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writes:We never met, we talked for hours, he was clearly intersted until i told him i liked him, and now he doesnt wanna talk to me, he told me he got freaked out and scared, that hes not ready for that (that hes not as mature as me) and that hes not as grown up about certain things...however I KNOW he liked me, he wasnt ready, but he liked me for sure (conversation, staying up all night, the things he said, and we were so compatible) it cant be that my feelings for him were this strong and his werent, we BOTH spoke to eachohter for hours (i think it was mutual) the only diff was, i was ready and he wasnt. its been 2 + months since we last spoke but im still not over it. I believe that ive never felt this strongly for someone and that it couldnt just end like that. That he WILL come back to me when he IS ready. Do you think thats crazy? my friends wedding is in 2 yrs, and he'll be there, and i just think he'll fall for me. Im not 'waitng' around for him b/c im trying to pursue other guys but ive gotten pickier b/c i think the only way i can get over the dude is if i find someone like him or better and i havent yet. what bothers me the most is that it ended before it even started. I just cant get over that, its worse than me finding out my bf cheated b/c he didnt even do anything wrong, it was just bad timing. Is there anything I can do?
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (3 December 2009):
princessjasmine is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes, but HOW do i make thiings bettter, i havent had such chemistry EVER in my life. I cant get over this, and you're right all i said was that i was into him, and he got all scared, and i did not mean at all that iw anted to commit to him. i dont wanna b the one going back to him, but the chemistry we had, im never gona find like i dont think iv ever liked someone THIS much, and im 23
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2009): Nobody is ever like the other person. Stop comparing other guys to him or else you wont find anyone. I think its totali immature of him to get freaked out over something so little,its not like you told him you're inlove with him and wanna commit. This guy is clearli not for you. Poster,you can find compatibility almost any where but chemistry is very rare so if you feel its nothing more of compatibility then find someone else,mature enough to stay after disclosing such information, but if its chemistry then try get ahold of him and fix things between the both of you. DO NOT,i repeat,DO NOT APOLOGIZE FOR LETTING HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL, irrespective of how freaked out you got. If he still hasn't 'grown up' then I vote you continue in you quest of finding someone that'l care for you as much as you would like. Good luck
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