me last night but she said she was scared and she didnt want to she was afraid it would hurt. its her first time and first time for me too. Any advice?...

Can't stop thinking of boyfriend's past!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

6 February 2011 (F) - Before I start, I'm going to give a little information that you may want to know. I'm 19, female and have a boyfriend whose age 25. (Age isn't the issue, ignore the age difference). We are online dating and have been with each other for 1 year and...