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anonymous
writes:I met this guy at a club.He had dinner and we went his place but I refused to have sex.Two days later he invited me to come to his brother's birthday party.I went there but we didn't had sex.then he invited me to come over his place to watch movie together.so I came to his place and had a small conversation with himsuddenly he invited his friends and left me alone.he ignored me and just had fun with his friend. what was that? what am i?so I gor offended I told him I gotta gothe he said. 'okay then call me when you got your place'i got more angry because he didn't want to take me home safely.so I asked to take me home with himthen he brought his friends with him so I could go home with his friends hahaAnd then when I got home from his place, he texted 'did you have fun tonight?" lol what is this?Is he trying to use me as a booty call or what?
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (23 October 2012):
It is time to stop worrying about this guy and whether he thought you were a booty call or not. This is the fourth time you have asked this question since June and you have been worrying about this one thing for FOUR months now.
Please see answers for you question at the following 3 links:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-is-a-complete-jerk-isnt-he.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-that-he-just-does-not-like.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-didnt-offer-to-take-me-home-first.html
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (23 October 2012):
 HI
That's not a booty call hun, that was a booooo call. You scared him off because your too serious. To have a booty call you need to be giving him the booty!! you only JUST met him and already your expecting his undivided attention. So he invited his friends, do you think maybe it was because he DONT want you as a booty call and was trying to soften the blow by inviting them? you need to lighten up a bit, i'm not saying go have sex with him, but your reading into things too much. If he wanted just sex he would NOT have invited you to his brothers bday party. chill out and have fun, fun comes first and the fun is great it leads to bigger and better things.
Mandy x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2012): Well it could be a couple things. One you have gotten to the friend zone. He may just see you as a friendly hang out. Since you are giving signs of not wanting to sleep with him or refusing to have sex. It might not be anything bad. I would play it by ear. He might want to see how you are around his friends to. Like I said it could be a number of things. Just play it by ear. Any updates let us know.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (23 October 2012):
I think he got your message that you didn't want to have sex and only fun. Naturally he invited his friends in order to make the experience more festive. I think if he was trying to use you as a booty call, you would already be having sex with him so this isn't the case. I think if you want a more deeper relationship you should ask him on a date or so, instead of agreeing to come to his place. I'm not sure why you are upset really...it just seems like you agreed to do whatever he wanted.
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