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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

I don't have an hymen even though I'm not an athelete.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - hii!iam not an athlete..but i dont hav an hymen layer..i found this when me and my boyfriend had sex..from that point of time he is suspecting me a lot..!!i was a virgin when i slept with him..but he is not trusting me b'coz of the absence of hymen ...

Lost my virginity to him and now we don't even talk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Its been almost over a month since I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend, and now we don't even talk. And yet i'm still stuck on him. I can't get him out of my head, I tryed to move on, but every thing reminds me off him. I know i'm not in love, so ...

Does she deserve a second chance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - There is a long history to this story, but I'll keep it as short as possible. If it's long, I'm sorry but this is really killing me. I have dated a girl for 15 years on and off...since 8th grade. We became very close and i knew she was the one ...

Was my hymen broken? Did I even have one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hey . May 7th 2010 iWas with a friend of mines and we were in his room and we were cuddled and iTold him that i was a virgin so he has big fingers and he put 2 fingers inside me and it didnt hurt at all (remind you iAm still a virgin) iDidnt bleed ...

I don't know what to think about all this

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - My current boyfriend has told me previously that he is not a virgin. He had sex in his last relationship that lasted 3 years. He said that he had wanted to save it for marriage and that when she brought it up a year in he said no, only to give in a ...

He rejected me because I wasn't a virgin, but I don't want to live without him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - I was in a relationship for 2 years,but after that we broke up,and i had sex with him,he didn't cheat me but we are not perfect for each other,so we decided to broke up,then after that now i am in a relationship with another boy from last 4-5 ...

How can I talk to my boyfriend about this without making him feel bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Hi! I saw that you gave some great advice to a a girl a while back I believe about getting fingered and I didn't know if you could help me out. I am 19 as well as my boyfriend. The other day for the first time he fingered me. I was sitting up...

I'm being blackmailed into sex, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - well uhm, i'm being blackmailed. I feel pretty low about it, but i can't get out of it. Basically this guy who i've been friends with for two years has always been there for me, and now he's being all lovey dovey and sending me innopropriate texts. ...

I don't want to be a virgin anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - There was a time when I was depressed and wanted sex to make it go away. The person I asked it from was a guy that I used to like a long time ago, and he's sort of a player, or sex fiend. We didn't do anything, but I wanted to, so bad. Is it wrong ...

Almost 25 and still a virgin, some advice needed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4507 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - Hi there, so I'm 25 in mid June and I'm STILL a virgin. There is a reason why I haven't had sex yet and this will probably seem stupid but it's the biggest hurdle I've ever faced in my life and is absolutely affecting EVERY SINGLE area of my life. ...

Can losing your virginity bring on your periods? And now he has had sex with me could he be going off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

24 May 2010 (F) - Hi i lost my virginity and 2 days later i started bleeding i wasn't due on for about another week or so is it normal to bleed a few days later? or can loosing your virginity bring your periods on? also since that night me and my bf haven't spoke a ...

I don't understand my body and having alot of trouble having sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - I'm so upset and i feel like i'm weird or something. I'm 26, and my boyfriend is 25. We are both virgins, and want to lose our virginity together. The thing is, he goes mad at me for certain things. I feel embarrased to say this , but i dont know ...

Is it normal to be sad about losing your virginity; could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

23 May 2010 (F) - Moderator's note: two questions combined So I just started taking birth control. I've been on it for about a month now. Me and my boyfriend are usually really good about having safe sex(condom) but a couple weeks ago he didn't use one. He said tha...

"you don't look like a virgin" when you are is that a insult?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - Hey, I was wondering when some one says "you dont look like a virgin" when you are is that a insult? Guys and girls both ask me this and most of the time say i dont look like one or seem like one. Does that mean i look or act like a slut some how to ...

Should we slow things down physically?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

22 May 2010 (F) - So, yesterday I allowed by boyfriend to finger me. I didn't expect much even if he's not a virgin, just because he probably wouldn't know what I like. Before he did anything he asked if it was okay and I told him it was. It was actually a nice ...

Confidence issues are keeping me single

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Hey :) So this is going to make me sound like a complete looser but I seem to be totally incapable of getting a boyfriend! Im 15 and i havent even how a first kiss yet - how pathetic? I have really really really low self-confidence and so im quite ...

I'm worried that my boy friend is having the same relationship over again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - i'm worried that my boy friend is having the same relationship over again. by boyfriend is a few years older than me, and a little more experienced in the dating world. I know I'm the youngest person he's dated, too. he's my first out of high...

