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He rejected me because I wasn't a virgin, but I don't want to live without him

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Question - (28 May 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 29 May 2010)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was in a relationship for 2 years,but after that we broke up,and i had sex with him,he didn't cheat me but we are not perfect for each other,so we decided to broke up,then after that now i am in a relationship with another boy from last 4-5 months,today i told him that i am not a virgin n told him to think that he can spend his life with a girl who is not a virgin or not,and i asked him that he if he don't have any problem then to message or call me,and if he thinks that he can't marry a girl who is not a virgin then no need to call or message me and i will understand his answer,and after knowing that i am not a virgin he didn't call or message me,i thought i can accept this,but trust me guys i can't life without him,i love him truly,what should i do??should i call him??i messaged him "I love you" but he didn't reply and after that he switched off his mobile,now please suggest me what should i do...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010):

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Hey everyone,thank you for your help,but you all know what,today in the morning he called me and he told me that he doesn't care about my past,he loves me and he trust me.....I love him so much,he also love me guys....but really thanx to all of you.....

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A male reader, serenity80 United Kingdom +, writes (28 May 2010):

You're still so young. You are going to meet so many other men and you can choose from many of them who you will fall in love with and want to be with.

Don't let one man cause you pain and upset. You'll find someone who will want to love you for who you are. Have faith.

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

YouWish agony auntI wonder if HE was a virgin. :P

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

raiders agony auntHe is obviously not worth the tears or pain forget him and move on. It will be hard at first but you will find a real man a person who will not look at your past but will fall in love with you and he hope and dream to one day build a future with you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2010):

Forget him. His answer is loud and clear, he can't spend the rest of his life with a girl who is not a virgin.

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A female reader, da 1 u nv 805 United States +, writes (28 May 2010):

da 1 u nv 805 agony auntI'm truly sorry for what you are going through, it must be really rough. If he can not accept the fact that you are no longer a virgin then maybe he's not the right one for you. I understand that you love him, but when you love someone you stick with them regardless of the situation. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you, trust me you'll find someone who appreciates you and loves you for you, just give it some time! Good things come to those who wait.

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