I wonder if I should be more open to sex, after my rape experience?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hi I am 18 and was a virgin until I was raped a few months ago by a man that attacked me on the street. I do not count him as a sexual partner obviously, but it has kind of changed my attitude towards sex and my virginity. I am not desperate to los...

Is the transition from masturbation to penetrative sex difficult?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - Hello All, I am a guy aged 23, single (in fact, never been on a date yet) and a virgin (no surprises). I am not really desperate to lose my virginity and I think I can wait till I find my true love or till I get married. But for the last two...

Is this love or am I just sprung?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5330 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Tell me if this is normal. Okay so I lost my virginity to this guy that I really liked, and now I like him even more, but we broke up, and I still like him, Is it normal to feel this way? Or am I just sprung or obsessed?...

Is he being a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Okay, my ex-boyfriend dumped me and he continues to ask me who am I dating and do I have a boyfriend. I don't tel him because he dumped me. He really get upset when I do answer him. So I asked him are you dating he tells me no. He say all he is ...

Why didn't he cum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - Hi, i am 16 and recently lost my virginity to a lad that's 19 (he was not a virgin) im realy confused though, because it only lasted about 10 mintues, and when i asked him if he cumd, he sed nah he didn't, he was just giving me a 'tester' ? D...

Should I just get it over with and lose my virginity?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - I'll try to just get straight to the point) I am a 20 year old female who is STRONGLY considering losing my virginity, but not to anyone I particularly love, or even trust, but because the offer has been put out there by another co-worker a few ...

I didnt bleed when I lost my virginity and my boyfriend couldnt feel anything, now he thinks I was not a virgin!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

18 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend disvirgins me,he doesnt feel anything.i dint lose any blood when i was disvirgined and am sad bcos my boyfriend said he wasnt the one that disvigined me.pls help because it is normal for a guy to feel something within when he disvirgins ...

33 year-old male virgin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

17 May 2010 (M) - As a 33 year-old virgin who has never been in a relationship and has never, ever had sex how can you learn how to court a woman, flirt with her, ask her out, that sort of thing? That said, how can you learn about women generally? Are there ...

Why would my girlfriend say she lost her virginity to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

17 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend already lost her virginity but she regrets losing it to her first because it was rushed and it was a bad experience etc. and wished she had done it with me. She refuses to claim him and when people ask her who was her first, she ...

I'm 25, never had a girlfriend and still a virgin. I've kissed three girls once each. What do you think ladies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5330 days ago

17 May 2010 (M) - Hi, OK first of all, I'd love to introduce myself by name but unfortunately the idea of me posting on here is to remain anonymous! I'm a 25 year old man from the UK. I have a reasonably OK job, I look good, dress well, drive a nice car and...

No period but no symptoms either...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - I am 15 years old , i lost my virginity a month and 1/2 ago . But i havent came on my period since then , i havent had any symptons of pregnancy . I dont know what to do im only in 10th grade and i am a dancer for school and im scared to tell ...

32 and never been in a relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - hi, I'm 32 and believe it or not, but I've never had a boyfriend :( No guy has ever really shown an interest in me. I've never been on a date or even kissed a boy. No one has ever asked me out. I'm starting to feel it's too late for me now, sinc...

How to pleasure a guy without removing his clothes...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - When me and my boyfriend hug or kiss, he generally gets a boner pretty fast. I've had my hands down his pants and all that, so I know he's comfortable with me, but I was wondering, is it possible to rub his boner through his trousers? and if it is, ...

Could this be why I've never had a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - hi, im 17 years old and have never had a boyfriend. is thsi really strange? because i feel like everyone around me has had at least one serious relationship in their lives by this age. I've made out with many guys, too many to count, but all of ...

If I had sex and it hurt and we stopped did I lose my virginity?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5333 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - do i lost my virgnity? i was 24 years old when i had my first boyfriend. my ex bf like to have sex with me. i said yes but everytime he tried to enter i feel hurt so he did not continued. after him i never had relationhip. now that im 34 years...

I'm 22, still a virgin, never had a boyfriend yet. Is that a turnoff for guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

16 May 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm a 22 year old girl. For some reason, I'm a virgin and I haven't even had a boyfriend yet. I'm not ugly; I do commercial modeling (not the big stuff though), and I do get hit on. My problem is that guys usually go too fast for me....

I'm a virgin but he is not, can anyone give me any advice so I will be good in bed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

15 May 2010 (?) - I will apologize in advance for the length of this but I really appreciate any advice. Me and my boyfriend have been seeing each other for a while now and we have decided to take our relationship to the next level, we have decided to sleep with ea...

I am a virgin, should I forget this non-virgin girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

14 May 2010 (M) - Hello, I'm 22 and from a Greek Orthodox Christian background. I'm still a virgin, not because it has been drummed into me that it is a sin to sleep around but because I choose to respect women and the fact that I only want to make love to a woman ...

I think I am ready to lose my virginity, but is this a wise decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

14 May 2010 (F) - I am currently overseas and undergoing a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend who is back in my own country. I will be returning to my country in 3 months time and I was considering should I give my virginity to him then as I guess I am ...

Can a guy tell if you're a virgin or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - Hi, So i'm 20 and lost my virginity recently. It was with a guy I sort of know. I was drunk at the time and so was he. He didn't know I was a virgin and I haven't told him. I don't think it's a good idea he knows. Is there a way he could tell? I di...

We have planned that we will start having sex this weekend, and I have some contraception questions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

12 May 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend want to start having sex, and we have kind of planned that it will be this weekend. Im not sure which contraception to use and where i can get it from and how i use it and all that. I know that he already has condoms and i wasnt ...

I want to break my hymen so sex won't hurt so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5340 days ago

9 May 2010 (F) - Don't get me wrong. I respect myself and I don't really want to have sex, yet anyway. But I used to want to, I've matured since then and have realised it'd be better to wait, but when me and my ex boyfriend did try, he only got it in about an inch ...

Did I lose my virginity? I didn't feel a thing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5341 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - Hey all! i was thinking about my "sexual" history and was remembering a boy asking me to have sex with him, we had been freinds for years before that so it didnt seem strange to me. well i know the first mistake i made was saying yes to...

How do I appear confident and sexy in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5342 days ago

8 May 2010 (F) - so im a virgin and im uncomfortable in some ways example: i dont like when he tells me to take his clothes off....because im a little shy...and i dont feel comfortable moaning....do guys like when a girl moans?? anyway i want to seem confident and ...

I'm underage but so horny!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

7 May 2010 (F) - Hi Im 13 and im not sure if im a virgin but i really want to have sex with a boy or girl i dont mind. but the thought has been goin through my head for ages and i cant stop these sexually feelings im having. i usually use my toothbrush to help me ...

Need answers on first time sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

6 May 2010 (M) - did you have sex with your first girlfriend/boyfriend? Were you their first girlfriend/boyfriend too? How old were the both of you?...

I believe sex before marriage is dangerous

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

6 May 2010 (F) - what and how do i convience my boy friend that sex before marriage is dangerous...

Its very important to be a virgin and I'm not one anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5343 days ago

6 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16 years old and I have been in a realtionship with my boyfriend for a year and half now and we had sex and when we did it i was a virgin... I lost my virginity with him.. we were really in love but now things are not the same that we have very ...

How can I get over the fact that my husband lied to me about being a virgin all those years ago?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

5 May 2010 (F) - When I met my husband over 30 years ago he told me that he was a virgin (as was I). However, recently, and during a difficult patch in our marriage he confessed that this was a lie. This has upset me terribly, and to make it worse he says that it ...

I want to give him my virginity but there's a problem..he already has a gf!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - im 19 and i found a guy that i want to lose my virginity to. We have been together for a month and i feel 110% ready. The problem is that he has a girlfriend on the side....

My girlfriend lost her virginity to another guy while we were on a break!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2795 days ago

4 May 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, Well me and my girlfriend were both virgins, well I still am and we have been going out for 4 years. We were waiting for a right time for us to be together before we actually do this and we both agreed. We both love each other so mu...

Could I be pregnant after a drunken fumble in a toilet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - Could I be pregnant or am I being stupid I AM NOT ON THE PILL OF ANY FORM OF CONTRACEPTION I am normally a very sensible person but I was out on friday night and my best friend got me very very drunk, I was dancing with this really nice gu...

Could I have an STD even though we were both virgins?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5345 days ago

4 May 2010 (F) - OK so me and my boyfriend have had sex- multiple times and of course we've been safe about it but also ive given him oral too and i know for a fact that he was a virgin (like me) before we had sex and we both never participated in 4play before each ...